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Before u judge me or my decision, just hear a bit of my story

I am in my early twenties, an orphan, I was actually adopted, I realized this last two years after my foster parents died in an accident. All my life I've always thought that they were my real parents, till they died, then all my uncles, aunts and all relatives became my enemies and threw me out because I wasn't their blood, I wasn't related to them in any way. to avoid being judged by people, they sent me to stay with a family friend in the pretence that I'll continue my education there, I went there and the reverse was the case, I wasted one whole year as a house help after which they called me one day and told me to leave that they had to relocate abroad, I had no other option than to leave. I contacted my so called uncle that told me to go there and he said I should go to Lagos and stay with my cousin sister who's married.
So I've been in Lagos for six months, trying to make ends meet, I got a sales girl job twice and lost them all because I didn't sleep with my boss, sounds funny right? All of a sudden, my cousin and her husband started acting funny towards me, if I cook, they'll say it's tasteless, I fetch water, they said I contaminated it, it now dawned to me that they want me to leave, I called that uncle again, he shouted at me and said that am no longer a kid that I should go sort myself out, that I can even go into prostitution that he doesn't care..
Its like the world is against me
maybe its a crime that I was born
I curse the womb that gave birth to me to come to this world to suffer, whether she's dead or alive, she'll know no peace..
I'm not writing this to be pitied or helped, because nobody helps anybody without getting anything in return
I wish I wasnt born..

You are right. Nobody helps any without getting anything in return. I wonder why human beings are wicked even without provocation. Your wicked relatives have stranded you in life. I won't be surprised if they are religious. Take heart sis, you can only do your best and hope for the best.

This is so sad.
Emotions running over while reading the story of your life.
Please NEVER GIVE UP.
It is people like you are that go on in life to be sooo successful and great.
Don't let all the negative things happening to you right now make you give up.
Be STRONG dear.
The HARDER the battle , the SWEETER the victory.
God is smiling at you right now saying 'look at my daughter, how I wish she knows what I have in stock for her', are you smiling now ?
Don't worry, everything will be fine soon.

Those of us that know our parents at all and that still have them alive don't know what so much joy that brings.

Goodgirlgonebad:
Before u judge me or my decision, just hear a bit of my story

I am in my early twenties, an orphan, I was actually adopted, I realized this last two years after my foster parents died in an accident. All my life I've always thought that they were my real parents, till they died, then all my uncles, aunts and all relatives became my enemies and threw me out because I wasn't their blood, I wasn't related to them in any way. to avoid being judged by people, they sent me to stay with a family friend in the pretence that I'll continue my education there, I went there and the reverse was the case, I wasted one whole year as a house help after which they called me one day and told me to leave that they had to relocate abroad, I had no other option than to leave. I contacted my so called uncle that told me to go there and he said I should go to Lagos and stay with my cousin sister who's married.
So I've been in Lagos for six months, trying to make ends meet, I got a sales girl job twice and lost them all because I didn't sleep with my boss, sounds funny right? All of a sudden, my cousin and her husband started acting funny towards me, if I cook, they'll say it's tasteless, I fetch water, they said I contaminated it, it now dawned to me that they want me to leave, I called that uncle again, he shouted at me and said that am no longer a kid that I should go sort myself out, that I can even go into prostitution that he doesn't care..
Its like the world is against me
maybe its a crime that I was born
I curse the womb that gave birth to me to come to this world to suffer, whether she's dead or alive, she'll know no peace..
I'm not writing this to be pitied or helped, because nobody helps anybody without getting anything in return
I wish I wasnt born..

Be strong, dear. Trust in the Lord. I believe your breakthrough is coming soon.
Be persistent and positve. Winners don't quit, quitters don't win.

Hey don't ever type the word suicide anymore,how can we help??r u open for help??

We can start a Twitter campaign for you. Maybe one good Samaritan will locate you and help.

or You Try Independence. You seek a teaching Job even if it is nursery or Primary teacher, save up some cash(don't live a classic life), Start making snacks like Chin Chin or bonse which you will sell in school canteen during break time or school dismissal. Save up more money, and start up a restaurant business at least you are sure of 11000 naira Everyday

Trust me,It starts small small till it gets big. Many people has survived with this strategy in Aba Abịa State

Never leave the people giving you shelter until you are ready to stand on your own

Goodgirlgonebad:
Before u judge me or my decision, just hear a bit of my story

I am in my early twenties, an orphan, I was actually adopted, I realized this last two years after my foster parents died in an accident. All my life I've always thought that they were my real parents, till they died, then all my uncles, aunts and all relatives became my enemies and threw me out because I wasn't their blood, I wasn't related to them in any way. to avoid being judged by people, they sent me to stay with a family friend in the pretence that I'll continue my education there, I went there and the reverse was the case, I wasted one whole year as a house help after which they called me one day and told me to leave that they had to relocate abroad, I had no other option than to leave. I contacted my so called uncle that told me to go there and he said I should go to Lagos and stay with my cousin sister who's married.
So I've been in Lagos for six months, trying to make ends meet, I got a sales girl job twice and lost them all because I didn't sleep with my boss, sounds funny right? All of a sudden, my cousin and her husband started acting funny towards me, if I cook, they'll say it's tasteless, I fetch water, they said I contaminated it, it now dawned to me that they want me to leave, I called that uncle again, he shouted at me and said that am no longer a kid that I should go sort myself out, that I can even go into prostitution that he doesn't care..
Its like the world is against me
maybe its a crime that I was born
I curse the womb that gave birth to me to come to this world to suffer, whether she's dead or alive, she'll know no peace..
I'm not writing this to be pitied or helped, because nobody helps anybody without getting anything in return
I wish I wasnt born..

Sister, you are loved. Even when people you thought were family do not love you, there are still a million other people out there who are willing and eager to love you genuinely.

This is not about religion (as the first commenter to your post said). I find that comment of his very stupid to say the least despite not offering any sensible councel alongside.

This is about people and their rather selfish and wicked ways which cuts across all skin types, nations and tribes irrespective of religious affiliation or a lack of.

Is there any way someone can reach out to you outside Nairaland? Where do you stay currently? What state?

Jesus loved you my dear, one with God is majority, I was born the same way but God changed my story and rewrite my history.
Seek him now that is not too late.
May God show you great kindness

Madam I've been there lets talk.

email me ur digits lemme call u
Chiedu7@yahoo.com

post=69088286:
This is so sad.
Emotions running over while reading the story of your life.
Please NEVER GIVE UP.
It is people like you are that go on in life to be sooo successful and great.
Don't let all the negative things happening to you right now make you give up.
Be STRONG dear.
The HARDER the battle , the SWEETER the victory.
God is smiling at you right now saying 'look at my daughter, how I wish she knows what I have in stock for her', are you smiling now ?
Don't worry, everything will be fine soon.

Those of us that know our parents at all and that still have them alive don't know what so much joy that brings.

Talk talk...

Na all these wan give the girl wetin to chop?

bla bla bla bla...

I smell scam tho

Goodgirlgonebad:
Before u judge me or my decision, just hear a bit of my story

I am in my early twenties, an orphan, I was actually adopted, I realized this last two years after my foster parents died in an accident. All my life I've always thought that they were my real parents, till they died, then all my uncles, aunts and all relatives became my enemies and threw me out because I wasn't their blood, I wasn't related to them in any way. to avoid being judged by people, they sent me to stay with a family friend in the pretence that I'll continue my education there, I went there and the reverse was the case, I wasted one whole year as a house help after which they called me one day and told me to leave that they had to relocate abroad, I had no other option than to leave. I contacted my so called uncle that told me to go there and he said I should go to Lagos and stay with my cousin sister who's married.
So I've been in Lagos for six months, trying to make ends meet, I got a sales girl job twice and lost them all because I didn't sleep with my boss, sounds funny right? All of a sudden, my cousin and her husband started acting funny towards me, if I cook, they'll say it's tasteless, I fetch water, they said I contaminated it, it now dawned to me that they want me to leave, I called that uncle again, he shouted at me and said that am no longer a kid that I should go sort myself out, that I can even go into prostitution that he doesn't care..
Its like the world is against me
maybe its a crime that I was born
I curse the womb that gave birth to me to come to this world to suffer, whether she's dead or alive, she'll know no peace..
I'm not writing this to be pitied or helped, because nobody helps anybody without getting anything in return
I wish I wasnt born..

Your story (life) is yet to be completed. I urge you to finish your story. So much can still happen and change in a moment. This is far from the end rather the beginning.

May Allah bless and help you.
No problem, with difficulty comes ease.
It's your "family" that will still come to beg you later on...

post=69088286:
This is so sad.
Emotions running over while reading the story of your life.
Please NEVER GIVE UP.
It is people like you are that go on in life to be sooo successful and great.
Don't let all the negative things happening to you right now make you give up.
Be STRONG dear.
The HARDER the battle , the SWEETER the victory.
God is smiling at you right now saying 'look at my daughter, how I wish she knows what I have in stock for her', are you smiling now ?
Don't worry, everything will be fine soon.

Those of us that know our parents at all and that still have them alive don't know what so much joy that brings.

D stronger I try to be, the harder it is for me, I cry myself to sleep everyday

GWILLCONCEPT:
Jesus loved you my dear, one with God is majority, I was born the same way but God changed my story and rewrite my history.
Seek him now that is not too late.
May God show you great kindness

Sorry to say this but don't talk to me about God
He sees my condition but wat did he do

BiafranBushBoy:
I smell scam tho

Like I said, I don't need ur help,
And may God forgive u

Butterflyleo:
Sister, you are loved. Even when people you thought were family do not love you, there are still a million other people out there who are willing and eager to love you genuinely.

This is not about religion (as the first commenter to your post said). I find that comment of his very stupid to say the least despite not offering any sensible councel alongside.

This is about people and their rather selfish and wicked ways which cuts across all skin types, nations and tribes irrespective of religious affiliation or a lack of.

Is there any way someone can reach out to you outside Nairaland? Where do you stay currently? What state?

I'm in Lagos

goodgirlgonebad, you've been born is youve been born, people have found themselves in worst situations than you and made it out better. Encourage yourself, no one will do that for you. Be focused and determined, look for more jobs and ignore your so called family. Acquire skills and you will be very ok. I wish you the best. Take the thought of committing suicide out of your mind totally, dont make it an option.

faithy314:
Hey don't ever type the word suicide anymore,how can we help??r u open for help??

Thanks, but I wrote this cos I've given up on help
Nothing goes for nothing

BiafranBushBoy:
Talk talk...

Na all these wan give the girl wetin to chop?

bla bla bla bla...

Even if you are SLOW, don't bring the foolishness to this kind of thread, if that is the way you go all around Nairaland typing rubbish.
What sense have you contributed with the trash you typed?
We.take things gradually where we come from when it comes to philanthropy.
You watch and act and give the benefit of doubt.
Stop doing cho cho cho if you have nothing to say.
F.

Goodgirlgonebad:
Thanks, but I wrote this cos I've given up on help
Nothing goes for nothing

how can I help??,how do we chat privately??

faithy314:
how can I help??,how do we chat privately??

u can drop ur email, I'll send u my digits

Goodgirlgonebad:
Like I said, I don't need ur help,
And may God forgive u

If you didn't need help, you shouldn't have brought it here...

many other scammers have brought up worse tactics than this.

I suggest you try harder!

post=69090457:
Even if you are SLOW, don't bring the foolishness to this kind of thread, if that is the way you go all around Nairaland typing rubbish.
What sense have you contributed with the trash you typed?
We.take things gradually where we come from when it comes to philantrophy.
You watch and act and give the benefit of doubt.
Stop doing cho cho cho if you have nothing to say.
F.

Shut the Bleep up!

If I can't trust you to spell common philanthropy correctly, how can I trust you to help someone!

Your level of illiteracy is on the high side, I wonder what gives you the morale to type shiit with confidence.

Every new day comes with a new format. Watching though

BiafranBushBoy:
Shut the Bleep up!

If I can't trust you to spell common philanthropy correctly, how can I trust you to help someone!

Your level of illiteracy is on the high side, I wonder what gives you the morale to type shiit with confidence.

Your cho cho cho cho mouth won't send you to jail soon this little kid.
Little boy is talking of spelling (characteristics of the kids on Nairaland, they quickly rush to see a mistype and masturbate on it
Now we've given you a minute of our precious time that you have been craving for 2 weeks now.
Now you are m*sturbating and can walk like a champion in your hood that we luckily replied you at last.
See him mouth, little village teenager of a kid.
Abeg go queue.....and congrats once more.
TTTH henceforth.

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Can anyone confirm this story and the identity of the OP?

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Geraldyne:
u can drop ur email, I'll send u my digits

Goodgirlgonbad I guess you didn't realise you posted this with your real moniker Geraldyne.

I have taken my time to go through your real moniker and I am more inclined to think your whole story is a lie.

You can still prove me wrong though but if it already smells like dead fish, then its most likely dead fish.

So this template is on here.... .... Man must chaw....



Aunty please take your life asap... Minus one from the money wey them WAn share.....

Geraldyne:
u can drop ur email, I'll send u my digits

Now am lost.... Who is geraldyne?...... And going through all the topics you created you no strike me like person wey life Don tired....




ScamAlert

post=69092730:
Your cho cho cho cho mouth won't send you to jail soon this little kid.
Little boy is talking of spelling (characteristics of the kids on Nairaland, they quickly rush to see a mistype and masturbate on it
Now we've given you a minute of our precious time that you have been craving for 2 weeks now.
Now you are m*sturbating and can walk like a champion in your hood that we luckily replied you at last.
See him mouth, little village teenager of a kid.
Abeg go queue.....and congrats once more.
TTTH henceforth.

Yo legion?

Who're the WE?

I still repeat that your illiteracy level on the high side... What gives you the feeling that you're someone that I can feel happy having a convo with?

You come off me as someone who barely finished high school... Yo know what that means?

Means yo shitt! I mean... Dirty black shiit...

azraeljaheel:
Now am lost.... Who is geraldyne?...... And going through all the topics you created you no strike me like person wey life Don tired....




ScamAlert

I already knew the whole scam shiit!!!

The format don cast....

Anybody wey one commit suicide should go ahead...

I have been in this game so long to know scammers. Geraldyne... Sorry babe,

GAME OVER!!!