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Help Help Help by Flatonja(op): 7:35am On Jul 05, 2018
I am a student in one of the state universities. A week after my birthday I discovered my Girlfriend is pregnant. I know it's very wrong but I suggested shewe should abort it, she refused that nothing is ever going to happen to the baby.
Am financially handicapped as I can even take care of myself(we are both students) talk more of taking care of the baby and mother. Due to how popular her mum is she decided to run from the house and trave to neighbouring state where she doesn't even know anybody.
I have tried to talk against but she is not changing her mind.
I should just go and tell her people everything that happened us to forestall this impending danger.
Re: Help Help Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:42am On Jul 05, 2018
shouldnt you have thought of this BEFORE you started mounting her unprotected?! sadly, you can NEVER force a woman to abort a child she is carrying. the ultimate decision will always be HERS and HERS ONLY.

so if this lady has decided that she wants to keep it, then i suggest you start looking for way to cater for the needs of that said baby.

next time, use bloody condoms!
Re: Help Help Help by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:43am On Jul 05, 2018
I know how you feel at this point .
But now, e din happen.
You have to be brave now.
You are now a man.
It may be painful now, but in the future you will be glad you keep YOUR baby, at least you'll be happy to see your child already 20 years when you are 42!

So my advice to you is the very last paragraph of your thread, which is :(I should just go and tell her people everything that happened us to forestall this impending danger).
All the best!
Re: Help Help Help by izzou(m): 7:43am On Jul 05, 2018
grin grin grin grin grin

Let me laugh small Abeg. grin grin grin grin grin grin

Did you even consider that aborting the child puts her life at risk? If anything goes wrong, you'll run away and marry another girl.

And you are not even financially capable of taking care of yourself, but your sexually capable of shooting your sperm into her grin

Oga, this is the period to accept responsibility. Be a man. E Don happen be say, e Don happen. You'll be a father now. Such a pity your child was born inside this hardship. But then, accept responsibility and take care of your family

Let me still laugh small abeg grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Help Help Help by Elmojiid(m): 7:48am On Jul 05, 2018
baba baby...when she born invite us make we come chop jollof rice.
Re: Help Help Help by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:49am On Jul 05, 2018
Elmojiid:
baba baby...when she born invite us make we come chop jollof rice.
Chai, weekend piple!
Re: Help Help Help by Elmojiid(m): 7:51am On Jul 05, 2018
[quote author= post=69095995]Chai, weekend piple![/quote]no be so my oga.
Re: Help Help Help by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:02am On Jul 05, 2018
Elmojiid:
no be so my oga.
wink cheesy
Re: Help Help Help by milemimi93(m): 8:05am On Jul 05, 2018
I can't feel for you, you know why?
It is because condom is cheap.

The bae wants to cripple your life that's why she's keeping that bastard.

Op how are you sure that you are responsible for that pregnancy?

Don't trust evry word that comes out from a being that cannot close legs while urinating oo.
Re: Help Help Help by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 05, 2018
Please go ahead and report yourself to her family. That's the best option for you.
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