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Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 11:49pm On Jun 22, 2010
In saying so, I try at all the times not to be rude to anyone when I get mood swings which I generally have success in, as I'm not generally a rude person. But most times I shut people out, I dont recon that someone is around me. I stay in a shell and mind my own business.

I know its wrong, but thats what I do when I am on my monthly (that alone is a hell for me).

Am I the only one?

Does this happen to yall?
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 11:57pm On Jun 22, 2010
Lolz hmm i dunno about dat sha. . .
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 12:00am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

Lolz hmm i dunno about dat sha. . .
So at no time you never feel like just having time to yourself not giving a crap about who's around?
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by madlady(f): 12:23am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

Lolz hmm i dunno about dat sha. . .

Little sis you know you do. wink




Yes  I like to be on my own if I am feeling stressed or in pain, it's much better than being rude or giving my other half stress. wink
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by kay29000(m): 12:28am On Jun 23, 2010
yeah, it happens to all of us, at one time or d other. i am a guy, so i cant attribute my mode swings to monthly period. i think i was always in a bad mode then because i didnt av a girlfriend n wasnt getting sex, so i felt i was missing out. apart from ur period, is there something else? u av to develop a passion for something that will always keep u happy.
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 12:31am On Jun 23, 2010
Carolece:

So at no time you never feel like just having time to yourself not giving a crap about who's around?
Ofcourse it has kinda always been dat way, cause it's only ever been me anywayz no bro no sis. . .hehe so?i no dey shut pple out doe. lipsrsealed
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by madlady(f): 12:33am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

Ofcourse it has kinda always been dat way, cause it's only ever been me anywayz no bro no sis. . .hehe so?i no dey shut pple out doe. lipsrsealed

What about your big sis cry cry
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 12:35am On Jun 23, 2010
madlady:

What about your big sis cry cry
No bro & no sis living in d house nao. . .u always dey go your bf house leave me all alone nao. . . undecided tongue
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 12:36am On Jun 23, 2010
madlady:

Little sis you know you do. wink


Hmmm let me see if I can make this reply romantic wink

Yes I like to be on my own if I am feeling stressed or in pain, it's much better than being rude or giving my other half stress. wink
LOL yeah I know, I get it wrong at times, I spend so much time in the romantic section of the forum, I just post a thread LOL

I wont do it again  grin thanks for the reminder  grin
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by madlady(f): 12:39am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

No bro & no sis living in d house nao. . .u always dey go your bf house leave me all alone nao. . . undecided tongue
See vexation kiss kiss kiss lipsrsealed
Carolece:

LOL yeah I know, I get it wrong at times, I spend so much time in the romantic section of the forum, I just post a thread LOL

I wont do it again grin thanks for the reminder grin

wink kiss
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by violent(m): 12:40am On Jun 23, 2010
I sort of do this a lot. . . i dislike folks crowding out my space when all i needed is a lil extra time to clear my head!. . .and yeah, sometimes it appears I'm being rude. .  .but really, i don't give a rat's árse!
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 12:41am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

Ofcourse it has kinda always been dat way, cause it's only ever been me anywayz no bro no sis. . .hehe so?i no dey shut pple out doe. lipsrsealed

I kinda grow up that way too, spend alot of time by myself, probably that "taught" me how to shut the world out.
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 12:43am On Jun 23, 2010
violent:

I sort of do this a lot. . . i dislike folks crowding out my space when all i needed is a lil extra time to clear my head!. . .and yeah, sometimes it appears I'm being rude. . .but really, i don't give a rat's árse!

WOW thats me in a mirror. shocked
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 12:45am On Jun 23, 2010
madlady:

See vexation kiss kiss kiss lipsrsealed
angry grin tongue kiss

Carolece:

I kinda grow up that way too, spend alot of time by myself, probably that "taught" me how to shut the world out.
Hmmm but some people r just annoying anywayz. . . undecided
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by whiteroses(f): 12:56am On Jun 23, 2010
try to keep calm, some people are short tempered like that, you wont do yourself any favour if you snap at people so often its the most unattractive ting in the world
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 1:00am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

Hmmm but some people r just annoying anywayz. . . undecided
right! especially when they are loud and obnoxcious. just cant take when people encroach on your personal space, whether it be verbally or physically. its so annoying.
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 1:05am On Jun 23, 2010
^Right so dat's y u just avoid dem so u don't end up lashing out @ dem.
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by violent(m): 1:11am On Jun 23, 2010
whiteroses:

try to keep calm, some people are short tempered like that, you wont do yourself any favour if you snap at people so often its the most unattractive ting in the world

I doubt if this is a case of short temper!

As an example, I'm a fun loving adventurous guy, pretty much the best person anyone could ever come across. . . .but sometimes, all i need is a fresh breathe, and some space. . .i want to come up with my own solutions to my problems. . . .and i don't want friends offering all sorts of sympathy, unsolicited helps and phone calls. . . . i just want a damn space to think . . .that shouldn't be too much to ask!
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 1:11am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

^Right so dat's y u just avoid dem so u don't end up lashing out @ dem.
Exactly! I generally do so with my earphones in full blast  grin
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 1:17am On Jun 23, 2010
Carolece:

Exactly! I generally do so with my earphones in full blast grin
Ur own still dey ok. . .me wey no get headphones ko. . . embarassed undecided grin tongue
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Carolece(f): 1:19am On Jun 23, 2010
Pweety4me:

your own still dey ok. . .me wey no get headphones ko. . . embarassed undecided grin tongue
works for me as I love music. What do you do?
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by GL(f): 1:19am On Jun 23, 2010
i get mood swings when i'm stressed or when i go a while without having time alone. i also have to try not to be rude and i'm usually successful at it, but that makes me miserable. something that helps me in that situation is listening to music at high volumes while playing games or browsing.


i don't see it as me being a pain though, considering that it's me who is in pain from trying to be nice and polite. plus, i always try to respect other people's personal space and if they wouldn't invade mine then i wouldn't have to shut them out.
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by Pweety4me(f): 1:25am On Jun 23, 2010
Carolece:

works for me as I love music. What do you do?
Have patience i guess. . . embarassed
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by iice(f): 1:29am On Jun 23, 2010
I'm am who i am. . .not mood swings. i just don't like people and don't really care to deal with all their wahala.  I like my space.  Yes i've been called rude for not telling someone to take a hike in the way like i'm talking to a baby.  Goo goo, gah gah. . .abeg carry go jor. . .there are many people for you to disturb jare. grin
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by mukina2: 1:34am On Jun 23, 2010
iice:

I'm am who i am. . .not mood swings.  i just don't like people and don't really care to deal with all their wahala.  I like my space.  Yes i've been called rude for not telling someone to take a hike in the way like i'm talking to a baby.  Goo goo, gah gah. . .abeg carry go jor. . .there are many people for you to disturb jare. grin
grin grin kiss
Re: Sometimes I Can Be A Pain To Be Around. by iice(f): 1:59am On Jun 23, 2010
mukina2:

grin grin kiss

Hey darl kiss kiss kiss
No be true? grin

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