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Blindsided By Love & I Cannot Get Past It To Save My Marriage by Beke2020: 8:36pm On Aug 24, 2018
Good evening Admin,

My wife and I are having a hard time even though our marriage is just two years old. I admit,I saw the signs but I was either too naive or stupidly in love to admit that.Right now,I find it really hard to trust that my wife can ever be truly in love with me and I have come to the realization that I cannot live with that.

I met Medline (not real name) three years ago. She had just broken up with her ex. She seemed pretty burned in the relationship so she didn’t really trust my intentions when I approached her. She said she was not ready for dating or long relationships. She wanted to get married right away if I was truly serious about her. All well and fine,I agreed cos I was blown away and in love with her.

In four months of knowing her,we already stated marriage talks and we had our introduction,wedding in the eight month. Medline is a lovely girl,educated,smart and very caring. One area I did however did not notice her flaws was that she was still in love with her ex. Even though the guy burned her,she seemed to be in love with him.

I noticed she still followed him on social media. I am a free minded person and I didn’t think anything of it. In fact,some of my exs are my friends on social media. But the trouble started when we......more



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Re: Blindsided By Love & I Cannot Get Past It To Save My Marriage by DavidEsq(m): 8:38pm On Aug 24, 2018
Huh?
Re: Blindsided By Love & I Cannot Get Past It To Save My Marriage by zinnydan(f): 8:39pm On Aug 24, 2018
Chai....
Re: Blindsided By Love & I Cannot Get Past It To Save My Marriage by Beke2020: 6:30pm On Aug 27, 2018
; :Dope ooo
zinnydan:
Chai....

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