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frozen70:
He is not being sincere to you

What makes you think his mother said so, both of you are from the same place, does your family have bad names or bad records that made his mother to refuse?

He has politely told you that you guys will remain friends while he keep searching for who he wants

If you can confront his mother about it pls do, ask her why she doesn't want this relationship that his son said you are not in support, give your reason.

But if you feel you can't confront his mother, move on with your life and keep searching

These are one of the excuses guys give when they can't face you and tell you to your face that they can't marry you but can continue bleeping you

He is yet to get the kind of woman he wants to marry

Don't allow him to keep you floating
Find your way pls

His mother doesn't owe the OP any explanation... Na mate cause am ni?

frozen70:
He is not being sincere to you

What makes you think his mother said so, both of you are from the same place, does your family have bad names or bad records that made his mother to refuse?

He has politely told you that you guys will remain friends while he keep searching for who he wants

If you can confront his mother about it pls do, ask her why she doesn't want this relationship that his son said you are not in support, give your reason.

But if you feel you can't confront his mother, move on with your life and keep searching

These are one of the excuses guys give when they can't face you and tell you to your face that they can't marry you but can continue bleeping you

He is yet to get the kind of woman he wants to marry

Don't allow him to keep you floating
Find your way pls

We are not from the same place, but we are both yoruba

chuk5584:
I never said he wasted my life. The relationship is just barely over a month, I should be thankful for his sincerity

Is there any meme attached to your post?

It's showing attachment, attachment, attachment, attachment..

I used to be that way towards Ijebu odes despite being one because of personal issue, but its a family thing and individual thing, not every family is wicked

Sapphire11:
Thanks to all that responded to my first thread. He actually wanted a serious relationship, tho he had previously told me that his mother doesn't want him to marry from my town (we are from same tribe). He went to see his mother about it last week and he said we should be back to being friends
This is so sad especially since we are both from the same tribe, it's not like he's igbo and I'm Hausa or something of such nature. Our parents can be sometimes biased in their orientation, when will they realize it's more about the person in question and not his place of origin?
He was born and raised in my town, his parents have their house here, their business and everything is here so I wonder why his mum is insistent on him not being with someone from that same town.

you were dating a boy...not a man

Guitarlife:
@bolded
Op you know that will make you look stupid right ?

Just as stupid as you are