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hey how Y'all doing, I just want 2 ask Y'all if it's normal 2 beat ur little bro or sister some times, I'm very temperaturefull person, and i quickly get angry if someone did omething 2 me, i have a cute 14 years little bro, he's nice, but he doesn't respect me sometimes, if he argues or says words back 2 me, i got mad and start beating him, it really gets on me, and i feel unconfortable about it, i don't wanna hit him, i regrat everytime i did, you know, he's born and grown up in here, and we all know how kids like him think, he might think that i hate him, whcih I'm not, i  really love him, and don't wanna hit him, so what am trying 2 do is, what should i do 2 handle my temperature, and show him my love?

[quote author=shakerz_1 link=topic=475981.msg6354791#msg6354791 date=1278643634]hey how Y'all doing, I just want 2 ask Y'all if it's normal 2 beat your little bro or sister some times, I'm very temperaturefull person, and i quickly get angry if someone did omething 2 me, i have a cute 14 years little bro, he's nice, but he doesn't respect me sometimes, if he argues or says words back 2 me, i got mad and start beating him, it really gets on me, and i feel unconfortable about it, i don't wanna hit him, i regrat everytime i did, you know, he's born and grown up in here, and we all know how kids like him think, he might think that i hate him, whcih I'm not, i  really love him, and don't wanna hit him, so what am trying 2 do is, what should i do 2 handle my temperature, and show him my love?[/quote]Talk to him and let him know how you feel. I get the same way too with my brother who's also 14 yrs old. I used to hit him as well but I stopped. He's grown quite a bit. When I used to hit him, he was smaller than me. I'm 5'9 ½ and now he's almost 6'1". The only thing I can actually do is pin him on the ground if we get into a fight or lock my arms around him and prevent him from moving. Aside from that, there's nothing I can do. Now I just end up saying mean things to him when I get mad at him. I try talking to him but the boy is just so damn hard headed

Younger brothers and sisters can be a pain at times but you need to check yourself before you wreck yourself. When you get married and your wife annoys you, are you telling me you are going to beat her?

[color=#9900ff]Sometimes its better to just talk to them[/color]