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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by GidiWoodsMan: 1:07pm On Oct 20, 2018
DeepSight:


Please this is gibberish. We live in a relatively enlightened and modern world (by some degree) and there is no reason to label promiscuous women "whores" while labeling the promiscuity of men "the law of creation" and actually defending same as proper and in order.

One thing you need to recognize is that things were only skewed in favour of men because in times gone past, physical brawn was required to survive. That is why it was a man's world and men got to set the standards in favour of their whims and caprices. Today, what is required to survive is more intellectual and this has leveled the playing field. Your argument is therefore archaic.

We just deceive ourselves that its more natural for men to sleep around. That is not true. Any person really experienced in life will tell you that women have just as great a sexual impulse as men do - in many instances even a greater one. Women have a very natural impulse to sleep around and this too is actually nothing but nature at work. Might I also add that attraction to powerful men is also nature at work - the same thing happens in the jungle. If your wife leaves you for a more powerful man, she is not being a "LovePeddler" - that is nothing but nature at work.

Don't get your panties in a twist, madame. No one has a problem with 'attraction to powerful men'. And that statement contradicts your previous assertion about a level playing field too.

The average man will always be more powerful than the average woman because of fundamental physiological differences between the sexes. And a powerful man will always have more than one woman whenever his society does not put artificial restrictions on him. I think we are basically saying the same thing.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:08pm On Oct 20, 2018
deebrain:


A woman should have equal privileges as multiple partners. Like I said its a free world. But have you noticed that most women tend to carry over the scars of a failed relationship into the other? Its not natural for women to do it even if its allowed. Get my point.

Most humans do this.
In fact, its almost impossible for a human being, male or female, not to carry over some scars.

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by donnie(m): 1:09pm On Oct 20, 2018
DeepSight:


Please be so kind as to leave my late father out of this conversation.

I'm sorry about your Dad.



DeepSight:
I can only repeat that your perception of the meaning of beauty is terrifyingly limited. And in that regard I can only feel sorry for you: for with such a mindset as this much will remain closed to you.

Question1: are you male or female?
Question2: are you married?

[quote author=DeepSight post=72255945]
I am tempted to ask where you grew up?

In Nigeria (thank God), certainly not in the US
cool

DeepSight:

So why did you say that?



Who made this rule and is it binding on everyone in the world?

I'm a Christian and it is binding on all who want to glorify God (The author of scripture) and be happy in life.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by deebrain(m): 1:10pm On Oct 20, 2018
DeepSight:


Most humans do this.
In fact, its almost impossible for a human being, male or female, not to carry over some scars.


True. We all have issues.

I'm talking about percentage here.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:13pm On Oct 20, 2018
GidiWoodsMan:


Don't get your panties in a twist, madame.

I am Sir, thank you very much Sir.

No one has a problem with 'attraction to powerful men'. And that statement contradicts your previous assertion about a level playing field too.

No it does not. You need to understand that men and women flaunt different types of power. Thus in the reverse, men are attracted to powerful women too. The sort of power that pulls that attraction is usually a different kind of power. Usually soft power - which, be not deceived, is no less power.

The average man will always be more powerful than the average woman because of fundamental physiological differences between the sexes.

This is only true in terms of physicality.

And a powerful man will always have more than one woman whenever his society does not put artificial restrictions on him.

And I can repeat this statement with equal validity in favour of women. A powerful woman will always have more than one man whenever her society does not impose artificial restrictions.

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by Seahawk: 1:13pm On Oct 20, 2018
Oh shut the fvck up with your irritating stupid “facts”.

Law of creation undecided
Like how some of you type BS and call it law amazes and confounds me. You’re that cognitively dissonant?
No clue that the femal animal is polygamous as well? Ignorant

GidiWoodsMan:


The male animal is testosterone-driven, territorial and polygamous by nature. He breaks new grounds, spreads his seed everywhere he can and then does his best to fend for them. It's the law of creation.

On the other hand, a woman who jumps from one dīck to the other hand is guaranteed to raise eyebrows because how does she establish the provenance of her offspring? How would she cater for them in a world biased in favour of male-privilege? By turning professional and humping thousands of dīcks? Ashawo work adds zero economic value to the society but these whöres will never learn. . . .

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:21pm On Oct 20, 2018
donnie:


I'm sorry about your Dad.


Not a problem thanks. 24 years under the bridge. I only mentioned that so you do not assume every person would have the same tendencies.

Question1: are you male or female?
Question2: are you married?

Male.
Not married.

In Nigeria (thank God), certainly not in the US

Well so did I and that is no reason for me to limit my views.

I'm a Christian

Good for you.

and it is binding on all who want to glorify God

No I think you mean to say it is binding on those who subscribe to chauvinistic Abrahamic notions.

(The author of scripture)

Men, not God, are the authors of scripture.

and be happy in life.

I am sure you will agree that happiness means different things to different people.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by GrowUpBoys: 1:25pm On Oct 20, 2018
Oloripelebe:
Go and marry ur third husband too na angry grin

Slacky pussy ashawo


You are very stupid for making such a senseless comment. So what if she remarries again to find her true love finally. Wetin you go tell your sister in such a situation with a useless ex? Hypocrites everywhere. How about her ex husband nyashing around here and there and marrying around too? Accept it women are your equal fellow human beings and deserve respect. As a mother she can choose to abort an idiot like you as wrong as it is to take a life and you will have no say. So STFU boy!!

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by djon78: 1:26pm On Oct 20, 2018
The truth is that its a mans world.
Its a man that goes to marry a woman.
So women are meant to be subject to man.

The reason why there are so many issues in our society today is because of deviation from these norms.

Good women build up homes!!
A woman should not compare herself to a man. They are not the same!!


But men should treat there women well. Women see that you respect, submit and obey your men. Its vice versa
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by darlenese(f): 1:28pm On Oct 20, 2018
Oloripelebe:
Go and marry ur third husband too na angry grin

Slacky pussy ashawo


you weren't born of a women I swear .
na goat carry your pregnancy.

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by donnie(m): 1:29pm On Oct 20, 2018
DeepSight:


Male.
Not married.

Not surprised


DeepSight:

Well so did I and that is no reason for me to limit my views.

My views are based on God's Word. And God Word isn't limited but eternal.




DeepSight:

Men, not God, are the authors of scripture.
The Holy Spirit is the author. Men were the writers.

DeepSight:
I am sure you will agree that happiness means different things to different people.

Certainly. True joy is of the Holy Spirit.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:31pm On Oct 20, 2018
djon78:
The truth is that its a mans world.
Its a man that goes to marry a woman.

That is a matter of history and tradition and there are reasons for that which in no way suggest the superiority of the man. If anything, that you have to go and ask for something should show you just how needed that something is. I[i]n this case you are garnering a complimentary being, one no less than yourself, and indeed one with special abilities that you do not have alone - such as the ability to reproduce with you.[/i]

So women are meant to be subject to man.

Please do not repeat this unsophisticated nonsense anywhere.
Do not say it where there are respectable civilized people: I urge you in your interest alone.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by SuccesYear: 1:32pm On Oct 20, 2018
braine:
Is Fathia actually comparing herself with a first class Oba right now?? An Oba that who can decide to have as many wives as he wants? Is Fathia okay at all??
kindly read again but this time gently
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by sassysure: 1:33pm On Oct 20, 2018
So this oba has 2 failed union already?
How are we sure this one will last?


Sometimes I read people saying this is Africa.
Do they really know other African cultural practices?

U stay in ur room and type this is Africa when you haven't visited another state in Nigeria or crossed the international airports.

Okay o. At least start by learning how Ghanaians treat their women.

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:37pm On Oct 20, 2018
donnie:


Not surprised

You have a one track mind as is becoming quite evident.
I of course knew you would draw your conclusions from that alone, without knowing anything else about me or the life I have led.
That is your concern however - I just mention it to help you out of your tunnel vision.

This is very similar of the sort of assumption you made when you said: "ask your dad."

The sort of worldview which suggests that a person who is married (and successfully so, I assume) must subscribe to the notion of male superiority and female submission, simply befuddles me. It is terribly limited, and as I said, unsophisticated.

If you dont mind my asking, how old are you?

My views are based on God's Word. And God Word isn't limited but eternal.

What do you know about how the bible was written and compiled?

The Holy Spirit is the author. Men were the writers.

What convinces you of this and secondly -
Are you aware that many other writings equally claim Divine Inspiration?
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:39pm On Oct 20, 2018
sassysure:
So this oba has 2 failed union already?
How are we sure this one will last?


Sometimes I read people saying this is Africa.
Do they really know other African cultural practices?

U stay in ur room and type this is Africa when you haven't visited another state in Nigeria or crossed the international airports.

Okay o. At least start by learning how Ghanaians treat their women.

Thank you!
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by djon78: 1:41pm On Oct 20, 2018
DeepSight:


That is a matter of history and tradition and there are reasons for that which in no way suggest the superiority of the man. If anything, that you have to go and ask for something should show you just how needed that something is. I[i]n this case you are garnering a complimentary being, one no less than yourself, and indeed one with special abilities that you do not have alone - such as the ability to reproduce with you.[/i]



Please do not repeat this unsophisticated nonsense anywhere.
Do not say it where there are respectable civilized people: I urge you in your interest alone.



Civilisation my foot. As far as am concerned that is the way it is. Do you know woman was created for man. Why is it that majority of women, if they don't have a man in there life, they are incomplete

See women were originally created not to have a meaningful life without a man. Modernity has caused deviation from these norms and society is messed up because of it.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by DeepSight(m): 1:46pm On Oct 20, 2018
djon78:



Civilisation my foot.

Not surprised if that's the stock you place by civilization my friend.

As far as am concerned that is the way it is.

Firm and mighty words from one who is truly an alpha male master.

Do you know woman was created for man.

Please can you educate me as to where you got this notion from?

Why is it that majority of women, if they don't have a man in there life, they are incomplete

Most humans feel somewhat lonely without a se.xual or emotional partner.

See women were originally created not to have a meaningful life without a man.

And men were created to have a meaningful life without women?
This is the most st.upid and infantile statement I have come across this year.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by Nobody: 1:55pm On Oct 20, 2018
It’s Fathia that I want to impregnate grin
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 20, 2018
Oloripelebe:
Go and marry ur third husband too na angry grin

Slacky pussy ashawo
Ur name suits u.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by djon78: 2:08pm On Oct 20, 2018
DeepSight:


Not surprised if that's the stock you place by civilization my friend.



Firm and mighty words from one who is truly an alpha male master.



Please can you educate me as to where you got this notion from?



Most humans feel somewhat lonely without a se.xual or emotional partner.



And men were created to have a meaningful life without women?
This is the most st.upid and infantile statement I have come across this year.



Like I stated, our copying Western civilisation lifestyle has left us detrimental most especially in Africa. That is the bane of Africa's woes.

Modernity has done us no good. Any man that wants peace must be careful the kind of woman, he is bringing into his life.
A woman that submits and respects entirely. The man should on the other hand treat his woman very well.
Why am I saying even this. How many women were our fore fathers married?
My paternal grand father had 2 wives while my maternal grandfather had 3 wives.
But now even one wife a man marries it will be wahala. Why? I believe it still goes back to civilisation. Copying the white man.
Up northern Nigeria, at least they still marry more than one.

Anyway its Christianity though.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by AmazonHippolyta(f): 2:36pm On Oct 20, 2018
djon78:



Like I stated, our copying Western civilisation lifestyle has left us detrimental most especially in Africa. That is the bane of Africa's woes.

Modernity has done us no good. Any man that wants peace must be careful the kind of woman, he is bringing into his life.
A woman that submits and respects entirely. The man should on the other hand treat his woman very well.
Why am I saying even this. How many women were our fore fathers married?
My paternal grand father had 2 wives while my maternal grandfather had 3 wives.
But now even one wife a man marries it will be wahala. Why? I believe it still goes back to civilisation. Copying the white man.
Up northern Nigeria, at least they still marry more than one.

Anyway its Christianity though.

With your post I truly believe we have a lot of educated illiterates.
Before polygamy did not only relate to Africa but other parts of the world.You seem not to know that a lot of polygamous homes are not peaceful.How many people practice polygamy in the 21st century world?
I hate it when people try to be progressive and think outside the box and one mugu would claim we are copying western lifestyle.
Is Christianity an African religion or lifestyle?

It is your type that make it seem like as if only women make a marriage a woman must submit and obey a man because he has a joystick what happened to humans earning what they have.
Something must be wrong with you.Is it a crime if a man does those things you believe a woman should do.D not bring your pre historic holybook to justify nonsense.

For you to say modernization is not good I am currently wishing I had a time machine that would take you back to 1514 where it would be practicable to practice your view of things,where it was 100% a man's world and subject women to a life of slavery.

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by Xfemt(m): 3:47pm On Oct 20, 2018
Oloripelebe:
Go and marry ur third husband too na angry grin

Slacky pussy ashawo
how can u write rubbish u get sense at all

Na wa for some human being oh
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by djon78: 4:48pm On Oct 20, 2018
AmazonHippolyta:


With your post I truly believe we have a lot of educated illiterates.
Before polygamy did not only relate to Africa but other parts of the world.You seem not to know that a lot of polygamous homes are not peaceful.How many people practice polygamy in the 21st century world?
I hate it when people try to be progressive and think outside the box and one mugu would claim we are copying western lifestyle.
Is Christianity an African religion or lifestyle?

It is your type that make it seem like as if only women make a marriage a woman must submit and obey a man because he has a joystick what happened to humans earning what they have.
Something must be wrong with you.Is it a crime if a man does those things you believe a woman should do.D not bring your pre historic holybook to justify nonsense.

For you to say modernization is not good I am currently wishing I had a time machine that would take you back to 1514 where it would be practicable to practice your view of things,where it was 100% a man's world and subject women to a life of slavery.



Madam this is the general view.
Submission is still the key.

That's why I advise men to be very watchful the kind of woman they bring in as wives.


Honestly now I truly begin to appreciate my parents more. There was this girl I wanted to marry, she was doing love love, but immediately I introduced her my dad later that day told me that I should forget about that girl.
I was mad, I no agree. Omo the girl even brought in her parents to beg. Her mama in particular. But my dad said lai lai. I come begin ask him,
I had to agree to them.

But it was later I discovered that lady was those them feminist, hard liner girls. Very strong and stubborn.

Up till today I can't stop thanking my parents. Our elders that have seen life, understands this generation very well.


Why is it that this generation marriage is taken for granted?
It is no longer valued?
Many single women full everywhere?
They focus career, money making?
And neglect marriage?
Why?

The only salvation we have now are some of our elders that were raised by our fore fathers, that are still around.
By the time they depart to great beyond I wonder what the next generations coming will be like.

Anyway for people like me
It is to carry all those lessons I learnt about life
Taught me by my parents and elders
And ensure my children both boys and girls
Must follow that path
That is one thing I am committed to


Women must submit and obey and be in there rightful place in the society

And men to also play there rightful role in marriage not maltreating women

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Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by oloyolo(m): 5:32pm On Oct 20, 2018
donnie:
This socalled feminism is killing society.
And to think that Christian women are buying into this rubbish is even more sad.

The God who made women weaker physically, more emotionally driven and petty in their thinking knew very much what he was doing. No real woman will take pride in having several husbands. Her pride is actually in taking her place behind her husband. That's where her true beauty lies. To try to change it is to deceive yourself.

That's why we have many single women today claiming feminists and an increasing number of sissies calling themselves men (thinking they're being romantic).



lol bro, u know nothing about women, trust me.

what if I told u that men are actually more emotional than women, what if I told you that women in reality are actually cold and calculating.

I know you don't believe me, and I hope you don't because if you do, your whole world and everything you believe in will come crashing.

by the way am not a feminist or anything like that. just a guy who see's through all this gender bullshit
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by Profcamsey(m): 5:44pm On Oct 20, 2018
donnie:
This socalled feminism is killing society.
And to think that Christian women are buying into this rubbish is even more sad.

The God who made women weaker physically, more emotionally driven and petty in their thinking knew very much what he was doing. No real woman will take pride in having several husbands. Her pride is actually in taking her place behind her husband. That's where her true beauty lies. To try to change it is to deceive yourself.

That's why we have many single women today claiming feminists and an increasing number of sissies calling themselves men (thinking they're being romantic).

So your God said man should marry many wives. lmao. You're a failed Christain.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by AmazonHippolyta(f): 6:21pm On Oct 20, 2018
You must be living in 1982,anyways I have no time to reply all you silly thoughts but then again I must say that I do not believe in that type of marriage.I believe in egalitarianism where my husband is my equal and everything we do must be mutual.He submits,respects,love me etc and I do same vice versa and also I am a feminist.I have opinions and sometimes he has to submit to them like I do his.As far as I am concerned society can never tell me where my rightful place is I am the only one with such power to do so.
Bottomline is everybody to their views and believes don't worry you can tell this your nonsense to the women around you and instead of you to be lecturing women on what to do it would be fair and wise that you lecture men on what to do and how to be good husbands.So because your father did not approve of the girl you did not marry okay.Las las na you and the woman plus your parents go dey the marriage.
djon78:




Madam this is the general view.
Submission is still the key.

That's why I advise men to be very watchful the kind of woman they bring in as wives.


Honestly now I truly begin to appreciate my parents more. There was this girl I wanted to marry, she was doing love love, but immediately I introduced her my dad later that day told me that I should forget about that girl.
I was mad, I no agree. Omo the girl even brought in her parents to beg. Her mama in particular. But my dad said lai lai. I come begin ask him,
I had to agree to them.

But it was later I discovered that lady was those them feminist, hard liner girls. Very strong and stubborn.

Up till today I can't stop thanking my parents. Our elders that have seen life, understands this generation very well.


Why is it that this generation marriage is taken for granted?
It is no longer valued?
Many single women full everywhere?
They focus career, money making?
And neglect marriage?
Why?

The only salvation we have now are some of our elders that were raised by our fore fathers, that are still around.
By the time they depart to great beyond I wonder what the next generations coming will be like.

Anyway for people like me
It is to carry all those lessons I learnt about life
Taught me by my parents and elders
And ensure my children both boys and girls
Must follow that path
That is one thing I am committed to


Women must submit and obey and be in there rightful place in the society

And men to also play there rightful role in marriage not maltreating women








Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by djon78: 6:48pm On Oct 20, 2018
AmazonHippolyta:
You must be living in 1982,anyways I have no time to reply all you silly thoughts but then again I must say that I do not believe in that type of marriage.I believe in egalitarianism where my husband is my equal and everything we do must be mutual.He submits,respects,love me etc and I do same vice versa and also I am a feminist.I have opinions and sometimes he has to submit to them like I do his.As far as I am concerned society can never tell me where my rightful place is I am the only one with such power to do so.
Bottomline is everybody to their views and believes don't worry you can tell this your nonsense to the women around you and instead of you to be lecturing women on what to do it would be fair and wise that you lecture men on what to do and how to be good husbands.So because your father did not approve of the girl you did not marry okay.Las las na you and the woman plus your parents go dey the marriage.


Well the most important was that my parents saw what I couldn't see.
And they were right in the end.

As for the feminist thing you typed over there
How many men will subscribe to it.?
Anyway good luck in your search
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by AmazonHippolyta(f): 7:01pm On Oct 20, 2018
djon78:



Well the most important was that my parents saw what I couldn't see.
And they were right in the end.

As for the feminist thing you typed over there
How many men will subscribe to it.?
Anyway good luck in your search



I am not searching for because I do not need one marriage is a choice and not a must.

How many men would subscribe to it?Well there are some and you are not a part of them.Influential male feminist are out there and are better than some local Nigerian men who come to shout submission on nairaland.
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by djon78: 7:06pm On Oct 20, 2018
AmazonHippolyta:


I am not searching for because I do not need one marriage is a choice and not a must.

How many men would subscribe to it?Well there are some and you are not a part of them.Influential male feminist are out there and are better than some local Nigerian men who come to shout submission on nairaland.



Which one be influential male feminist?
Haha maybe Gay's??

Anyway good luck
Re: Stop Insulting Women While Making Excuses For Men Like Ooni - Faithia Balogun by donnie(m): 8:16pm On Oct 20, 2018
Profcamsey:

So your God said man should marry many wives. lmao. You're a failed Christain.

You're cconfused

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