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5 Fears Men Live With Every Day by 24hoursreporter: 6:27am On Nov 29, 2018
We find ourselves in a world that is full of uncertainties. These uncertainties have created fears in many people. In this article, you will learn the 5 fears men live with every day.

Sometimes, fear limits our ability to achieve goals and aspirations in life. In fact, it makes us doubt ourselves and feel as if we are incompetent and unworthy of our dreams.

According to Marianne Williamson “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

5 Fears Men Live With Every day

#1. The Fear Of Failure

The fear of failure is one of the fears men live with every day. As a matter of fact, the fear of failure has limited many people from doing great things in life.

There are several people out there with mindblowing ideas that could change the world. However, the fear of failure discouraged them from taking little risks.

What you fail to realize is that most successful people have embraced failure severally in their lives before getting to where they are. So, take calculated risks, learn from your mistakes and keep doing what you know how to do best.

#2. The Fear Of Being Incompetent

Being incompetent is also among the fears men live with every day. It is in the habit of men to be useful, strive for excellence in their career, etc.

So, they constantly live in the fear of being incompetent and unable to deliver on assigned tasks. Instead of burying yourself in fear, you can identify an area you are good in and perfect your skill accordingly.

#3. The Fear Of Being Perceived Weak

There is nothing demoralizes a man than when other people perceived him as a weakling.

As a matter of fact, the shame and low self-esteem that comes from being perceived weak make a man very predictable and this is weakness itself.

#4. The Fear Of Being Irrelevant

Generally, men always want to be relevant and exercise dominion over other people. So, one of the fears they live with is the fear of being irrelevant.

Make yourself valuable to people around you and try to be outstanding at what you do. This will make you relevant in any place you find yourself.

#5. The Fear Of Looking Foolish

This is also one of the fears men live with every day. The fear of looking foolish has prevented many men from making valuable contributions in meetings and other social gatherings.

There is actually nothing wrong in saying the wrong thing in a gathering. After all, you are entitled to your own opinion. It is better to make mistakes for others to correct you than keeping your thoughts to yourself.

Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2018/11/28/5-fears-men-live-with-every-day/

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Re: 5 Fears Men Live With Every Day by 24hoursreporter: 6:28am On Nov 29, 2018
The easiest way to overcome your fear is to realize that fear itself is a liar

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