Now 2018 is over and you see many people posting :new year new me! Actually it is a new year but not a new you.i would prefer if you say new year wiser you.
As an individual you pass through different circumstances and problems and you proffer solutions,how you handle a particular problem is different from the way of other people will handle it. As the saying goes nothing is new under the sun,whatever you are facing is what some else has faced.

Quite the habit of comparison, stop comparing your self to others because you don’t know how the person got to that stage. Problems of humans is that they compare their tenth step to another man’s hundredth step, this action discourages the spirit hereby leading to depression,jealousy and even suicide.Comparison is an attitude you have to drop in 2018,if you want a better 2019.
You should also know that when someone falls out of your life, maybe they are not supposed to share in the level that you are going to maybe they are supposed to be left behind You should not for any reason force anyone to stay with you. If they know your worth they wont leave. Don’t ever displease your self again to please some one who will still not be satisfied.

Another thing is when things fall out of your plan maybe they are not supposed to be part of your success story,maybe they are supposed to be left behind.when a particular thing is not working as planned, maybe it wasn’t meant for you. Don’t kill yourself trying to do the impossible. Try doing something else it might just work out perfectly for you. Wish all Nairaladers prosperous 2019