Please parents stop beating your children for every secret they tell you; This may sound awkward but you are actually putting your child and your self in danger by beating or disciplining your child,if they tell you that they did or they are doing something in secret which you don't like. Whenever your child does something in secret and he/she tells you, don't just go ahead to beat him.Firstly, you draw him closer and tell him thank you for telling you. Secondly,you counsel him and ask him some question like why,how and when is he/she doing those things. Lastly: you tell him to stop those things and also tell him the effects of those things he is doing. Please parent,you all need to be careful of the way you are training your child because your child have tons of secret in his mind right now which he refuses to tell you because they know your reations towards them,if they tell you.Beating a child is not always the way to train your child, he needs your care and kindness,PERIOD