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11tips To A Blissful Relationship by markbor: 12:20pm On Aug 16, 2010
To have a blissful relationship there must be Mutual respect and passion for each other. The Tips to a blissful relationship are highlighted below:

Communication:
There must be an effective communication between both partners, what ever may be bothering any of them must be expressed and discussed.
When you keep things to yourself, be it sex, finances and other worries, the secret will only fester and create resentment.  Talk it out, discuss it and find solution.
A problem shared is a problem half solved.
When you keep it to yourself it can be like cancer and if it continues to go unresolved it can eat away the relationship.

Compatibility:
For serious relationship you need someone with a similar outlook and goals.
It is imperative that they must be compatible without which even communication, trust, respect, etc will not be able to hold it together.  It will eventually fall apart at some point.

Sex:
Sex is another factor that plays a major role in any relationship.  I am not talking about Lust, I am talking about sex life that brings you closer, that you both enjoy and that is dynamic.  Any relationship that has an amazing sex life must last.  Even though relationship is not all about sex, it certainly does play a major role. If sex is absent in a relationship it will not last.

Trust:
In other to be intimate, to share the deepest, most vulnerable parts of yourselves, there has to be trust. It is as simple as that.  You cannot love whom you do not trust.

Boundaries:
You have to let the other person know where they begin and where you end.  Do not assume they know everything you are thinking and expect them to react accordingly and do not expect them to like everything you like.
You must remember that they are a separate person, just like you are a separate person.
Respect each other’s boundaries because you cannot be attracted to something that is not outside yourself.

Satisfaction:
Satisfy each others needs and do not be ashamed to have your needs satisfied.
Everyone has needs and if those needs are not being met whether sexual or emotional, then there is problem and it has to be addressed. If they are being met then you have a strong relationship.




Togetherness:
Spend quality time together always.  Be like good friends. The yardstick to measure good relationship is the urge to be together all the time. When one of is away is like part of you is missing. You can spend all days with each other without getting bored.
If you find someone you love spending time with, especially time that is not connected to sex, then you have found yourself a lover.

Investment:
Do not be too invested in them.  Do not make the other person your life. Have other things aside from your significant, others that you are into and enjoy, hobbies, other friends etc. Everything in life must be balanced.  If you make the other person your whole world, then that will put too much pressure and stress on the relationship and essentially any little thing they do will have a huge effect on you because you have literally have nothing else.

The whole syndrome of women who do not give their men enough space to hang out with the boys, fix motorcycles, do sport, end up biting women in the end because they end up narrowing their partners life experiences to only them.
This put too much pressure on them and ultimately leads to resentment and collapse

Men who pamper their women so much and do not have any hobby but their girlfriend  are doing the same thing to themselves.  A relationship should be a part of your life, it should not be your life.

Excitement:
Relationship should not be allowed to go stale, keeping things fun is a must but does not have to be lavish vacation.  Keep it fun and light hearted.  The heavy moment will come on their own, because life never allows you your ups without the downs.
But when it is not down remember to stay up and keep things fun.

Caring:
You have to care about the other person and they have to care about you, if this is not there then you are only playing games and it is not for real.

Acceptance:
You have to accept the other person as they are, if not then it over.  You cannot change other people and even if you could, it is not your right and it makes the relationship uneven. You have to accept other people as they are.

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Re: 11tips To A Blissful Relationship by timcurrant(m): 8:26pm On Aug 17, 2010
thanks for the tips

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