mutter:

accept the child, that is the decent thing to do.

tpiah:

^^ and what about the wife?

are you the mistress in question.

CHANCEMAN:

I thought i read somewhere that they had been seperated over the last two years? If so was the seperation not supposed to re assess the relationship?The results speak for itself provided the seperation was as a result of the childlessness.

jennykadry:

If you are not the mistress in question why are you so concerned and dedicated to the whole issue?

mutter:

seperate lives does not mean being separated physically. They may live in the same house.
Since you are at crossroads here the hard facts.
Nigeria allows polygamy -fact.
Bad enough a woman sets her eyes on a married man. The other woman is childless and this will be some painful news to her.
Terrible i find that the new woman should expect to drive the old wife with a pregnancy.
Please this man has a wife, you or whoever are nr.2.
Take your position as such and do not cause the wife unnecessary pain or resort to insults.

hummm but difficult position, im kind of bias here as i happen to know all three parties, and to set the record straight both parties were very good friends and in all fairness he pursued her, to give the lady in question her due after eight years as friends, ?
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As for the wife, put it this way she is not the most pleasent of people