Hello all ma pretty naija sisters home and abroad. I need to know your views on this.

One:

Whats your first reaction when you see a brother make a decent and sincere post in a forum like we have here requesting for a serious relationship?

Two:

Will you in all sincerity give such a post a try?

While you are trying to dish out your response, consider these below.

Disclaimer: I don't mean to imply that sistas are wares o, so don't get all worked up with the analogy I intend to use.

How horrible would shopping be if you walk into that boutique to pick up your favourite designer dress and there's no label to describe the basics of the dress like size etc?
You want to buy a beauty range and there's nothing on it to tell you what its compositions are, if its for oil, normal or dry skin. If its complexion, moisturizer etc. But when these things are there, it makes it easier.

Its obvious that when guys are in the field, they play with any team thats willing to 'label or no label' but when the real thing is the case, they have certain features and qualities they desire in the package which unfortunately are mostly hidden. I am aware that same applies to sistas. Reason being that, some o ya are ready to roll with an Aristo but only a handfull will want to actually end up with the aristo as a wife.

<<<Rewind<<<:

In practice, its not easy to find those features and qualities without breaking hearts. Did you ask "How?" Ok! You see a pretty miss 'A' and makes a move on her and after checking you out and liking what she see, she gives in only for you to find out, she ain't got a vision or she's dull upstairs and so on. And you'll be like 'nah nah'  (Heart break No. 1 for the chick) You try again, and again, and again. On the contrary,  she might be like "Sorry I'm not ready for that yet" (Heart break No. 1 for the guy). One ain't got no choice that to go back searching. One can only imagine the number of chicks that'll go down before a choice is made.

To avoid these pitfalls, wouldn't it have been a better option for us all {Guys and Gals} to make a decent post online to attract the kind of people we all really want?

Just my tot sha. If its stupid just jump am pass and don't hate please.

whatever

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