When i was in primary/secondary schools,it was a conventional practice for boys to be caned on the buttocks for late coming,failing exams or tests,noise making,failure to do assignment or compound work etc.Girls were also caned although to a great extent on the back/hands,although boys and girls could to some extent be caned anywhere on the body the teacher deemed right.Recently,I read in a book called 'The Fantasy Factor' by Peter Dallys that beating males students on the buttocks leads to some sexual fantasy which could negatively affect their sex life at least minimally when they become adults.This fantasy could becloud and minimize their real desire for women.Rather they would fantasize about being caned,hanged,punished and being treated in a way that verges on the barbaric etc.This fantasy will all but replace real and normal sexual desire.This seems to be true with my male friend.Also beating girls on the back could lead to a somewhat negative sexual fantasy.This could include fantasizing about being beaten on the back or beating people on the back.It could almost include the desire to be punished.According to the book,beating students close to their sex organs leads to a distorted sexual fantasy.For males,their buttocks is close to their preek and for females,their breast is close to their back.Male preek and female breasts are sexual organs.Please is it really true generally?I am just curious

Some thing that's a fantasy isn't real so I don't think it's true this is from my own point of view

Nayo08:
Some thing that's a fantasy isn't real so I don't think it's true this is from my own point of view

Fantasy in the context of Peter Dally's book is anything from imagination to the thoughts that enters your mind while you are having sex.Even thinking of your partner and how you want the sex to be done is something of a fantasy.It is not something that is unreal according to the book.