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Facebook User In Search Of A Man That Helped Him 20 Years Ago by freemi(m): 8:51am On Apr 09, 2019 |
A Facebook user
Obasesam
Okoiihas taken
to his Facebook
page to write
about one Tony
Anari who helped
him twenty
years ago when
he was stranded
in Lagos. He
wants anyone
with useful
information
about Tony
Anari to reach
out to him. He
wrote:
Please Help Me
Locate Tony
Anari
About 20 years
ago, I traveled to
Lagos in search
of internship
opportunities.
Before leaving
for Lagos, I
wrote to a high
school friend
who had
promised to
accommodate
me.
On arriving Lagos
I realized my
friend was living
in a small kitchen
space with 6
other occupants.
I became the
seventh
occupant.
I arrrived with a
bag of food
which I never
ate because my
friend had no
stove, no pot, no
plates, and no
cutleries. I spent
the first few
days wondering
how they were
surviving. My
briefcase was
stowed in a
storage
compartment
loaded with
firewood and
charcoal.
I roamed the
streets of
Apapa Wharf in
search of
internship
opportunities
without taking a
bath. My friend
had a small
mattress that
could only
accommodate
two people.
Throughout my
stay in that
place I slept on
pieces of cartons
spread on the
floor. Only on
lucky days did I
sleep on a bench
which mostly
hurt my back. I
didn’t grow up in
affluence but my
parents gave me
a very
comfortable life.
And I had never
slept on the floor
in my entire life.
So, Lagos was
my first
experience of
real suffering.
One morning, at
about 1:00 AM
the real owner
of the kitchen
space walked in
and found 7
young men
sleeping on the
floor. He asked
us to identify our
bags. We did. He
then threw our
bags away and
asked us to
vacate the room
immediately. It
was midnight
and I didn’t
know where else
to go. I couldn’t
believe an Ugep
man could do
that to his
fellow
community boys
even though we
are not related.
That night I
slept in an open
market inside
Queens Barracks,
Apapa. The man
came again the
next day and
asked us to
leave. I had
nowhere to go. I
went out of the
barracks and
slept on a Coca
Cola stand
located in front
of a brothel.
I woke up in the
morning and
started walking
the streets of
Apapa without
taking a shower
or brushing my
teeth. I was
desperate for
change, willing to
do any menial job
available. I
continued my
aimless walk
until I got to a
Lebanese
Hospital on
Pelewura
Crescent where I
decided to buy
cigarettes from
a street vendor.
Then, a young
man walked up
to me and
introduced
himself as Tony
Anari from Igbo
Ekureku in Cross
River State. Tony
was working as
a Security Guard
in a private
hospital owned
by a Lebanese
physician, Dr
Muhammed Tan.
I feel that the
spirit of God led
him to me.
Tony had a
rough past. He
was homeless in
Lagos, got
involved with
bad guys and
landed in Kirikiri
prison. He came
out of prison and
found himself in
the same cycle
of hopelessness
until he
surrendered his
life to Christ. It
was in the
process he got a
job as a Security
Guard.
As a devoted
Christian, Tony
was concerned
about my
smoking habit. I
made up lame
excuses to
justify my
smoking habit.
He started
inquiring about
me. I told him I
am an
engineering
graduate looking
for an internship
opportunity.
Even though I
didn’t disclose
my living
condition, he
could sense that
all wasn’t well.
He could see
through my eyes
that I was going
through
difficulties. Truth
is, the day I met
Tony I had not
eaten all day but
surviving on
cigarettes.
He inquired about
my living
condition and I
told him I was
putting up with a
friend at Queen’s
Barracks. He got
troubled. He felt
I have so much
potential from
just interracting
with me and
thought I don’t
belong to the
barracks
because barrack
boys are
perceived as
hooligans.
Tony brought
me a plate of
rice and a bottle
of water. After
devouring the
food I felt alive
again. He then
invited me to
church.
I joined Tony to
church and was
introduced to his
pastor, a
charismatic
preacher. We
returned from
the church
service and Tony
was full of
excitement. He
introduced me to
his boss as his
brother and
asked me to
move in with him
so we can pray
together and go
to church
together. That
was the first
day I slept on a
mattress since
arriving Lagos. It
was indeed an
escape from hell.
Tony offered me
a place to live,
fed me and paid
my transport
whenever I
needed to visit a
company to drop
off an
application.
Tony comes
from a poor
family in Igbo
Ekureku. But he
was brilliant,
passionate
about education,
with an
inquisitive mind. I
soon discovered
that he had only
attained primary
education before
leaving the
village.
At the time
there were no
cell phones in
Nigeria. So, I
could not
communicate
with my family. I
had to face the
world alone.
Tony was my
best friend and
brother. Since
internship
opportunities
were not
forthcoming, I
decided to return
to Cross River to
pursue further
education. That
was how I left
Lagos. Thank
God I did.
While in Cross
River I found a
friend travelling
to Lagos and
gave her a box
full of secondary
school textbooks
to assist Tony’s
academic
journey. Since
then I’ve not
heard from him.
Tony was an
Angel sent from
heaven to help
me navigate
through a
difficult time. I
desperately need
to connect with
Tony Anari to
appreciate him.
My spirit tells me
that Tony is
somewhere in
Lagos. He might
be a Pastor, a
businessman, a
government
worker, a
company
worker, a
banker, a
teacher, or just
going through
life’s challenges
somewhere in
Lagos. If you
have any links to
Tony Anari,
please tell him
someone
desperately
wants to meet
him.
Thanks you. |
Re: Facebook User In Search Of A Man That Helped Him 20 Years Ago by PlayerMeji: 9:15am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Wonderful!!! 1 Like |
Re: Facebook User In Search Of A Man That Helped Him 20 Years Ago by freemi(m): 9:27am On Apr 09, 2019 |
lala pls move to the promise land. Lets find mr Toni |
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