Women are very competitive with each other for guys. They are very selective in who they mate with so that leads to there being fewer desirable men than women interested in those men.

This is why they are so obsessed with beauty. It isn’t necessarily used to get male attention; it is used to compete with other females. Girls don’t dress up for guys; they dress up for other girls.



You don’t see most women doing the above for men. They do it to make themselves more attractive than other women.

Women are the reason for unreal beauty standards. Not men. Men don’t tell women how to dress or look. Women are the ones who are pushing standards on each other. Men aren’t that selective in who they mate with. Women are the ones who make themselves seem more fertile than other women (in competition for the most desirable men, which is why rich or famous men usually get women who are very beautiful).

It’s really just evolutionary. Women have the best chance of survival when they mate with men who can provide them with the most resources. Most men who do this are rich or handsome (because handsome guys are more likely to be tall and muscular which evolutionary means they are better providers). The majority of men are average and are not exceptionally rich or handsome. This leads to the majority of average women having to compete to get the top percentage of men.

Women are the ones who criticize each other for their looks. Men usually don’t comment about women’s looks unless they are stupid or controlling. Women gossip about each other all the time. There is a reason that attractive girls are the target of harassment by other, more average, females.

Women are the ones to criticize the other’s fashion choice. They are the ones to criticize another’s makeup. They are the ones coming up with new techniques to make them more attractive.

In fact, women are the most harsh on each other when it comes to bodies.

Women are more rude about criticizing each other’s breast size than men are. I am a 28H (big boobs) and regularly get negative comments about my breasts from women. Never have I gotten negative comments from men. In general, they keep their mouths shut about my body (unless they are praising it).

Women are the ones who made the thigh gap a thing. They are the ones who make skinniness a thing too and are now trying to make fat beautiful. They are the ones who obsess over ass shape and size. They are the ones who tattle on each other in middle and high school for dress code violations.

Women are the ones who are negatively affected by constant exposure to instagram models, fashion models, or magazine covers. They see women who are more attractive than themselves and they know they can never be that externally fitting to those ideal women. They only feel disappointed because there is competition there. If there was no competition between women, there would be no loss for a woman being more attractive than another one.

Women take basic evolutionary preferences of men and alter them on themselves to become more attractive. It is not the men who make women do this. It is women who do this to each other. Men are just going to mate with the ones they find attractive, which is actually a lot of women since men aren’t as choosy as women are. The only ones that will be choosy are the rich and handsome men, which are who the women are competing for. Women blame unrealistic beauty standards on men but it is actually themselves who are creating them.

EDIT:

The above observation is about women who look at relationships out of a fear and survival need rather than out of an unconditional love and companionship perspective. There are women and men who approach relationships out of a perspective of abundance and unconditional love.

It is looking though relationships and mating through a survival and fear based perspective as that is how most people do see the world (through what spiritualists call “ego”).

Unfortunately, our popular media and society only focus on fear-based and survival-based perspectives. That is what the majority of humanity is stuck in and what we are aiming to rise out of.

Men in survival-based thinking operate a different way than women. Their primary evolutionary focus is to sleep with as many women as possible to ensure many children. This is why they are less choosy in who they mate with. This is also why our current society has such an issue with men cheating on their partners and knocking up multiple women and leaving them.

What an explosive write up.