Gay rights activist, Bisi Alimi has rolled out reasons why men find it difficult to accept and sustain gay relationships.

He wrote:

“Aside from fear, male homophobia is principally driven by fragile toxic masculinity. The way homophobic men see gay relationships, say a lot about how they perceive women and what kind of respect they have for women. This might sound simple, but it is profound.

Homophobic men see gay relationships as sexual, this is not just some simple thing. Most men don’t see women as a being, they mostly relate to women as an object to be conquered, so when it comes to gay relationships, they can’t understand it cos it defiles the act of conquering

It is this sense of hyper sexualisation of women by homophobic men that challenged their perception of gay relationships; who does what to who and who is to be subdued vs respected? Hence the stupid question: who is the man and who is the woman?

Read more https://idonsabi.com/there-is-a-link-between-misogyny-and-homophibia-in-men-bisi-alimi/

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This is why Nairaland has not move forward in attraction since 2005 due to gullible and unuseful posts like this with their bad UI(User Interface) and ugly UX dey still allow people talk about gay's without deleting the post immediately not even a single report button humm

This one just allow another man like am dey drill am say na love him dey. Love of money abi love of being used as slave even in the modern time.