Dear nairalanders,a man who has been looking for a lucrative,well paid job later got an offer in abuja.He was to paid about 250k per month in the new company.He formerly resided in Lagos with the family.After a while working in Abuja,there were challenges in the family especially raising the children morally.The wife refused to move over to Abuja to join the Husband since she is yoruba and has a close knit with her family in the west.The man was confused and doesnt want the moral upbringing of the children to suffer.Should he consider his job first or should he quit the job,join the family and try getting a new job in lagos?..is it money first or family?..