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Why The Family Is Very Important In A Society by Biafrareform(m): 10:03pm On May 18, 2019
The family is the most important unit in every society. Various families birthed humans that make up the society. What a child get from the family is what he or she gives to the society. When the family is good, the society will reap from it.
The level of moral decadence in our society today is arguably as a result from our fail family system.

When I see young guns misbehave in the society or on social media, I asked myself, do they come from a family at all. Do they have parents?
All these young guns constituting nuisance in the society, social media, don't they have families. Don't they have elder bros or sis or relation.

When we were growing up, u dare not bring stuff in the house without telling mum or dad how u got them. If dad or mum ain't around to caution u, big bros or sis will use their back hand to correct ur brain. Today, hardly will you an elder sis or bros correcting the younger ones cos they are guilty of what the young ones are doing wrong.

Most Parents now don't care about how their kids live their lives. How can you as a parent not be aware how ur daughter or son got the phone or items they are using. What kind of mum or dad are you. How can you not be aware how your kids fare in school, where they go, the friends they keep. Your daughter didn't sleep at home, and u ain't aware. What a shame. Please, if you ain't ready to take family responsibilities, please forget about marriage , just sleep.

Our family set up today is so dysfunctional and is affecting the growth of our society . Everyone is concern about their own welfare. No one cares to look after each other. That bond that used to hold us b4 have been broken. Family ties are no longer there. Everyone is just on their own. The only time families tend to get together is during burials.

Is a wake up call to the singles here. Is not about asking God for a wify or hussy, but the wisdom to successfully be committed in running your family well. Start now to plan how you wanna run your family. Many today are busy planning for a day wedding, without planning about their long term family. Having a wedding and a family is a different ball game. A successful wedding doesn't translate to a successful family. You can have a bad wedding but still run a successful family.
If you fail to get this things right, you will regret ever having that family you have dreamt of.
The time to make the right choices is now.
Shalom
Re: Why The Family Is Very Important In A Society by Nobody: 10:08pm On May 18, 2019
I stopped reading after the first paragraph. No original thought in there. Same old recycled stuff.
Re: Why The Family Is Very Important In A Society by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On May 18, 2019
Family is the bedrock of the society.

That's why people especially women need to get marriage right and parents need to train their kids especially boys how to be right.

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Re: Why The Family Is Very Important In A Society by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:14pm On May 18, 2019
Nonsense.....
A) trying to compare life today and how you should raise your kids, with the way people did it 30yrs back (or more), will have you fail times and times again....
B) in today's society, the "family" set up has greatly changed.... You certainly don't need to be married to anyone to become a family.
C) since biblical times, there has been countless of people acting a damn fool, it won't change now or ever. Just live your life the best you can and basta!
D) as much as you can keep an eye on your kids, in this day and age of Internet and social media, if your child really want to misbehave, there is not much you can do about that possessed child (lol)

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