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you moved in with your family? do you mean the normal wife and kids senario or the siblings and parents type?

wit ma mom dad n siblings.

Tell them that u dont have whatever they come calling for or tell them plainly that u wont give them anything else if they dont return ur stuffs.
What are ur stuffs they keep?cups,water bottles or Meanwhile,hope u dont borrow stuffs from them or send their kids on errands ?

BEDE.IKE:
hi nlanders your candid opinion is needed. I jst moved into a new neighbourhood wit my family i've got these neighbours who r kinda geting so nosy always coming to borrow stuffs frm me witout returnin dem,they ask me 4 cold water dnt kno if theyve got no refrigerator n i do give em bt d problem is they dont return these things i always have to go n ask 4 them b4 i get em. Lately d wife is gettin too friendly.shes got my no. n calls me darling wen we r alone, Wat do i do?

what do u mean?Explain please.

ifyalways:
what do u mean?Explain please.

I'm curious too.

Some neigbours can be like that,I mean,borrowing and borrowing without returning back.Hmm,one day you'l step into their flat and think its yours bcz half the stuff there is yours(lol).
Next time they ask for stuff,tell them nicely that its not yours and that the owner isnt around,you need permission b4 you give it. Whn you do it a number of times,they shd get the message.
As for the friendliness part,she should know you have a hard-on each time she calls you 'darlyn' and thats why she does it in private. My advice,let her knw you dnt like it,aint you man enough to tell her to stop misbehaving?And back it up with action if she continues.She'l mellow down i'm sure.
I hate married people that wont allow singles be.

Odunnu:
Some neigbours can be like that,I mean,borrowing and borrowing without returning back.Hmm,one day you'l step into their flat and think its yours bcz half the stuff there is yours(lol).

LMAO! That cracked me up.

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BEDE.IKE:
She doesnt stop at dat alone,atimes she'll come to my house wit a dvd plate she wants to view wit d excuse dat their dvd is not playing in their dvd player, she's got kids though n d eldest is abt 10, her kids r so damn rascal n silly n theyr always a big disturbance.when its time to contribut money 4 anything they r always reluctant n atimes neva pay.her husband is owing me 1000 which we all contributed collectively to repair d light,he has refused to pay me n jst act like nothing happnd. I tink im bgining to hate this people.

hmmn.
You just skillfully refused to answer my first question.
What are u doing/thinking,watching movies alone in ur house with a married woman.
Wait ooh,is this ur apartment "face-me-i-face-u"?
You follow contribute for wetin dey worry u,una all dey siddon watch movies togeda . . familairity breeds contempt.
You have the option of parking out,Yet again

its nt like i condone d act myself,atimes she comes wen everybody is at home.my apartment is actually a bungalow like 4 flats in one compound n there own apartment is closest to mine. She calls me on d phone n addresses me as ''my baby''. She dresses provocatively too, Im goin to pick a big quarrell wit them soon i tink dat will solve d problem.

It's a shame/annoying when neighbors/people don't know their boundaries