Gift7428:
Poster check yourself properly to see if its not you.
Maybe you are not doing something right.
How do you treat your wife?
I can see your wife has no faith in your marriage;just look at the savings issue and how she brags about it.
How you treat a woman matters.
I am talking from experience.
My first few years of my marriage were full of insults Blows flying up and down because of how my hubby treated me.I was a tiger .
8 years into the marriage we separated.
Somewhere along the line we reconciled and went for conuselling( Not a church).A proper certified psychologist.
We both realized we have been doing it wrong all along.
Thank God for us now.We are not perfect but we are better and stronger.

What am i saying?
Cant you find a way to provide help to your wife?
I can see she has anger issues and pride.She is only suffering from ignorance because she feels her ways are the best.I believe you saw other good virtues in her.

This seperation people talk about everywhere on social media, its not as easy as you think.Nigerians are talkers .
Why will you want to deprive a child of her mothers love.
Hear this very loud and clear, no woman on earth will love and care for your daughter more than her mother.
Take this to the bank.
When i left my hubby, most guys were only interested in me and not my daughter.The ones who accepted were all faking for the time being.
Please find a way to work through this phase.
Shalom

FredasMumAndI:
Maybe she's depressed, or hitting a mind crisis.

@mybeautifulmindnetwork on instagram is a small comunity formed by Betty Irabor for people to take mental health seriously.
You might want to look into it.

Fighting with everyone is a sign that something is broken in you..

Mizwisdom:



Be mature, how old are you?

louiskay:
Young and learning... I never pray to experience all this kind tribulations in marriage o

but realistically, when a lady starts bragging about having a life savings ehn... ladies like that are very dangerous to trust or live with... its either they are from broken homes or have close relatives with such horrifying marriage experiences... whose advise they must have yielded too in having a side saving in case the marriage goes haywire

please, take your daughter far away from her... take her to your mom or any close and trusted relative.

egojeny1:

A lady calling another woman disrespectful wife... I'm sorry for you. Abeg if u neva marry go and marry and let ur sis-in-law come and disrespect you in ur house u ll know how it feels. Moreover she didn't just visit she came to stay.

And that is exactly how ur husband will slap the hell out of you and ur brain will reset by force.

Rubbish

crackhaus:

Just look at this small girl asking a man how old he is.

Mizwisdom:




If I curse you, your life ehn....anyways, silence is the best answer for a full. Try to advice the man against such delinquent decision, that's all.

egojeny1:
But why won't ur sister do what she asked her to do? That's a disrespect to her. If u bring ur sister back to that house she should do whatever she asks her to do, ur sister shld know that the house is for ur wife and not her's. She shld give her max respect if u want peace to reign in ur house. No need for your younger sister to rub shoulders with ur wife they are not mates. I'm sure ur sister must have been saying rubbish things abt ur wife to ur other siblings and parents. That's how some siblings will come and be causing trouble in someone's house, common message she couldn't help out. That is very bad. If we should hear ur wife's side of this gist now we will not believe our ears.

Why should a man like u think of eloping with ur daughter, hian! Biko man-up and take care/charge of ur home, talk things out with ur wife and make things work. You are the head of the house.