I will try to be brief as possible and mod bring this to front page while i seek for candid advice from everyone.
I met this girl in 2014 and we started dating. Got a job afterwards and remained faithful except for a very few drunken nights i had fun. She on her own part hasn't been faithful but i somehow find it in my heart to forgive and we continued. Last year she left for service and she started to misbehave again which led to our breakup. We stayed 9months apart and she came back some time this year begging and crying and telling everyone that knew us to help beg me to revive back the affair. In the course of the makeup period we tried to rekindle old flames as she came visiting me. After staying for a while with me, she returned to her ppa and continue to beg over the phone for us to come back together; so after like a week i decided to pay her a surprise visit without informing her and arrived at night and met her absence. She was not at her place and i ended up putting up the night with her corper friend. She came back the next morning with the usual crying and begging and giving me another flimsy excuse. I forgave her again and ended up staying for 3 weeks seeing how we could work out things. The very morning i left for my own base, she started to communicate with other guys. I confronted her with glaring evidence and she couldn't deny again but put a defence that she wasn't sure if i had truly forgiven her. She now suggested we break up which we have now officially.
Now to the main reason why i put this up, i got some money from her during my stay to run a Biz and now she wants the money back that the money is for her own biz. This is a girl that over the years i had spent my money on even to her place of ppa for nysc i paid for it amongst other things. I have taken this particular money as my own parting gift since she has broken up with me. Fellow nairalnders i will need ur honest opinions with reason.

Okay...majority of women are always ungrateful. Bros find a way to pay her back the money since it's borrowed.

I remembered a lady I was dating back then(5years ago), someone I have given enough money as gifts, but there was a day I went out with her and suddenly realized I wanted to buy drugs, I borrowed collected 1k from her to complete the money I had with me. Till today that lady is still asking me for that 1k...lol

Every money you expended on her was for services rendered, emotionally or otherwise

But the money she gave you was strictly borrowed, I suggest you be a man and hand over the debt except you are broke

According to you, you have been fvrking around, likewise she so you have nothing to hold her

Some Nigeria girls are wicked , she used and dumped you and still want her money back. After all the fucck you gave her during those years, or she thinks it's easy to produce sperms??

Skyfornia:
Okay...majority of women are always ungrateful. Bros find a way to pay her back the money since it's borrowed.

I remembered a lady I was dating back then, someone I have given enough money as gifts, but there was a day I went out with her and suddenly realized I wanted to buy drugs, I borrowed collected 1k from her to complete the money I had with me. Till today that lady is still asking me for that 1k...lol

Pay which money back Seems your head is paining you.

You are not yet emotionally matured to be dating anyone.

Skyfornia:
Okay...majority of women are always ungrateful. Bros find a way to pay her back the money since it's borrowed.

I remembered a lady I was dating back then(5years ago), someone I have given enough money as gifts, but there was a day I went out with her and suddenly realized I wanted to buy drugs, I borrowed collected 1k from her to complete the money I had with me. Till today that lady is still asking me for that 1k...lol

This one is more than ungrateful. This is s girl i spent a fortune during her grandmother's as well as her dad's burial.

[quote author=Jayslicky post=79064419]You are not yet emotionally matured to be dating anyone.[/quote

Can you expatiate on the reason for this statement?

ITbomb:
Every money you expended on her was for services rendered, emotionally or otherwise

But the money she gave you was strictly borrowed, I suggest you be a man and hand over the debt except you are broke

According to you, you have been fvrking around, likewise she so you have nothing to hold her

Bro the fvrking around was in the early part of the affair. We have broken up and tried to reconcile before this last incident. This her money is also based on services i rendered

Davash222:
Some Nigeria girls are wicked , she used and dumped you and still want her money back. After all the fucck you gave her during those years, or she thinks it's easy to produce sperms??

Wicked is an understatement. Because of this girl i didn't save money all those years

Jayslicky:
You are not yet emotionally matured to be dating anyone.

Kindly explain more elaborately

Jayslicky:
You are not yet emotionally matured to be dating anyone.

Chief, it takes more than emotions to date a Nigerian girl.

GirlsNaWa:




Bro the fvrking around was in the early part of the affair. We have broken up and tried to reconcile before this last incident. This her money is also based on services i rendered

Chuking person pikin with that cassava na service rendered? Haba, nwanne fear God nah

ITbomb:

Chuking person pikin with that cassava na service rendered? Haba, nwanne fear God nah

Money expended on her is much, since 2014...check am na & don't forget she also chuck me

GirlsNaWa:




Money expended on her is much, since 2014...check am na & don't forget she also chuck me

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ITbomb:

ITbomb:

my bro you don try, since him no ear you make I kipquiet.
he knows what wants why seek for advice? expecting the gullible ones and their lunat opinion like one has already come up even to insult you and your innocent opinion.
I want to believe this is one of those cook up story.

Davash222:

Pay which money back Seems your head is paining you.

obviously paining him. I trust myself o. We scatter everything. Is she mad?

SEGLIZ:

my bro you don try, since him no ear you make I kipquiet.
he knows what wants why seek for advice? expecting the gullible ones and their lunat opinion like one has already come up even to insult you and your innocent opinion.
I want to believe this is one of those cook up story.

Its actually a true life story. Your view on the subject matter will be appreciated. Thank you

GirlsNaWa:
I will try to be brief as possible and mod bring this to front page while i seek for candid advice from everyone.
I met this girl in 2014 and we started dating. Got a job afterwards and remained faithful except for a very few drunken nights i had fun. She on her own part hasn't been faithful but i somehow find it in my heart to forgive and we continued. Last year she left for service and she started to misbehave again which led to our breakup. We stayed 9months apart and she came back some time this year begging and crying and telling everyone that knew us to help beg me to revive back the affair. In the course of the makeup period we tried to rekindle old flames as she came visiting me. After staying for a while with me, she returned to her ppa and continue to beg over the phone for us to come back together; so after like a week i decided to pay her a surprise visit without informing her and arrived at night and met her absence. She was not at her place and i ended up putting up the night with her corper friend. She came back the next morning with the usual crying and begging and giving me another flimsy excuse. I forgave her again and ended up staying for 3 weeks seeing how we could work out things. The very morning i left for my own base, she started to communicate with other guys. I confronted her with glaring evidence and she couldn't deny again but put a defence that she wasn't sure if i had truly forgiven her. She now suggested we break up which we have now officially.
Now to the main reason why i put this up, i got some money from her during my stay to run a Biz and now she wants the money back that the money is for her own biz. This is a girl that over the years i had spent my money on even to her place of ppa for nysc i paid for it amongst other things. I have taken this particular money as my own parting gift since she has broken up with me. Fellow nairalnders i will need ur honest opinions with reason.

abeg just give her so that she will carry her trouble and go