They say the stomach is the way to a man's heart and it has been proven to be true.
But nowadays ladies don't even go close to the kitchen talkless of knowing what to do there. So guys what would you do if after getting married to the lady of your dreams you find out that she doesn't know how to cook. would you send her packing or teach her (that's if you know) how to cook, or will you send her back to her parents or guardian to learn from them. what would you do?

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Can u cook? if u can, teach her---otherwise, em--God help u both

Love is about sharing right?

If she can't cook, i'll teach her provided that i love her so much.
I can't dump a girl simply because she can't cook.

Teach her how to cook or you send her to her mum for cookery lessons

Buy her a cook book, or pay for her to learn how, or you cook, besides, eating cooked foods everytime is bad for health anyway.

Get her to take lessons

besides eating cooked foods evrytime is bad for health anyway

really and where did u get dat from.

One of the things that will attract me to a woman first of all is her ability to cook.Leaving out looks and the ability to understand her partner a woman should definately know how to cook.If on the contary she dooesn't know how to cook i wud definately try to teach her but she must be very willing to learn and must also go out of her way to improve herself.

If my wife is a Nigerian, she will probably know how to cook. If not, I don't care. I'll just hire a cook. No big deal!

Hire a cook

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If my wife is a Nigerian, she will probably know how to cook. If not, I don't care. I'll just hire a cook. No big deal!

@ Seun, your responses on the threads really makes me LAUGH

i don't know how to cook. who cares as long as my husband is having sex with me , he better know how to cook because i've already fulfilled my role as a wife sexually. it's his turn to satisfy me by doing the cooking. Moreover i'm a westerner and you can buy ready-made meals at the grocery stores or supermarkets. Anyways I'm going to be a Trophy Wife because i'm going to marry the ugliest man in the land so i don't need to lift a finger to do any housework.

U'll deal with it , u knew she couldn't cook before u married her

it cant happen to me because she must have cooked times without numbers before we even think of getting married.

their two ways to a mans heart. A good cooked meal and a wonderful Bleep

@mula
Your response is funny

Seun meant going to Buka daily

Mula:

Anyways I'm going to be a Trophy Wife because i'm going to marry the ugliest man in the land so i don't need to lift a finger to do any housework.

wtf, you are kidding right?

MULA u are funny u want your hussy to give u quality time on empty stomach.you are a serial killer.
just add good meal to the menu you will be surprised how good he is going to handle you.

she should knw how to cook because she is a woman

u marrried her right? so i believe she is ok in other areas. 4 d cooking aspect, u shuld learn 2geda. make out time 4 both of you to experiment on new dishes . just the two of u in the kitchen 2geda, now won't dat be romantic? try it .

If she is willing to learn, no problem. I'll employ all means possible to ensure she learns. On the other hand, if she does not want to learn, there will problems.

No Qualms.
I intend to employ a chef anyway.

What some people write baffles me sometimes, I don't care what a man tells you while you are courting as history has had it from older people that have been married for several years they said that once you start living together years after years things become different.

If you could endure all those hardship and discipline to acquire such education as you have (qualification irrelevant) why not invest few weeks and learn how to cook if it's important to your future union. Afterall, if it's to earn money or part of interview to secure a great job there are many that would take a few weeks course on it. For most fellow brothers it's important that wife to be knows how to cook, except few of us that can cook even if it doesn't taste that greatl (lol) or that are not so big on it, cook or no cook, she has to be clean, I can't stand a dirty woman.

what's all this noise about food and cooking?what happened to prayer and FASTING?

who cares if my woman can't cook, i must've already known that when i met her!
there are more important things a woman can be than a wonderful cook!

it's a big shame and slap on the face for a woman not to know how to cook. then what did her mother teach her to do then?

ne4real:

it's a big shame and slap on the face for a woman not to know how to cook. then what did her mother teach her to do then?

ABEG FORGET TALK! Your children can find themselves in such a situation. Take for instance, you are marrid to a vry big man, urslf, a very big top excutive. Live in a duplex or something with houselps/maids plenty who does and she grows up like and went to a school she had no need or cooking ? How on arth do you think she will no hw to cook. Lets b realistic. These things do happen. The most important question will be is hse teachable. If my girl friend (say) dos not know how to, i will first ensure that she is tachabl. If she is, then no problem. Tachability will require humility. If sh is not teachable, i wont go near her for marraige. Thanks you.

teach her