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Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
alphaNomega: The minute you get anything of value in your life, whether it be possession or people (aka children/wife) you must get yourself a will... That's a no brainier! Also, why is nobody talking about Vera's family?! Could it be that her family members also neglected the man while he was alive hence his family are returning the favour? What role have they played so far since they heard of the accident? There is a lot to what has happened so far only the judge can decide Whether they had issues with her family OR that her family isn't helping is irrelevant here... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Dami12345: 4:40pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Freehuman: I love you. No homo |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 4:55pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
adanny01: Does it make any sense to alienate the family of the father of the child denying them their identity right to see their grandchild |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by djon78(m): 4:58pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: And where was grandmother mentioned in what I said. Go and read my 1st post here, your understanding is suspect 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by neyobills: 5:01pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
alphaNomega: Like I said your question is too vague and does not deserve any reasonable reply however if u can't wrap your head around constructing a question of a sentence then I'm sorry I can't help you. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 5:03pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
The definition of father's family excludes grandmother abi. djon78: |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by djon78(m): 5:07pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: Grandmother never came in the particular case I mentioned. You are the one twisting things to suit your narrative |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by alphaNomega: 5:09pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
neyobills: I never asked for your help. I was able to deduce an answer from your response (or lack of it) Bye. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by phineas: 5:16pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
PrinceGallant: Then you are the type they call omo ale jati jati to fill owo osi juwe ile baba e. That's for bringing your Yoruba heritage as an excuse to justify nonsense. Yoruba people are noble and they don't stand for injustice. No Yoruba family will do this without widespread condemnation from all Yoruba persons. They will even shun and blacklist the guys family. So what exactly is your point 3 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
List of father's family 1. Grandfather- Father's father 2. Grandmother- father's mothrt 3. Uncle- Father's brother 4. Aunt- Father's sister 5. Cousins- father's nieces and nephews Your claim is that the above have rights over a woman whose egg was fertilised, carried the child for nine months, delivered the child and probably breastfed the child all because it is the father's family that owns the child. djon78: 2 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 5:24pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Yorubas family that insist on marrying the widow. There are Yoruba families that exclude the wife and children from inheriting their husband and father's. There are Yoruba families that have kidnapped someone else's child( this is very rare though, it depends on the family) Most cultures are patriarchical which means in every culture women including widows widow is often treated unfairly and unjust. This is not a war between tribes. Nothing is special about our tribe. phineas: |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by phineas: 5:33pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: You are obviously a representative of the family or you speak for them. Go and return the child to the recuperating widow |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 5:39pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
You will be alright phineas: |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by djon78(m): 5:41pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Sterope: Keep on suiting your narrative |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by adanny01(m): 5:43pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
neyobills: Who is alienating who? Is it not the family alienating their daughter in law from her own child? Biological parents have more rights over children than extended family. It is only after the death of both parents that the children assume guardianship of any offspring. Is it the case here? 5 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by bukatyne(f): 7:10pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Hmmmmm The 'beauty' of Nigerian cultures. 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by phineas: 7:43pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
SyNnadi: Please don't forget to give updates on this matter to keep it alive. You also need to make the twitter one a thread. It's easier for pple to follow that way. You can get someone to do it with her handle. Let's know if anything happens over the weekend Also note the offers for influencers,legal support and the rest. Please follow up all links you require. I wish her all the best |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by phineas: 7:45pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Many thanks to Seun osewa lalalistica and whoever is the nairaland moderator that moved this forward. May you find help in your time of need 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
Dami12345: Thanks for loving me. I love you too . 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by phineas: 9:12pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
@ SyNnadi Should they refuse to return the child. Please let me know via mention if and when a legal case starts on this matter. She will need logistics to get her witnesses to court with ease. I may not be able to follow the threads due to a busy schedule. However I will be happy to contribute to the process to make it easy on her and her friends.. 3 Likes |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by PrinceGallant: 10:27pm On Jul 18, 2019 |
phineas: I do not in the least doubt that you are oponu alainilakai. If you have sense, you should be able to see beyond what she explained. But being agba osika to maa n gbo ejo enu enikan dajo, you have manifested how nitwit and stupid you are. I have to tell you that I am a Yoruba man when in your wicked heart accusing me of coming from her husband's family and calling me a kidnapper. I am a true son of Yoruba, and you are the bastard, ole lo maa n mo ese ole to. Omo ale ara e. Nobody can becloud me with emotion, you can go ahead and cry |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by deltateam: 5:59am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Sterope: Its either you are not living in Nigeria or you were born in the bush otherwise you will know a child married traditionally belongs to the man's family and bears their name. The child in question is a minor and should be raised by the mother unless she's incapacitated. Go back and tell your father or uncle if you have to educate you. Stop spreading your ignorance. 1 Like |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 6:10am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Wow! There are lot of kidnappers on the forum. Who knew? How many children have you kidnaped from the mothers in name of a stupid archaic tradition? deltateam: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by deltateam: 6:16am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Sterope: I have confirmed you are nuts and beyond simple comprehension. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 6:23am On Jul 19, 2019 |
I have confirmed that irredeemable sexist if you think that archaic tradition still holds water at this point in time. You must think we are still living in that age where your folks walk around covered with leaves. Let a divorced man go to court and claim custody because he owns his children and they bear his name or the father's family justify why they have more claim to a child that had a living mother. deltateam: |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 10:15am On Jul 19, 2019 |
phineas: |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by phineas: 10:55am On Jul 19, 2019 |
PrinceGallant: A 2 year old was taken away from a widow who is recuperating from bilateral fracture. (without her permission) Key word without her permission. I don't need to listen to any sides to condemn this. Also to insist the child is returned to her mother.You should too UNLESS you think it's acceptable, or you have done this before. NO Yoruba culture takes a child from its mother without her consent.Yoruba land is where women deliberately have children for rich families so they can lay stake to a part of his wealth as custodian of one of his children.So why try to tarnish the Yoruba reputation and history for your irresponsible decision making and selfish self? If you know about the matter tell your friends or people to go and return the child. 6 months is enough time for dialogue. The kidnappers have kept the child for that long 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by kaziblake(f): 11:31am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Sterope:Bleep The hate on yorubas is real mehn because these are pure lies |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by Sterope(f): 11:33am On Jul 19, 2019 |
I am very much Yoruba by the way. It happens but it is not common and it is not be norm. Besides ours is a patriarchal society, nothing should suprise you. kaziblake: |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by kaziblake(f): 12:12pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Sterope:My mum was never maltreated o and she wasnt mandated to marry my dad bro.. i know its happens but its not as common like it is in the other southern states.. |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by NoRetreat(m): 12:40pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
alphaNomega:why can't you state your comment without cancelling mine? |
Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by alphaNomega: 1:17pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
NoRetreat: Lol. We are on the same page man, I cancelled out the unnecessary parts. Think of me as your project supervisor |
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