We all live in a world of what I describe as promiscuous absolute. Devoid of any form of moral conduct. Sex in our society today has been elevated to the apex of human degradation, so that you as a human can't extract the word beautiful without sex glimmering about it. Why and how as man become a sex slave? Why is our society harping every now and then about the variation to deriving a great sexual escapade. How as our once soft and innocent girls or ladies if you will become so sex ridden and sex starved so that even the least form of facial profiling of a girl depicts some form of sex. Why is sex blamed when an innocent child or a lady is raped. How as music and movies become an instrument of sex by delineating at will sex explicit content every now and then. How has the young men known for their strength take pleasure in pulling down the innocence of the girls they are suppose to protect from sexual exploitation. The world seems to revolve around sex. If i was an alien coming from another planet to earth for the first time I had conclude that the people of earth worship some kind of sex god or romance. Sex is the essence of pro creation, and love between two people that are legally knitted. Sex serves a greater deal in marriage. That's why apostle Paul was straight up with the idea of marriage "1 Corinthians 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Sex should be enjoyed within the confines of marriage. Romping around to get a suitable sex mate for marriage is noting but a social construct. Sex doesn't deserve the great attention tossed at it. No matter how many porn sites, movies and lyrics the world creates, there will still be a lot of sex starved folks in the world. The more you see the more you want to see. Sex has indeed become the biggest noting in the world. Seeking despicable gratification outside ourselves to satisfy our infelicitous desires as put us all against each other(girls against men and vice versa) as parasites.

May be you should ask your god why it created us with an appetite for sex that rivals that for food.

[quote author=LordReed post=80704325]May be you should ask your god why it created us with an appetite for sex that rivals that for food. The same thing was said centuries ago. Corinthians 6:13
"Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats": but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
There is nothing wrong with sex, but the attitude towards it.

Adeling:
There is nothing wrong with sex, but the attitude towards it.

I don't see you complaining about our attitude towards food. Don't you see how many advertisements there are for food? How many cooking shows there are? Is there any movie or show they do without mentioning food? I am right now watching Blue Bloods, a show about cops and here they are eating a large meal. Maybe we should look at our attitude towards food don't you think?

@lordreed. if our attitude towards food had been a compelling situation that has lead to the devaluation of moral standards, I would have complained. but not in this case. when someone has the strangest of urge such pedophilia or bestiality or even gay, or someone who thinks his sexual urge must be met by raping a girl. How do you classify such attitude.. even fornication in it self is immoral.

Sex is part and parcel of life and existence. It's not big nothing at all. Every living thing have sex. Life cannot go on without it. God creating man with sex passion knows why. Let's embrace sex healthily.

Adeling:
@lordreed. if our attitude towards food had been a compelling situation that has lead to the devaluation of moral standards, I would have complained. but not in this case. when someone has the strangest of urge such pedophilia or bestiality or even gay, or someone who thinks his sexual urge must be met by raping a girl. How do you classify such attitude.. even fornication in it self is immoral.

No, none of the things you mentioned have anything to do with how many times people talk about sex or see sexual acts. Those are things that arise from other factors. It is like saying gluttony arises because a person sees food.

As for the morality of "fornication", may be you should ask your god why it created us to become sexually active before we are ready to be married and then simultaneously banning all sexual activities before marriage.

"Let's embrace sex healthily" Dude, this is the summary of all I have been saying. There's no point going back and forth.

Adeling:
"Let's embrace sex healthily" Dude, this is the summary of all I have been saying. There's no point going back and forth.

What is this healthy embrace? What is unhealthy about being sexually attracted to someone of the same sex? What is unhealthy about sex between 2 unmarried people?

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