Storms are inevitable, but destruction is optional. The right foundation makes all the difference.
The strongest homes and the strongest marriages all have one thing in common: A strong foundation. Storms will come in your marriage. Circumstances that are out of your control will rock you and threaten to destroy you, but if you have the right foundation, you will weather any storm. Every marriage needs a foundation of faith in God, commitment to one another and resolve to face every obstacle hand-in-hand and side-by-side.

DON'T TRY TO CHANGE YOUR SPOUSE.
It’s not our job to fix people; it’s our job to love them even while they are broken.
There will be times you are tempted to “fix” your spouse or change something about your spouse, but resist that temptation. When one spouse tries to change the other, neither of them are changed but both of them end up frustrated! Instead of fixing or changing or coercing, just love each other. Love is what God uses to change us all. Love is the very tool God will use to fix us and change us into all that we were intended to be.

WHAT DEFINED YOUR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP?
Your marriage will not be defined by the size of your struggles but by the size of your commitment to overcome the struggles together.
Couples who make it work “til death do us part” are not the ones who never had a reason to get divorced. They are simply the ones whose love and perseverance was always stronger than their reasons for quitting. Those two ingredients (love and perseverance) might be the two most powerful forces in a...
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