thesolutions:
[s]I have a colleague in Abuja who confided in me about his feeling 4 days ago. I too noticed something different but blamed it on alcohol.

He told me that he woke up that very day with bitterness in his heart. He can't explain it. He said he also had this thought about killing someone. He had no one in mind but things has not been all that good for him and all other colleague too.

He had to get himself intoxicated with alcohol that very morning before coming to work and had several bottles at work to help himself from the bitterness and thought. He ended up being angry and quarrelsome through out that day.

He told me what happened the next day and ask me what could be the cause of that feeling but I had no idea. I told him I have never heard of such Case and he went out mute without a word.

He is not a quite type to think of depression. He is a very lively person.

What is the phenomenon called so I can try to explain it to him.[/s]

Sirmuel1:
Symptom of depression. You need He needs to talk to a therapist.


I don't know if it's you or him

obiekunie2:



since he trust u enough to confide in you and you didnt tell him to solve the problem for himself by enjoying a full small bottle of snipper, pls tell him that the people of Nairaland advises him to start by killing you and after doing that, he should relax and enjoy a big bottle of snipper that way he will be saving the world from from two potential david wests!

thesolutions:
noted. Please don't comment again so others can say what might benefit him too.

obiekunie2:


you dont need further comments from any other person. my comment has given you all the answers you need.

NwaAmaikpe:



He is suffering from a phenomenon known as "village people".

You don't need to explain it to him, they will explain themselves to him very soon.

thesolutions:

I understood that phenomenon. I still don't know why alcohol is more powerful than village people. For him to take it to overcome such thought, it can only imply he had overcame more than once this village people with the same instrument. Alcohol.
But he want a netter solution that is why he thought me worthy to hear his problems. So a better suggestion is needed.

GOFRONT:
Village people yaff table his matter on the floor of their coven...

Abeg who get the pic of those 6 village elderly wizards??

OnlineSalesNG:
Mehn. You had better arm yourself. He could turn on you any day

obiekunie2:



since he trust u enough to confide in you and you didnt tell him to solve the problem for himself by enjoying a full small bottle of snipper, pls tell him that the people of Nairaland advises him to start by killing you and after doing that, he should relax and enjoy a big bottle of snipper that way he will be saving the world from from two potential david wests!

thesolutions:
I have a colleague in Abuja who confided in me about his feeling 4 days ago. I too noticed something different but blamed it on alcohol.

He told me that he woke up that very day with bitterness in his heart. He can't explain it. He said he also had this thought about killing someone. He had no one in mind but things has not been all that good for him and all other colleague too.

He had to get himself intoxicated with alcohol that very morning before coming to work and had several bottles at work to help himself from the bitterness and thought. He ended up being angry and quarrelsome through out that day.

He told me what happened the next day and ask me what could be the cause of that feeling but I had no idea. I told him I have never heard of such Case and he went out mute without a word.

He is not a quite type to think of depression. He is a very lively person.

What is the phenomenon called so I can try to explain it to him.

generationz:


There is no psychologist on nairaland/

You guys should seek out a psychologist asap .

Do this before it happens again and you become the next victim.

Suffering and pain might have activated the fourth part of your friends mind known as the superego/ Demon /Daemon function.

This part of the mind is the least used by humans.

If activated by pain and suffering it can lead to damage both to self and to people around. If properly managed it can be used for good.

A good example of someone operating in the demon function is The Joker. You know batman and the Joker, right?

Yes, I know it is fictional but that is one of the most known examples of a mind that has deteriorated due to betrayal, rejection and pain.

He went from a Fun loving , happy, cheerful guy to someone who wants to destroy, loot and kill. The worst part is he is still fun loving but now has fun at the expense of peoples pains.

Still, go and see a psychologist asap.

thesolutions:

I offer solutions different from your benevolent advice. I will gladly offer your recommendations to mosquitoes and cockroaches. They deserved it.

Chuks9000:
What kind of work would someone be allowed to booze to stupor?

obiekunie2:


no insults just polite response. very hard to see characteristic on Nairalanders.

i use to be like you back in the days but nairaland turn me into a tribalistic and very haughty person online.

Keep it up bro. do pardon my harsh post on your topic.