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Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by ImaIma1(f): 6:06am On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: There are some things you should not react negatively to. It might not go down well with me but if that's her way of acting, I have to make sure peace reigns somehow and let her be. Whatever grievances I have with her, I'll discuss with my husband. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by ImaIma1(f): 6:11am On Nov 21, 2019 |
cococandy: There's a level of closeness you have with someone that they can do that without problems. But someone that doesn't have a good relationship with you will think twice before walking to your pot except they just want to look for trouble. If they are staying, it's different |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:22am On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: women are very proud of their kitchens, cultural where am from (zimbabwe) its sign of disrespect for daughter or mother in law to use utensils or take food with asking permission in their respective kitchens unless the two have a good relationship, but still they both ask permission as a way to respecting one's property this also applies to us men, i can not go grab whisky from the cabinet without asking permission we just have to respect each others home irregardless that s/he is married to son/daughter 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by prettysassygirl(f): 7:09am On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings:i dont understand,do they need permission to eat again,whats wrong with a trusted family member going around the house freely? i dont see anything wrong with that abeg,some people would just be giving too much importance to food,poverty mentality. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by Mariangeles(f): 10:15am On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: Well, I'd say it depends on the family orientation. What is common to one, might seem odd to another . 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by blank(f): 11:38am On Nov 21, 2019 |
ImaIma1: So your MIL falls into the category of those who should behave themselves? Her going to your pot will be out of spite and disrespect? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by nlPoster: 11:58am On Nov 21, 2019 |
blank: Why are you so emotional, are you her mil's pr? |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by blank(f): 12:04pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
nlPoster: I'm a MIL in the making. . Just need to understand some people's mindset. My SIL don't act like that. I enjoy having my MIL. Wondering why someone will see their MIL as an enemy. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by nlPoster: 12:08pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
blank: You are not them. Enjoy your own inlaws and let others be. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by blank(f): 12:08pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
nlPoster: Yes Sir. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by nlPoster: 12:14pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I understand your point of view. If she can comfortably come to my house to see her son rather than telling him to visit her instead, there is hope. So I will seek the face of her son once again to see if he can help me diffuse whatever is bugging her. On my part, I will allow her to go to the kitchen after all I want peace. Indulge her as much as I can even if she is not reciprocating. Who knows, one day, it might swing my way. It usually does if u reward evil with good. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by blank(f): 1:10pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: Are you female? |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by ImaIma1(f): 1:55pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
blank: I am only responsible for what I say and not how you choose to interpret it. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by blank(f): 3:21pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I know right? That's why i'm wondering what kind of MIL you have. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by ImaIma1(f): 3:41pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
blank: A good one |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by MisterKings(m): 6:54pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
blank: I am male and we are working on a movie project that is the reason I am asking to know how best my actress is supposed to act when her MIL hates her. Apparently some of the ladies here are already calling names and saying whatever comes to mind. But I have seen quite a few who have given wise answers. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by nlPoster: 6:57pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: I think there are nollywood movies and characters which deal with this scenario, perhaps you can check those. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by MisterKings(m): 7:00pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
nlPoster: Nollywood don't do justice to characters 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by MisterKings(m): 7:05pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Most of you here are apparently in a loving relationship with your MILs but you sound like it is impossible to have a bad relationship with ur MIL. I just came across this post and thought I share the link. https://www.nairaland.com/35959/please-l-need-ur-advise.my So you know where I am coming from with my question. Imagine the aftermath of this lady's marriage ceremony. The relationship with her MIL |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by nlPoster: 7:18pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: Really? I haven't watched nollywood movies with the theme anyway, I only saw remarks on nl. |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by armadeo(m): 8:35pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
MisterKings: Something dey worry you. What is wrong with that. Many people have a bleeped up mindset. Your wife is you therefore her mother is your mother. Rephrase: how will you react if your mother comes to your house and enters the kitchen to dish her food, and your wife opens a thread on nairaland .. That's all I have to say. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by armadeo(m): 8:44pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Lol. Well me and my crew anytime we visit each other any liquor " in sight" is fair game. No stories asked. My guys girl brought out the remy/ henny he hid when we landed his crib based on she didnt want him drinking. Dude was offering beer..imagine!!! We guzzle that shit like it was going out of fashion and he had to guzzle up too cos he knows the rules. |
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