Parties in a relationship sometimes have serious disagreements over the fact that one always procrastinate and the other proactive.

Why this huge gap?

It's simply because different people have different personalities, and this should not cause serious disagreements when there is understanding.

They say opposites attract.

Some problems solve themselves, if you just stand back with your hands in your pockets, and don't give yourself high blood pressure over them.

NiCurious:
Some problems solve themselves, if you just stand back with your hands in your pockets, and don't give yourself high blood pressure over them.

Where is the problem? Do you have one?






Sprat could eat no fat, his wife could eat no lean

And so, between the two of them, they licked the platter clean.

nlPoster:


Where is the problem? Do you have one?






Sprat could eat no fat, his wife could eat no lean

And so, between the two of them, they licked the platter clean.

No problem nowadays--former spouse had to drop everything and jump on every little issue as if life depended on it. Me, I would keep doing what I was doing and observe...9 times out of 10, the problem would solve itself. Procrastination: 9 Proactivity: 1

NiCurious:


No problem nowadays--former spouse had to drop everything and jump on every little issue as if life depended on it. Me, I would keep doing what I was doing and observe...9 times out of 10, the problem would solve itself. Procrastination: 9 Proactivity: 1

If it's a competition for you, then I guess you are in tune with the op.

Personally I dislike when people hype the differences between couples, they are usually up to no good and only God can deliver their targets from their evil doings because they make it their job to monitor others who are not monitoring them.

nlPoster:


If it's a competition for you, then I guess you are in tune with the op.

Personally I dislike when people hype the differences between couples, they are usually up to no good and only God can deliver their targets from their evil doings because they make it their job to monitor others who are not monitoring them.

Nah, that wasn't the root of misunderstanding, that was more of a humorous difference.
But it's late, and we're both not fully making sense, so I bid you a good night.

NiCurious:


Nah, that wasn't the root of misunderstanding, that was more of a humorous difference.
But it's late, and we're both not fully making sense, so I bid you a good night.

It's morning.

Majority of nairalanders (like yourself) are anti-marriage so I'm expecting this thread to pop soonest.

I do feel most of you should not be married because your negativity could never coexist with it.

If one stand back and expects that the problem will go away, what do you do when it gets it compounded. Truth the told, not doing anything about it sometimes make situation worse and frustrating to the party that desire resolution.

I like the contribution in personality differences.

How can we allow this differences foster stronger bonds instead tearing relationships apart?

Can you explain how the matter concerns you?


Are you the one in the situation?