Sex: How it really works

Sex is a fantastic experience, Infact it is the most pleasurable activity of all physical experiences.
Sex is the absolute fusion of two entities into one.

Implications of sex.
Since sex is the fusion of two energy fields into one, it has a long-lasting effect.
As human beings, we all have our own ambient frequencies, for that is what makes us distinguishable, we are who we are by the emotions we feel, the thoughts we think and basically how we see life. When we now join ourselves with another person, we become one with them, we begin to experience their emotions, their moods and everything about their lives exactly as they experience ours.
If we have a cup of water, clean and clear and suddenly we add a blue ink to the water, an adulterated mixture is formed and chemistry calls that a physical mixture because it can still be separated by physical means but what can separate two souls joined together?.
Making this practical and relatable enough, we probably have heard things like this in spiritual circles that 'having sex with someone can make you rich', 'having sex can result in your destiny being taken away' etc,
Are these really all true?

Historical Story.
King Solomon is the wisest King to have ever lived, a man endowed with wisdom and wealth, he had everything he desired to have on the surface of the earth.
The supremacy of the Universal Laws or the Laws of God is that it is no respecter of persons, whoever breaks them becomes subject to the consequences.
King Solomon's moral decline begun when he took the daughter of Pharaoh, King of Egypt as wife and then subsequently started taking wives and concubines from all kingdoms of the world, he begun to multiply silver, gold and wives to himself breaching the Law that Moses by divine inspiration written down in the 17th chapter of his 5th book Deuteronomy prohibiting a king from multiplying silver, gold and women unto himself.
King Solomon married many women mainly to consolidate his kingdom and secondarily for sexual pleasures, marrying different women has its consequences,he began to grow attached to these women, and his emotions and feelings became attached to these women, he readily accepted their way of life, he had the knowledge, they didn't and since he had joined himself with them, he begun to stumble as a result of his denial of his own way of life and adoption of their way of life, such is the power of unions.
Since ink poured into clear water will result in a contaminated solution so is it when pure knowledge joins ignorance, there is a contamination and both suffers.
King Solomon's heart accepted ignorance by accepting the ignorance of his multiple wives, he broke the laws of the universe and in his later years, he sought to kill one of his faithful right hand man and ultimately his decisions resulted in the disintegration of the kingdom as a result of his actions.

It has often been said that there is nothing good or bad but just consequences, you become one with whoever you have sexual relationship with, so whatever you experience, they do experience, whatever they experience, you also experience distance notwithstanding for we all know that distance is not a barrier to phone calls which is a physical equivalent and correspondence of the unseen world - our mind and thoughts.

Why has it been always said that sex is best only in marriage?

Holistically, the statement portrays good since it has always been a male to a female from the beginning and so it is forever.
For one to decide to get married to anyone, the relationship would have gotten to a depth and level that both sides can absolutely trust themselves, they love each other, have gotten a good knowledge of themselves and have decided to enjoy the remainder of their live experiences together.
When they now get married and have sex and become ONE, they are happy, blessed and fulfilled for then sex becomes truly happy and pleasurable fulfilling the main aim of life - being happy from the inside out.
Saving sex for marriage has the goal of making you happy on the long run.
Everyone is happy when his life is safe with the spouse of his or her dreams.
Contentment then pays, for a man is happy when content with his spouse.

On Covenants.

Historical Story on Unequal Yokes.
After the demise of King Solomon, the kingdom split in two - the Kingdom of Israel which had the lion share with ten tribes and the kingdom of Judah which had two tribes constituting it.
King Ahab begun to rule over the kingdom of Israel years after the death of King David and King Jehoshaphat was also king of Judah almost at the same times.
King Ahab's rule was one which lacked knowledge of the Laws, and the implications was that his reign was one devoid of true joy but abundant in sensual joys, King Jehoshaphat on the other hand had a good understanding of the Universal Laws and prospered in his kingdom.
K Ahab had problems with the neighboring countries at the onset of his kingdom, so immediately K. Jehoshaphat ascended the throne of Judah, he played a smart one by marrying his daughter off to him to bait him into a royal alliance between the two kingdoms, he knew K. Jehoshaphat had a good understanding of warfare and wanted his assistance to help attack the countries he was having problems with.
King Jehoshaphat, the man with a clean heart fell for the trick and matched into battle with K. Ahab who cunningly told him to wear his royal regalia into battle while Ahab himself dressed like a common soldier, K. Jehoshaphat was almost killed save for his cries before a stray arrow hit K. Ahab who later died of his wounds.

Explanations.
The only way K. Ahab could solidify his relationship with K. Jehoshaphat was by giving out his daughter, by having sexual intercourse with her, blood was spilled and the covenanted relationship was sealed.
The alliance was therefore sealed on marriage premises.

The Life of all men lie in the blood, and when the blood of two get to mix, it is as a new life and life ceases to be only when death comes.

The unholy alliance between K. Ahab and K. Jehoshaphat with the instrument of alliance being K. Ahab's daughter almost resulted in the death of K. Jehoshaphat, the evil communications of K. Ahab had indeed corrupted the good manners of K. Jehoshaphat.
The effects of blood covenants are strong as life is being generated and there's a deeper intensity of energies.
If one who is happy and has a balanced life goes ahead to mix with another who isn't on his samelike frequency, he'll begin to function at a frequency unlike his natural one and to break loose would require an encounter with an higher energy level, a strong emotional experience that would detach such energies and in the case of King Ahab and King Jehoshaphat - death.


On Fornication and Adultery.

Life is energy and there are laws, natural laws that all beings are subject to, it is expected one eats through the mouth so as to be nourished, when he now goes against the law and tries to eat through the nose, what happens? He simply suffers the consequence whether he is the greatest, wealthiest or an underdog.
Having multiple partners has its roots in emotional dissatisfaction, an energy level of distrust, unhappiness, discontent and disgruntlement.
One should then seek healing by moving up the energy levels, for when one is spiritually awakened, he is Joyful inside him and requires no external sources as a backbone for joy and happiness.
Abraham the Father of Faith suffered the consequences, he was plagued with the nagging cries of his wife, his great name tag and God's blessings over his life didn't make him impervious to the consequences.
King David also suffered the consequences in his personal household as well as his wise son King Solomon the wise, they all suffered the consequences irrespective of status.
Even a good man can suffer if he doesn't obey the universal laws which are unchangeable and eternal,human beings come and go, the earth remains.

One Man, One Wife.

Moses was a man endowed with rich knowledge of the universal laws, he also put down the bill of divorcement, which encouraged a man to put away a woman caught in adultery, later on in AD 20, Jesus Christ who had a perfect knowledge and who also practically lived up to that perfect knowledge said the bill was written by Moses due to the hardness and stubbornness of the hearts of the men in his days, the bill was borne out of condemnation, bitterness and not out of Love.
And are we truly happy when condemned or bitter? And isn't our goal to be Joyful and happy?

Divorce stems from differences, ideological differences,and it has its roots in partners having premature knowledge of themselves, not all that glitters is gold, every building that will go high must have a deep foundation, including marriage, a marriage that will withstand the winds of little differences must be one that will have a strong foundation, a mutual spiritual one.
A man is tripartite, spirit, soul, body - for a marriage to bring the best of joys and bliss, both must be physically, emotionally and spiritually compatible.
The beauty of all-round compatibility is that you get to fight your battles together and not turn against yourselves when they come and you also get to celebrate your wins together.
One will chase a thousand while two will chase ten thousand.

On Guilt and Condemnation about sex.

Many have had past experiences due to Ignorance, many have had sexual experiences because they wanted to be happy, wanted to be rich, wanted to be Joyful etc and at the end are not, then are taken over by guilty complex, condemnation and pains, but there really is no cause for alarm.
The beauty of the Universal laws of God is that as soon as one becomes knowledgeable and comes out of ignorance, enlightenment dawns and one begins immediately to enjoy true bliss and joy, the past pains are forgotten and act as timely lessons and reminders.
We all learn everyday and enlightenment which is knowledge of the universal laws is necessary to live a sweet life.
Get empowered spiritually with wisdom, knowledge and understanding and Live.

If sex has been the downfall of many, then it has been what has lifted many into joy, remember the act itself is for good but patience, self control and ability to defer pleasure are vital gifts every one should build.

Sex is Blissful!
Sex is Blessed!
Sex Empowers!
Only Have Sex with the person that you are perfectly congruent with, it is for your own personal good.
I want to be Happy and Joyful all the days of my life, don't you?

Timothy Adetolu