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*Deleted* by pricy007(m): 12:00am On Dec 14, 2019
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Re: *Deleted* by ascendo(m): 12:03am On Dec 14, 2019
The issue is that some people seem good cuz of the condition they found themselves in.

She is your wife, you've got to separate from your parents and live alone with her. She might change if you use wisdom and prayers on her
Re: *Deleted* by greatnaija01: 12:03am On Dec 14, 2019
your tory is like a movie walahi

WHO DECEIVED YOU FROM THE BEGINNING?

who told you that such PATCH PATCH UNIONS end up peaceful... you messed it up when you cheated on your girlfriend... and you got a girl pregnant o someone you were not even dating- BROS... chei. so in a nutshell YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER, AND SHE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF YOU TOO.


now her REAL COLORS have started showing... BRO, YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT. maybe she used JAZZ for you o. check it well... because it is like you were thinking with your DEEK all through.

Also consider maybe your old girl friend placed a curse on you or your union never to have peace.... MANY THINGS ARE INVOLVED HERE, simply because you had little or no wisdom.

You just have to live with her like that. MARRIAGES that are borne out of HELPING THE LESS PRIVILEGED PARTNER never go well or end well.

WRONG FOUNDATION IS THE CAUSE OF ALL YOUR ISSUES.


she came to your house with flimsy excuses and you could not call her family or guardians to inform them that you are not comfy with it.... BROS, you really took advantage of her and she trapped you with pregnancy and you fell for it.

THE STORY IS NOT EVEN COMPLETE AND BALANCED.
Re: *Deleted* by pricy007(m): 12:10am On Dec 14, 2019
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Re: *Deleted* by pricy007(m): 12:11am On Dec 14, 2019
greatnaija01:
your tory is like a movie walahi

WHO DECEIVED YOU FROM THE BEGINNING?

who told you that such PATCH PATCH UNIONS end up peaceful... you messed it up when you cheated on your girlfriend... and you got a girl pregnant o someone you were not even dating- BROS... chei. so in a nutshell YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER, AND SHE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF YOU TOO.


now her REAL COLORS have started showing... BRO, YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT. maybe she used JAZZ for you o. check it well... because it is like you were thinking with your DEEK all through.

Also consider maybe your old girl friend placed a curse on you or your union never to have peace.... MANY THINGS ARE INVOLVED HERE, simply because you had little or no wisdom.

You just have to live with her like that. MARRIAGES that are borne out of HELPING THE LESS PRIVILEGED PARTNER never go well or end well.

WRONG FOUNDATION IS THE CAUSE OF ALL YOUR ISSUES.


she came to your house with flimsy excuses and you could not call her family or guardians to inform them that you are not comfy with it.... BROS, you really took advantage of her and she trapped you with pregnancy and you fell for it.

THE STORY IS NOT EVEN COMPLETE AND BALANCED.
Re: *Deleted* by ascendo(m): 12:15am On Dec 14, 2019
pricy007:
this people (parent) gave all they've to raise me, supporting me in my business just to make it successful and even abandon a lots concerning them just to support me so I think taking them with me is another way to appreciate them

They might but at this point live separately from but support and always ask after and visit them as much as you can.
Most of the times, it ends this way...

As for you and the lady...how the relationship started and those stuffs, it was a mistake but it has gotten to marriage with children.

You've got to endure, pray, show love and wisdom...
Re: *Deleted* by pricy007(m): 12:20am On Dec 14, 2019
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Re: *Deleted* by Macsjebs(m): 12:29am On Dec 14, 2019
Quite a long write up!
Re: *Deleted* by Chubhie: 12:45am On Dec 14, 2019
pricy007:
I've always came with this thought of leaving the house to rent apartment but trust me I won't ever dare to leave these old people living alone here, the few houses around has their parents for same reason to avoid loneliness and I told my wife to endure with this for maybe 2 years then I would be settle but she won't, I later traced this girl down to her secondary school life and I learnt she's just like that, fighting people with bad manners, I know I've made the biggest mistake anyway
We all have our character flaws. She is your wife now and the mother of your kids. Put a little respect to that. Now, Are her fears premised in reality? There are a lot of things to do to relax her fears of you sneaking around town with girls if you you truly love and respect her.

Don't you think the idea of living with your parents threatens her privacy and will naturally trigger her? most expecially if she's territorial?

Don't be shattered. Be a leader and provide proper leadership for your household. Find peace and harmony in this chaos.
Re: *Deleted* by pricy007(m): 8:32am On Dec 14, 2019
Chubhie:

We all have our character flaws. She is your wife now and the mother of your kids. Put a little respect to that. Now, Are her fears premised in reality? There are a lot of things to do to relax her fears of you sneaking around town with girls if you you truly love and respect her.

Don't you think the idea of living with your parents threatens her privacy and will naturally trigger her? most expecially if she's territorial?

Don't be shattered. Be a leader and provide proper leadership for your household. Find peace and harmony in this chaos.
tnx for this bro, I pray God help me

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