Complement of the Season to y'all.
Good Morning Guys and welcome to 2020.

I'm having some issues with my 'wife'. Pls gimme advice.

We were together for about a month as friends, I was working though not earning well while she works in a factory to get money to further her studies. Her folks are practically irresponsible. Along the line she took in. Explained things to her that I'm not ready to be a father, tried different medication just to abort the foetus all to no avail mind you I'm an health practitioner.
Suggested D/C to her, but she rejected it with all this fallacious Yoruba people excuse of death and prophecy.
In short she moved in with me gave birth, Named the child and life continued. 1 month after the child birth I lost my Dad had no mom since 7 so the responsibility of 5 siblings and my stepmom fell on me.Dad was an only child and all my Grand parents are late no assistance besides God.

I assisted the 2 elderly siblings in gaining feet in there different vocations and they got married.Remaining the 3 kids in school and there mum, the burden which I bear on my meagre income.

I've been sponsoring my wife's education since we moved together added to vocation she learnt after the birth.Tried setting up a shop for her and stuffs, but she's always complaining of no sales this or that.

For the past 2 years now I've been trying to make her independent and contribute to at least the kid upkeep but it seems the academic gap/Different value system/Upbringing makes it difficult for her to see things my way.
And this is seriously limiting my progress. I spoke with her parents on what they want to do for there child its always one excuse or the other.

Taking pics with a female colleague buys me threat of poisoning at home from her.Not leaving out destroying things in the house whenever there is misunderstanding.

She's giving me serious heartache

I'm thinking of separation.

Nb: We have not done introduction or anything of such.[/color]

Change your font colour to normal, then we can talk!

Nb: We have not done introduction or anything of such.
The above shows that you both are not yet married... So, you have no problem so long you give your child the best!!!

That's the thing with live in partners



Watin concern me
Carry ur Cross

Davash222:
Change your font colour to normal, then we can talk!

I'm sorry it was a mistake bro.
Just ignore the font

Erediauwa:
You guy's were never compatible..... Infact, there's no compatibility or love in this sexlationship.

You guy's were just sex partners.... You only see her as a wife because of a child which is wrong.

Now listen to me, if she's not ready to plan with you, kindly send her back to her father's house peacefully so that she can plan with her father....

For her to even threaten you of poisoning what you take if she sees you with any lady is a sign that you guy's were not meant to be.

Forget the sweetness of her pussy and listen to the bitter truth.

Thanks Bro! I appreciate.

Greater 2020!

blesskewe:
That's the thing with live in partners



Watin concern me
Carry ur Cross

Thanks Sis.

No one is Perfect or above mistake.

Complement of the Season

dawnomike:
Nb: We have not done introduction or anything of such.
The above shows that you both are not yet married... So, you have no problem so long you give your child the best!!!

Thanks.

But she's hellbent on having the kid with her. Though I don't have anybody to care for the baby and he's too young to be in my custody. I carry 99% of the responsibility.

Any legal action or step that can be taken for future's sake?

Sigh. Same old same old.
1.Courtship is very very important. That's when you get to see flaws you can't handle.
2. Pregnancy is not a reason to marry or cohabit. Men should stop falling for this.
3. Life is too short to be miserable, if the burden is too much, walk away. We only have one life.

this one is calling a destined baby mama his wife..

internationalman:
this one is calling a destined baby mama his wife..

Bro!
I'm just being careful.

Complement of the season

Gaggi:
Sigh. Same old same old.
1.Courtship is very very important. That's when you get to see flaws you can't handle.
2. Pregnancy is not a reason to marry or cohabit. Men should stop falling for this.
3. Life is too short to be miserable, if the burden is too much, walk away. We only have one life.

Thanks!

Mucho Gracias.

Complement of the Season

Shorpe:


Thanks Sis.

No one is Perfect or above mistake.

Complement of the Season

Happy New Year sweetie

Shorpe:

Bro!
I'm just being careful.

Complement of the season

don't ever marry that girl

i wish you a happy new year too

Davash222:
Change your font colour to normal, then we can talk!

Just did bro!

Welcome to 2020.
Greater Heights

internationalman:

don't ever marry that girl

i wish you a happy new year too

Mucho Gracias

This one is obviously looking for reasons to dump the lady because of see finish...

I no blame you sha

I blame the lady

Some of you chewing gum love fuckboys are yet to grow and earn the tag 'husband' but most ladies don't know the difference.

Amanee:
This one is obviously looking for reasons to dump the lady because of see finish...

I no blame you sha

I blame the lady

Some of you chewing gum love fuckboys are yet to grow and earn the tag 'husband' but most ladies don't know the difference.

How can you sit calmly to read what the OP wrote and still come up with this your statement? I am highly disappointed in you being a lady and see nothing wrong in what the lady is doing despite the guy took the responsibility in which most scumbags wouldn't have done. Now I see why they say some ladies have fi***be****.. Pls I didn't say u have oooo before u start baptizing me with insults

bdchange:

How can you sit calmly to read what the OP wrote and still come up with this your statement? I am highly disappointed in you being a lady and see nothing wrong in what the lady is doing despite the guy took the responsibility in which most scumbags wouldn't have done. Now I see why they say some ladies have fi***be****.. Pls I didn't say u have oooo before u start baptizing me with insults

And some guys have s**** p****

Please I didn't say you have before you baptize me with insults

Amanee:
This one is obviously looking for reasons to dump the lady because of see finish...

I no blame you sha

I blame the lady

Some of you chewing gum love fuckboys are yet to grow and earn the tag 'husband' but most ladies don't know the difference.

Dear Sis.

You should've gone through the ordeal first.
But thanks I pray you dont encounter such

bdchange:

How can you sit calmly to read what the OP wrote and still come up with this your statement? I am highly disappointed in you being a lady and see nothing wrong in what the lady is doing despite the guy took the responsibility in which most scumbags wouldn't have done. Now I see why they say some ladies have fi***be****.. Pls I didn't say u have oooo before u start baptizing me with insults

Don't mind her bro!

She's doesn't know the Word 'RESPONSIBILITY'

Amanee:



And some guys have s**** p****

Please I didn't say you have before you baptize me with insults

I don't blame you.. I see reasons why some of you deserved getting pregnant for scumbags that want nothing to do with the child and mother. Well the guy should just send her back to her father's house and only care for his child since he is not married to her. And move on with his life so he can find a woman who is ready to grow with him..Simple as ABC...

bdchange:

I don't blame you...

E pain am

Oga keep your opinion to yourself, I don't give a rat's a** about it

Amanee:



E pain am

Oga keep your opinion to yourself, I don't give a rat's a** about it

O boy make una leave this girl that does copy and paste from sites jare. This one no be Woman na girl. Girl way no fit chop until man sleeps with her.

Goodgod213:


O boy make una leave this girl that does copy and paste from sites jare. This one no be Woman na girl. Girl way no fit chop until man sleeps with her.

Is that all?


Abeg shift your dead body out of my mentions and go be a nuisance somewhere else. This is 2020 and your life is still miserable, are you not ashamed laidis

It's very obvious God hasn't been good to you please delete this moniker

Amanee:





Is that all?


Abeg shift your dead body out of my mentions and go be a nuisance somewhere else. This is 2020 and your life is still miserable, are you not ashamed laidis

It's very obvious God hasn't been good to you please delete this moniker

Lol you way never travel out of the country. How many cars do you have? Do you have a landed property. You can never see a husband I decree that into your life

Goodgod213:


Lol you way never travel out of the country. How many cars do you have? Do you have a landed property. You can never see a husband I decree that into your life

All the decrees and you're still an internet troll

What a waste

Her orientation is different from yours. It will take a lot of conscious effort from here to be on the same page with you as per your collective responsibility and how she can reduce the load on you with her own imput and support.

Amanee:



All the decrees and you're still an internet troll

What a waste

You go cry find me trust me. Let’s see if it happens

ImaIma1:
Her orientation is different from yours. It will take a lot of conscious effort from here to be on the same page with you as per your collective responsibility and how she can reduce the load on you with her own imput and support.

Thanks Dear.

Mucho Gracias

from your write up , you clearly do not love her, she isnt your choice of a wife , you are not compatible , and u secret wish she is not in your life. but the truth is , this is the ultimate price you have to pay for putting your deek where it ought not to be. manage am like that , stop making up excuses to seperate from her .

lesson to guys. always put on your raincoat .