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If you accuse your BROTHER’S WIFE of “eating” your BROTHER’S MONEY, you’re unwise! Whose money should she “eat”? You certainly don’t know the “combined effort” couples put in to become successful. And you talk about your brother’s money as if your BROTHER is your FATHER.

I know of a family where the wife covered for her husband when he was dead broke. No one else knew he was broke. And she was even using her earnings to set him up in business until he became very wealthy. So who ate whose money here?

I know of another family where the man had to spend most of his time touring to build his dream business while his wife sacrifices her own career & dreams just to ensure that the home front was intact and the kids were well raised. So who in particular built the wealth?

Instead of making dumb statements like that, I would rather you ask questions with a view to learn. Underneath your successful brother's story may be the counsels, perseverance, prayers, faith, support, forgiveness and endurance of his wife. Let's be guided

BTW a Westerner reading this post will most likely not comprehend it. Why? Because it's basically an African thing found only in African families where culture & tradition subtly brands a wife a "family property".

FP worthy

Gbam!!!!!