PureMind2:
Note taking him abroad was not really for treatment if it was that it could have been better but only to perfect there relocation stay over there now brought back the hussy to die here in Nigeria terrible humans every were

This is bullshits sir and you know it. Abroad hospitals are now God that their treatments are sacrosanct and infallible.
Stop clutching on straws to justify your despicable obsession to your brothers property. You are not even mourning your brother but what he left behind. Let the wife and kids mourn their father, Haba.

No never will I be after such never what is my business with the property but the way the whole issue happen still left me in shock as the wife in question never feel rumoursful you as a lady you have a kid and sure think happen not even when that person is the bread winner of the family how will you feel

TheArchangel:
This is bullshits sir and you know it. Abroad hospitals are now God that their treatments are sacrosanct and infallible.
Stop clutching on straws to justify your despicable obsession to your brothers property. You are not even mourning your brother but what he left behind. Let the wife and kids mourn their father, Haba.

PureMind2:
Am not here to exchange words just a words of advice for my fellow men don't put your wife over your family lesson of the days thanks for you comment

I still don't understand what putting his wife over his family has to do with his death.
If he had stayed close to you, would you have stopped his death?
Perhaps the only thing that would have done was to prepare your mind for the inevitable, as you would have been aware he was ill enough to pass on. At the end of the day, this whole thing is about your feelings of hurt. However, while you are hurting, don't forget there are 2 young children out there who have also lost their father and are probably hurting deeper than you, and at the same time they and their mother don't feel safe amongst their father's people.
You haven't said anything concrete about how his wife directly or indirectly killed him, or even how the poor relationship he had with his family killed him.
You are grieving, and you need someone to hold responsible for his death, and you want someone to pay. You are probably going about this wrong way, as no amount of anger towards his wife (since you hold her responsible for the bad relationship between you and your brother) can bring your brother back.
You are pained at your brother's choice of distancing himself from his extended family, but that was his decision. The choice to distance himself has no correlation with his death.
Would you all have contributed money for his care to stop him from dying? Don't forget Steve Jobs bowed down to death when it came, despite all the unimaginable amount of money in his pockets

Just here to put up lesson to all my fellow men out there just look before you jump into that marriage all I have to say

yeyeosoronga:


I still don't understand what putting his wife over his family has to do with his death.
If he had stayed close to you, would you have stopped his death?
Perhaps the only thing that would have done was to prepare your mind for the inevitable, as you would have been aware he was ill enough to pass on. At the end of the day, this whole thing is about your feelings of hurt. However, while you are hurting, don't forget there are 2 young children out there who have also lost their father and are probably hurting deeper than you, and at the same time they and their mother don't feel safe amongst their father's people.
You haven't said anything concrete about how his wife directly or indirectly killed him, or even how the poor relationship he had with his family killed him.
You are grieving, and you need someone to hold responsible for his death, and you want someone to pay. You are probably going about this wrong way, as no amount of anger towards his wife (since you hold her responsible for the bad relationship between you and your brother) can bring your brother back.
You are pained at your brother's choice of distancing himself from his extended family, but that was his decision. The choice to distance himself has no correlation with his death.
Would you all have contributed money for his care to stop him from dying? Don't forget Steve Jobs bowed down to death when it came, despite all the unimaginable amount of money in his pockets

PureMind2:
Note taking him abroad was not really for treatment if it was that it could have been better but only to perfect there relocation stay over there now brought back the hussy to die here in Nigeria terrible humans every were

You were not close to your brother oga, and had no idea what was going on in his life.
All you have been saying since is very haphazard/scattered everywhere. It just shows you are telling us third/fourth party narratives, meaning 'dem say, dem say'.
You do not know why they went abroad or even if they had relocated. Did they go on holiday, or for medical opinion? Both travelling at the same time ( and perhaps even with their children) to perfect their relocation sounds very vague.
You do not know anything about how your brother made his money or his investments.
You do not even know his children
You have not known your brother for several years. You left it too late.

PureMind2:
Just here to put up lesson to all my fellow men out there just look before you jump into that marriage all I have to say

Yes, its advisable to look before you leap into any marital union.
But in this your brother's case, tell me:
1. specifically how the marriage contributed to his death/how it had anything to do with his death
2. what exactly is your sister in law's fault? What has she done wrong to your family and why do you hate her so much?
(Perhaps not informing you guys of his illness, is what angered you. But your brother may also have insisted not to bother you people)

I have explain over time don't really know what you want me to say again you can read from most of my comment am not commenting because of the property but just imagine how terrible people might be when it come to money issue people are very wick in fact we are in these wicked world God will judge everyone accordingly right from these earth I believe

yeyeosoronga:


Yes, its advisable to look before you leap into any marital union.
But in this your brother's case, tell me:
1. specifically how the marriage contributed to his death/how it had anything to do with his death
2. what exactly is your sister in law's fault? What has she done wrong to your family and why do you hate her so much?
(Perhaps not informing you guys of his illness, is what angered you. But your brother may also have insisted not to bother you people)

Alaye! I have read all your zig zag stories despite ur incoherent writing but all I see is that ur just a young kid embittered! And as someone has rightly put, all ur assertions are hearsay dem say dem say. U said she hid ur bro all thru d sickness till death n d next minute ur saying they travelled abroad for treatment but he still ddnt get well (like say people dnt die in hospitals overseas), and u still again then turned around to say they only went for relocation stuffs. Lemme nt b harsh on u cos its very obvious u werent close to ur bro n his family which i strongly believe its as a result of the narrative ur own parents n family members have planted in u. Ur doing badly at justifying ur bros death! There r so many points in ur story to depict that ur eyes r on the property of ur bros because thats what u even started ur story with. This ur story my guy isnt worth a book n ur advise to other men is unnecessary! Stay strong and God be with you all.

Thanks

asapeola:
Alaye! I have read all your zig zag stories despite ur incoherent writing but all I see is that ur just a young kid embittered! And as someone has rightly put, all ur assertions are hearsay dem say dem say. U said she hid ur bro all thru d sickness till death n d next minute ur saying they travelled abroad for treatment but he still ddnt get well (like say people dnt die in hospitals overseas), and u still again then turned around to say they only went for relocation stuffs. Lemme nt b harsh on u cos its very obvious u werent close to ur bro n his family which i strongly believe its as a result of the narrative ur own parents n family members have planted in u. Ur doing badly at justifying ur bros death! There r so many points in ur story to depict that ur eyes r on the property of ur bros because thats what u even started ur story with. This ur story my guy isnt worth a book n ur advise to other men is unnecessary! Stay strong and God be with you all.

Man, this op is very hard to read. Bottom line is look very well before you reap in marriage

Very simple and straight thanks no feminist comment here

Triniti:
Man, this op is very hard to read. Bottom line is look very well before you reap in marriage

Whoever wrote this post is so malicious and greedy. It is so obvious you are wicked and just after the property. Everything you wrote has been so inconsistent and your defense is so poor. What do you expect the poor widow to do?
Just swallow your pride and go and beg the wife and stop disturbing us on this Forum.

Got my point from reasonable members already am okay

gabyet:
Whoever wrote this post is so malicious and greedy. It is so obvious you are wicked and just after the property. Everything you wrote has been so inconsistent and your defense is so poor. What do you expect the poor widow to do?
Just swallow your pride and go and beg the wife and stop disturbing us on this Forum.

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Did you just say have a meeting on how the children will be catered for?
You should know nothing like that will ever happen , even if she had a male child.
The meeting will just end there, they are feeling bad and looking for away to fight the young widow.
They must have shown her

God Dey

We are not here for insult if you are pained keep it to you fucking self more over I never expect anything from him before now always reason up well before you put up a daft comment we are talking about life here you are turning things upside down