A twitter lady identified as Uche @UcheMaduka_ explain how she was being punished and shamed for being sexually assaulted

She tweeted:

Had a deep sober reflection by midnight today. I began unpacking where my anxiety and fear stemmed from. For years, I’ve carried the shame, the stigma and abuse that have suffered from on my name. I hated my name because i believed it had a gory past to it. It was dragged through the mud of victim blaming and slut shaming. I began hiding in fear in hopes that no one knows my name and no one remembers my story.

I’ve denied myself of a social life nor a social media presence cause I don’t want anyone to know me, know my story nor ask me questions. I’ve denied myself of a social life nor a social media presence cause I don’t want anyone to know me, know my story nor ask me questions. At 12:58am 2nd of May, I decided to release my name from the shame and ridicule it was once drenched in.

6 years ago, at the Age of 16, my name, my picture, was displayed in front of thousands of students at Covenant University, as well as my offence and punishment. I was punished for being manipulated and sexually abused by 26 year old masters student named David. “why didn’t you scream” “why did you let him remove your clothes” “why

didn’t you say anything when someone knocked at his office door” being thrown at my face Infront of disciplinary panel as I broke down in tears. On departure day, only my name and face appeared on the screen in the hall of multitude of students. His name and face wash spared, he wasn’t punished.

It was until my father, who later on tried to reduce my punishment found out my abuser wasn’t punished after being lied to that he was locked up. He was still working and walking freely in school. I bore the shame and disgrace alone. It was sometime after, after enough hammering on the school by my father that my abuser got punished. For years, i’ve carried the guilt, for years, I believed it was my fault, that I deserve what I got but today, I say no more. I am Maduka Uchechukwu and I’ve made an oath to myself never to carry the blame of being sexually assaulted, that it was NEVER and will never be my fault. I reject and remove the shame that has hovered around my name and I completely set myself free. I’ll no longer hide, I will no longer be ashamed of my name.

Maduka Uchechukwu, that’s who I am and that’s who I will always be. I AM FREE.

https://www.codedhits.com/lady-finally-becomes-free-after-being-punished-and-shamed-for-being-sexully-assaulted/

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