hi nairaland viewers, kindly advice me on what to do , I don't want to cheat on my wife but is like she want to encourage me to have sex outside our marriage of which I find very difficult to go ahead with it, from January to date we only had 6 enjoyment with her only , I need more of it . am tied of her excuse all the time, please help me out. thanks

mars18:
hi nairaland viewers, kindly advice me on what to do , I don't want to cheat on my wife but is like she want to encourage me to have sex outside our marriage of which I find very difficult to go ahead with it, from January to date we only had 6 enjoyment with her only , I need more of it . am tied of her excuse all the time, please help me out. thanks

Have you asked her why? Are you providing for her needs, financially and otherwise? Have you been good to her?

If your woman is happy, she would always make you happy.

Look inwards.

Covidhunger20:


Have you asked her why? Are you providing for her needs, financially and otherwise? Have you been good to her?

If your woman is happy, she would always make you happy.

Look inwards.

All these shouldn't stop a wife from performing her marital duties. Some wars are not entertained in the bedroom.
Is the wife ensuring that the husband is happy also? She is yet to be good to the husband why would she expects to be treated good

Sit her down and talk things out abeg, you guys should stop discouraging single folks like us from getting married with all this marital problems all the time.

Was she like that from the start?
What has changed?
Communicate with her and find out what the problem is, from there you seek for solution.

Hope you're not a bad f<ck? no woman wants to constantly have sex with a bad fckk.

Davash222:

All these shouldn't stop a wife from performing her marital duties. Some wars are not entertained in the bedroom.
Is the wife ensuring that the husband is happy also? She is yet to be good to the husband why would she expects to be treated good

Isn't sex with one's wife, meant to be a pleasurable experience?

You don't meet your basic household commitments, yet you demand sex, from an unhappy housewife?

Do her right and watch her becoming a submissive wife.

Covidhunger20:


Isn't sex with one's wife, meant to be a pleasurable experience?

You don't meet your basic household commitments, yet you demand sex, from an unhappy housewife?

Do her right and watch her becoming a submissive wife.

So, who will do the husband right

Davash222:

So, who will do the husband right

His wife would do him right, so long as he does her right in return

Covidhunger20:


His wife would do him right, so long as he does her right in return

Starving him of kpekus is doing him right

Davash222:

Starving him of kpekus is doing him right

If he does her right, kpekus would not be far from him

Covidhunger20:


If he does her right, kpekus would not be far from him

If she is not starving him sexually, treating her right won't be a problem.

Davash222:

If she is not starving him sexually, treating her right won't be a problem.

What came first. The chicken or the egg?

The man is the head of the family, he was also the groom, to groom his family, in ways he deems appropriate

Happy Wife = Happy Life

mars18:
hi nairaland viewers, kindly advice me on what to do , I don't want to cheat on my wife but is like she want to encourage me to have sex outside our marriage of which I find very difficult to go ahead with it, from January to date we only had 6 enjoyment with her only , I need more of it . am tied of her excuse all the time, please help me out. thanks

Fake a romantic call in her presence, if she attack/query you, tell her she push you to it ... Thank me later