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Between The Mother And The First Son... by Salliet(m): 6:57am On May 20, 2020 |
In preparation for funeral rites for a late father, between the mother and first son, who is to make decisions? This is in the Nigerian context, kindly share your knowledge on this subject. Thank you |
Re: Between The Mother And The First Son... by selfwife(f): 7:06am On May 20, 2020 |
In my own side, when a man dies, his first child carries the responsibility of the burial. If the first child is a female, her husband buys the coffin. I think it is believed that the grieve will be too much for the wife that's why the I children have to take responsibility for their father's burial . 1 Like |
Re: Between The Mother And The First Son... by Salliet(m): 7:18am On May 20, 2020 |
selfwife: What if the mother is able to pull herself together and has a preference over how the disposition of the remains should go? This is usually the case where there are wide difference in tribal and religious inclinations of either parties. What do you think? |
Re: Between The Mother And The First Son... by Salliet(m): 7:21am On May 20, 2020 |
In my opinion, I think the Next Of Kin Hierarchy is key. I stand to be corrected... In order to qualify as next of kin in this situation, a person must be over 18-years-old. The relationships listed below usually apply to biological, adoptive, half-, and step-relations equally. Spouse/domestic partner Children Parents Siblings Authorized guardian Grandchildren Great-grandchildren Nieces and nephews Grand-nieces and grand-nephews Grandparents Aunts and uncles First cousins Great-grandchildren of Grandparents Second cousins Fiduciary (a legally appointed trustee) In some states, a close friend who is familiar with the deceased’s wishes may qualify as next of kin if no one on the above list is available or able. |
Re: Between The Mother And The First Son... by dawnomike(m): 8:00am On May 20, 2020 |
It all depends on the culture... In mine, it is the 1st son if he has come of age |
Re: Between The Mother And The First Son... by selfwife(f): 2:22pm On May 20, 2020 |
Then she can continue. She can even sit by the graveside. Most people won't care again and her children will call her stubborn. |
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