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| If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by bdidi: 7:07pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
A man is married for three years now and they have o lovely child but his wife committed adultery and got pregnant. The man is shattered emotionally and confused. The funny part of it all is that he still loves his wife and the wife does not want 2 commit abortion. And the fool who did this to his wife is still alive. If u find yourself in this shoe, what will you do? |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Dyt(f): 7:29pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Love can mk u do silly things u know |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by naijafrend: 7:59pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Strange world ! She should leave that house, period ! |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by deniyor: 8:25pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Errrmmm, I think she is leaving the house. Her lover don marry be that. And she better leave my kids alone. |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
@poster to each their own. . . . . . . . .loving her doesnt mean that he has to live with her or stay married to her deceitful assss. there is no way i will stay with someone who would rather SNEAK around and have UNPROTECTED SEX with guys while we are in an union, NO WAY JOSE!!!!! not only is that dangerous, immature, deceitful/dishonest,a sure way to lose all trust in her but also a waste of my bloody time. a dna test on his first child is in order, you just never know how long she was creeping! btw: it definitely wouldnt make it any better if the guy was dead. |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by dayokanu(m): 10:04pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
Has he gone for STD test? |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by deniyor: 10:11pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
^^ He will when he starts burning up  |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jan 24, 2011 |
he should skip the std and go straight to HIV test first! |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by ifyalways(f): 8:54am On Jan 25, 2011 |
dayokanu:Ori eja  bdidi:Hahahaha,If such things really happen and people condone it  ,what can i say?You love ur wife Your wife had an unprotected one night stand. You wife is pregnant for another man,told you and is keeping the pregnancy. Way to go jare . . .what BS.  |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Nobody: 9:40am On Jan 25, 2011 |
what will you do? 75% of fathers ar not the biological father to their children! Na only woman know who be her pikin papa!  So my friend, take a chill pill and keep away from High BP  |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Ninapha(f): 3:51pm On Jan 25, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: @MRbrownJAY You are right here but i am seriously thinking if that husband of hers is ok. @ Poster, Something tells me her husband is not the father of the 1st child why? her boldness shows something is wrong and she knows it. A DNA test? ok i am more concerned now with if it happens the man is impotent, should he accept the children? In all, I am so so afraid of this whole marriage palavar. Women! Women and Men! hummmm |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Pennywise(m): 4:02pm On Jan 25, 2011 |
bdidi: What do you mean by the above-highlighted? You want husband to risk jail term or death sentence over this? What kind of person are you? My advice? Quickly get down to work or u wont be father of child No 3 |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jan 25, 2011 |
Ninapha: he may be. . . . . . . . . some men will have clouded judgment because of LOVE,when in fact they should switch that love off and use their damn brains. but hey, i hear he no easy to get wifey in 9ja for some, so. . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Ninapha(f): 10:13am On Jan 26, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY:  so, finish am now! well that kind of LOVE na "Killer Love" may our eyes never see abomination sha! |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by sirabbey(m): 2:30pm On Jan 26, 2011 |
greateros: Where did you get that statistics? |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Khams: 3:10pm On Jan 26, 2011 |
am not surprised that its a woman who opened the thread. A fellow man would have simply advised the guy to fling her cheating ass out of his life forever without soliciting for other people opininion. Chei!!! thank God no be me cos this would have not been the topic of dicussion. |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by JOKYTECH(f): 3:34pm On Jan 26, 2011 |
bdidi: He should take the wife to Dubai for shopping, buy her a brand new suv of her choice, buy her an awesome apartment of her choice, and fly her abroad during childbirth so that the child can become a us citizen , Mchew |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by bdidi: 8:37pm On Jan 26, 2011 |
If the man decides to send his wife packing because of this act,what then happens to their first child? then if the child grows up and later learns he is a product of a broken home. What will be the explanation to him? Tell him his mother committed an adultry and got herself pregnant? Because after all this, it is the children that suffers the emotional problem when they grow old. Marriage is not a very easy thing to manage if you don't invite God to be the head of the home. In this case, i will advise him to take this to the LORD in prayer just because of the first child. Any other contrary opinion? |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by zayhal(f): 9:07pm On Jan 26, 2011 |
bdidi: And what exactly is going to be the prayer point here? Why do we just deceive ourselves with prayer prayer? So because the children shouldn't suffer the man should keep an adultrerous wife? This is really annoying. An adulterous woman does not deserve to be married. She should be kicked out asap. And she was even so foolish to get herself pregnant! OMG. Am angry. In fact, I'm boiling. Not at the OP but at the above quote. |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by fatexbrown: 11:07pm On Jan 26, 2011 |
@Poster, your post sounds like u are trying to compose a Nollywood script, |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by NAJALYN: 9:05pm On Jan 28, 2011 |
The man should verify if the first child is actually his. Go for Hiv test. If the child is his, fine, keep the child. If the child is not his, send mother & child to her lover. How can he still feel love for such a woman? The lady would have paid with her life if she were from my place. It is a taboo for a married woman to have affair with another man. Rather than show remorse for her action, the woman is proud about her achievement & has even refused to abort the pregnancy. And the sheepish man is still talking about loving such an idiot. I wish him a blissful married life. Let him continue to tie himself to her apron strings. Ode. |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Angolobabe(f): 10:27pm On Feb 01, 2011 |
greateros: I cant stop laughing dis nairaland sef ,i been take break but some of uno post couldnt keep me from replying hehehe Every woman knows who the father of her child is ,unless she is a slut and sleeps around. so please give good advice and dont give the guy high blood pressure |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by jeremiahb(m): 3:50pm On Feb 02, 2011 |
Its difficult to stay with such woman, memories will always be there and the marriage can never be perfect as the way it was before. |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by tEsLim(m): 2:10am On Feb 08, 2011 |
Can't stay with such woman. Just one child is ok even if its 4kids she's gotta just go and join is new lover. People should stop talking as if its one biggie you either decide. For me thats the decision. I have people that can take care of kids. My kids for example already have very good relationsihp with their grandma, uncle and aunts I may just send them their to be taken care of; If I'm not able to do it all on my own. Such woman is dangerous. And you should go and check the first child ; it could be from another man too. I gotta take some dna samples and ship abroad to check paternity of the first child |
| Re: If Your Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man, What Do You Do? by Nobody: 8:48am On Feb 08, 2011 |
bdidi: As with a lot of Nigerians, he's 'confused'. What's he confused about? He knows what to do. Unless he wants to continue to sire children who's paternity will always be in question? bdidi: Love is a funny thing, they say it's blind, but not to the point a man can't see beyond his own nose! As for the wife not wanting to abort the pregnancy, I'm with her there. The deed's done, the child's innocent, and deserves a chance at life. Having an abortion won't repair the damage to their marriage. That has to come from within, on both sides. bdidi: You expect him to be killed? The bigger fool here is the mans wife! From what you've posted, there was consent on both sides. bdidi: I have no idea, how we'd react hypothetically may be very different from what we'd react in reality. But, I'd most likely walk. |
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