Nairalanders, please advise a brother. I have a female friend of 45 years old and I am 36. We have been chatting and talking about marriage but not that serious. I want to start taking it serious with her soonest. Is it advisable to settle down with her considering the age difference 45 and 36, though she is respectful?
What are the advantages and disadvantages on our age sides, especially her age on child bearing?
Matured Advise Needed.
Thank you.

ask yourself what You want.

Marry for love bro, not just age and Children

If you love her and you see a future why not go ahead? But as for me I can’t .any woman I want to marry I must be older than her with at least 5 or 7 years age gap......

one of the disadvantages of marrying a woman that’s older than you is that some of them when your 40 and she’s 50 she might be looking 60 but some day get baby face sha ,one advantage some of them have is that they are matured in decision making and stuffs like that .

sultanofdelta:
Nairalanders, please advise a brother. I have a female friend of 45 years old and I am 36. We have been chatting and talking about marriage but not that serious. I want to start taking it serious with her soonest. Is it advisable to settle down with her considering the age difference 45 and 36, though she is respectful?
What are the advantages and disadvantages on our age sides, especially her age on child bearing?
Matured Advise Needed.
Thank you.

It is very possible she has reached her menopus already, so the possiblilty of giving birth is 0%,

Age is just a number if you love her and she has some good characteristics you can go and make sure you give am belle before una marry so that you go sure say she never menopause.

The question is DO YOU LOVE HER? If you do and she have a mutual feelings for you my brother carry on. Like you must have heard 'age na number'