fineboynl:
we are just dating one kind and nothing really that serious about us, and she likes coming to my place.

here is the thread, I do not sleep comfortably facing any one. even if I do I tent to get tired almost immediately and facing back to the other side or the other way. I do not face the middle and if I have to it has to be only me on the bed. but once there is someone with me on the bed it's instinctive or inbuilt because most time I really don't know when it triggered me to turn the other side. it's something that's done all by itself before me knowing.

she always complained I am backing her. and the reason she don't like coming to my place again. there was a day she leave the bed and sleep on the ground taking alongside the covering. I was feeing cold and woke up and saw her and the covering on the floor.

she want me facing her and holding her, or herself put her head on my chest. I'm not a romantic fellow and don't want to be. I'm a serious and ethical being. I do not move by mere romantic behavior but by being realist and doing the right thing. if your mind is pure and clean you will be least concerned by things the other people do or live their lives.

now the question to fellows like me, do you back your partner in bed? or both of you back each other's? does this singular act causes trouble? do you feel comfortable facing each other? or you are comfortable facing the other side.

thank you

loneprof:
What did I just read?
Small boy, give the phone back to your mummy.

Kvvngkhalifa202:
This one off me aswear

Twoclans:
Nooooo this is unacceptable why would she want to be cuddled or shown any form of affection.Is she not aware that you are doing her a favour by allowing her space in your bed?Is she not aware that you need to turn to the other side to avoid seeing her shapeless body and smelling weavon?Is she not aware that you are not romantic and dont owe her to be romantic?Is she not aware that you are the man and it is a man's world?Is she not aware that once you do grrrrrrrrrr her services are no longer needed until the sac is full again?

Your girl is not in tune with reality. kick her out.

Ginaz:
Tell her to kindly buy her own bed or sleep in her father’s house then. What nonsense! I do not like to be touched while sleeping and can’t sleep comfortably with body contact .

Once I’m in the mood to sleep, I face my side of the bed . I can roll and turn for Africa so imagine yourself cuddling me , the tides are against you.

She’s behaving immature. Under someone’s roof you didn’t pay a kobo for house rent , you wanna dictate to him how to sleep. . Romantic kee her there. Sleep is very vital.

veave:
What am I doing on this thread?

Twoclans:
Nooooo this is unacceptable why would she want to be cuddled or shown any form of affection.Is she not aware that you are doing her a favour by allowing her space in your bed?Is she not aware that you need to turn to the other side to avoid seeing her shapeless body and smelling weavon?Is she not aware that you are not romantic and dont owe her to be romantic?Is she not aware that you are the man and it is a man's world?Is she not aware that once you do grrrrrrrrrr her services are no longer needed until the sac is full again?

Your girl is not in tune with reality. kick her out.

fineboynl:
we are just dating one kind and nothing really that serious about us, and she likes coming to my place.

here is the thread, I do not sleep comfortably facing any one. even if I do I tent to get tired almost immediately and facing back to the other side or the other way. I do not face the middle and if I have to it has to be only me on the bed. but once there is someone with me on the bed it's instinctive or inbuilt because most time I really don't know when it triggered me to turn the other side. it's something that's done all by itself before me knowing.

she always complained I am backing her. and the reason she don't like coming to my place again. there was a day she leave the bed and sleep on the ground taking alongside the covering. I was feeing cold and woke up and saw her and the covering on the floor.

she want me facing her and holding her, or herself put her head on my chest. I'm not a romantic fellow and don't want to be. I'm a serious and ethical being. I do not move by mere romantic behavior but by being realist and doing the right thing. if your mind is pure and clean you will be least concerned by things the other people do or live their lives.

now the question to fellows like me, do you back your partner in bed? or both of you back each other's? does this singular act causes trouble? do you feel comfortable facing each other? or you are comfortable facing the other side.

thank you

MrBrownJay1:
tell this babe this exact words:"biitch, if you want to sleep on the floor then be my guest, but LAI LAI never take the covers again. are you mad!!!!"

seriously... this woman is immature, and should understand that what she wants in bed is irrelevant. a person's sleep pattern cant be dictated.

deluded woman that wants you to think of her and benefit her, even when you sleep, lol!

Ariza:
I do not agree to this. The lady isn't deluded or selfish, she's just a phlegmatic and romantic type. If anyone is to be selfish here, it will be op for being so insensitive to his woman's love language not that I fault him though because like he stated, they aren't into a something serious but just using each other to 'pataje' . Lol

Op should let go already, he isn't into her to compromise.

MrBrownJay1:


there is nothing wrong with a woman/man who is romantic or phlegmatic, but the minute anyone expect to control the way a person sleeps, is the moment we all have to agree that this person is not in their right mental state.

nobody, and i repeat, NOBODY can control the way they sleep... and as much as we all go to bed sleeping in a romantic manner (in each others hands), during the night we all go through "uncontrollable" sleeping stages. some talk in their sleep, other snore, many twist and turn countless of time, some grind their teeth and some even sleep walk. expecting a man to ALWAYS be romantically inclined/orientated towards what a woman desires, is not only comical, but also truly deluded.

imagine what this woman is saying?! "even when you sleep, i want to be the focus/priority of your life"

saying that a man is insensitive because he cannot control the way he sleeps, makes you.......

Unnerve:
Lol, like are there actually people who can sleep in cuddle position all through the night and be comfortable?

I've had live-in partners for many many years and I can't remember a time when we go to sleep cuddled up and still wake up cuddled up.
These people watch too many movies. Lol

Unnerve:

Lol, like are there actually people who can sleep in cuddle position all through the night and still be comfortable?

I've had live-in partners for many many years and I can't remember a single time when we go to sleep cuddled up and still wake up cuddled up.

Some of these chics have been watching too many movies. Lol

MrBrownJay1:


some people seem to believe that yes...



its just impossible... but sadly, many people out there think that this is what a man should do (aka hold him babe til morning light)... then wake up and run to hospital to have his hand amputated because blood flow don comot from there, since the previous evening. lol

only possible in movies.

MrBrownJay1:


there is nothing wrong with a woman/man who is romantic or phlegmatic, but the minute anyone expect to control the way a person sleeps, is the moment we all have to agree that this person is not in their right mental state.

nobody, and i repeat, NOBODY can control the way they sleep... and as much as we all go to bed sleeping in a romantic manner (in each others hands), during the night we all go through "uncontrollable" sleeping stages. some talk in their sleep, other snore, many twist and turn countless of time, some grind their teeth and some even sleep walk. expecting a man to ALWAYS be romantically inclined/orientated towards what a woman desires, is not only comical, but also truly deluded.

imagine what this woman is saying?! "even when you sleep, i want to be the focus/priority of your life"

saying that a man is insensitive because he cannot control the way he sleeps, makes you.......

thorpido:
As the sleep progresses,the couple will naturally separate but there are women who start their process of sleeping that way.
There's nothing wrong with it, people are just different.
It's about finding someone who meets your needs.

@Op, there's nothing wrong with her needs,just that she's being too dramatic about it.
I can't sleep with a body touching me too but you need to give some minutes to hold or face front before you drift away to sleep.
You say you are both just friends with benefits though.