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DamnnNiggarr:
if she's not searching for my type, why then did she brought it to public notice?? She should have kept it a secret, since she's not searching for any how men
With due respect sir, you don't know me, you don't know what I look like in reality, so going hard on you won't add a kobo to my bank account, so it's futility engaging you in an argument.

Please do enjoy your day, bye.

Hahahahahahahahaha. You're a serious trouble maker.

pansophist:
I think it was Socrates that said thousands of years ago that "Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior" , and I've experience it alot to be true. And the more money a woman makes, the less she value a man. The famous " I'm independent and I don't need a man" slogan. Men have been independent forever and do not utter such statements.

I also think it is because biologically women, women are valuable than men. They feel it in the psyche, and when they get money and degrees, the very thing men need to have before they find him attractive, he becomes less valuable, even though they still need him for sex, kids and not to feel like a leftovers. And yes, many of guys I know marry women that are just ordinary, no one wants to drag shoulder with our modern women that learns how marriage from YouTubers and magazines.

Only if they start learning about the male perspective, only if.

Learn marriage from You tubers. Lmao.

Toks2008:
Some ladies have this vague inflated sense of self importance and i just wonder.

Most of them think the world revolves around them. I think the more educated a lady is the more difficult it may be for her to find a purposeful relationship.

This is why Guys are now settling for semi educated or totally uneducated ladies just to have marital peace and YES i know some uneducated ladies can be a piece of work too but statistics have shown that it is safer and better to go for unassuming ladies if a man truly wants peace.

Sophistication is the bane of many ladies.

I'm telling you my brother. Education destroys a woman. The very soul of a woman that should be refined by education is rather destroyed by it.


Thier sense of importance and overly inflated ego/esteem. Isn't just annoying it's outright stvpid. To add to all of these they then have a passive silent aggressive attitude that goes with snubbishness.



Education has done bad woman damage. It's not the same way with women of other culture.

pansophist:
My friends in Canada was trying to introduce me with her lawyer friend for marriage one time, na so I run. I no de do abeg. But before running, I test play, I was really curious, to confirm if my suspicions were true. To see if she hasn't lost her femininity in the pursuit of degree, and wont be rubbing her "success" in my face.

Firstly, she respond in a way that I should feel lucky she is talking to me. She said I'll have to move to her in Canada, I told her no, and she was shocked that I could deny the offer to live in her heaven called Canada. From question regarding my financial status, to determine if I'm an odogwu or a pauper, and simple joke that she can't take. I felt like I had to walk on an egg shell to avoid being misinterpreted.

I told her that it was Eve that joined Adam in the garden of Eden, not otherwise, and if she wants anything, she needs to come to my base, which of course she refused. Her work was her first husband and I'll merely be an attachment a whole me pansophist, an attachment, okay. Her career was far important than her need for a family. I wondered why she couldn't find a man over there, and wanted arranged marriage like the Indians, but of course wants it 100% her way.

After my suspicion was confirmed, I cut off contact and moved on. I can't come and go and kill myself.

A whole Pansophist na him woman dey toy with. Smh. Ladies loose their feminism in pursuit of their dreams rather than marrying both ends. It kinda reminds me of the lady called CeeC. She messed up a guy that loved her to the heavens and back, but is constantly crying online for husband. What a world.