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Are You The Type To Avoid Confrontations? by Theladysroom: 2:00pm On Aug 05, 2020
Just let it go. I have said this to myself many times I had issues with people that needed me to confront them. I hate confrontations, especially with my family and close friends. Basically, I am one of those people who would rather walk around the elephant in a room than confront it.

The truth is, avoiding confrontations builds resentment against people. Each time I choose to “ignore” what someone has done to me, that offence is stored somewhere in my mind. If the person does it again and again, one day I will cut them off or stop speaking to them and the person wouldn’t even know what they have done wrong.

I am still learning ways to confront people. How do you guys handle confrontations with your friends? https://theladysroom.ng/are-you-the-type-to-avoid-confrontations/

Re: Are You The Type To Avoid Confrontations? by merieam16(f): 2:06pm On Aug 05, 2020
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Re: Are You The Type To Avoid Confrontations? by ImaIma1(f): 2:27pm On Aug 05, 2020
Better to speak up before it eats one up gradually
Re: Are You The Type To Avoid Confrontations? by Unnerve: 2:44pm On Aug 05, 2020
Personally, and this works for me - measure the magnitude of confrontation against the person who's confronting you, before making a decision to either ignore/avoid or match it in return.

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