Hintona:
I'm almost 20 and my parents have never mentioned anything about sex to me, not even to tell me me about abstinence.

When I was in secondary school, I hear my friends discuss about the things their parents told them about sex, especially that infamous line "don't allow a boy to touch you, if not you'll get pregnant" , and I'll laugh with them but I could never relate. The only time my mum has even come close to telling me about sex was when our neighbour's daughter was raped, she told me I should be careful with boys and even if I wanted to have sex I should use a condom, I was quite surprised though.

Even my Dad who's more conservative have never even mentioned the word sex to my hearing before .

I wonder if they'll ever discuss it with me, or maybe it's too early, or are they shy or scared to approach the topic.

PS; I've asked my neighbour about it and she says the only time her parents tells her anything about sex is when they are quarrelling her and they'll be like "if you like go and get pregnant and come back to my house, I'll throw you out".

And I can't even broach the issue with them, there are some questions I would like to ask them about sex and I feel they are the only ones who can answer them.

I'm a bit worried.

There won't be any excuse for you to misbehave because your parents didn't talk to you about sex

Now you have the idea Google it and learn more
You have disciplined aunties and mum around you, go to them for advice

Some parents didn't establish the expected relationship needed for their children and this is where you find yourself in