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He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by smallrincowis16(m): 9:23pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Question I am married and my wife no longer gets her menses. Is it permissible, according to Islam, to marry another wife with the aim of taking an egg from her and implanting it in the uterus of my current wife, and producing a child who will be kept by my current wife, and we will attribute him to us? If that is not permissible, is it permissible for me to marry a woman so that she will bear me a child in the natural way, and I will attribute him to myself and my current wife, after his birth mother agrees to that? Answer Praise be to Allah. Firstly: The first idea, of implanting an egg from one woman into the uterus of another woman, is not permissible. A statement was issued by the Islamic Fiqh Council concerning the issue of implanting a fertilised egg from a couple into the uterus of another woman, stating that this is not permissible, even if the woman in whom the egg is implanted is the second wife of the husband himself. Secondly: The child can only be attributed to his real parents. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “nor has He made your adopted sons your real sons. That is but your saying with your mouths. But Allah says the truth, and He guides to the (Right) Way. Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allah” [al-Ahzab 33:4, 5]. Based on that, it is not permissible to attribute the child to anyone but his real mother who gave birth to him. This is the kind of adoption that is prohibited. That is because attributing him to someone other than his real mother may result in negative consequences, one of which is that he would inherit from that woman on the basis that she is his mother, when in fact she is not, and this would be a transgression of people’s rights. Moreover, people may regard that child as a mahram of someone for whom he is not a mahram, such as a maternal uncle or aunt, or vice versa. Conclusion: It is not permissible for you to seek to have a child in the manner mentioned. It is also not permissible for you to marry another woman so that you can attribute her child to your first wife. You have other, permissible means of having a child, such as marrying a second wife. In that case, if Allah blesses you with children from her, there is no reason why the first wife cannot take care of the upbringing of some of the children of the second wife, as a way of bringing her comfort and consolation by having children around her. If it is not possible to marry a second wife, but you can take care of an orphan, then we advise you to try to do that, but without attributing the child to yourself or to your wife, unless she actually gave birth to him. We ask Allah to bestow upon you righteous offspring, for He is able to do that. And Allah knows best. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/186347/he-wants-to-attribute-his-child-from-his-second-wife-to-his-first-wife-because-she-cannot-have-children-what-is-the-ruling 15 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by XXXXTENTACION: 9:35pm On Aug 20, 2020 |
Too bad so you mean artificial insemination, sorrugacy and adoption is not allowed in islam am confused . what if in the case a woman or man has an accident or contacts a disease and he or she's not able to produce children does that mean such a person will remain childless till death 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Arry110(m): 9:45am On Aug 21, 2020 |
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Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by NeoWanZaeed(m): 9:45am On Aug 21, 2020 |
perfect 2 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by BoboNogoDie: 9:47am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION: HYPOCRISY is when you tried to criticise others when you're even worse.... Jehovah witness that are Christians, is it permissible? Do they even approve of ordinary blood transfusion? So many fools just like commenting on what doesn't concern them... 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Jahzrockballer(m): 9:51am On Aug 21, 2020 |
Ok 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Diamondniyi(m): 9:51am On Aug 21, 2020 |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by BHUHARiE: 9:52am On Aug 21, 2020 |
May Allah Reward you Non Muslim be careful with your Comment May Allah Reward you Non Muslim be careful with your Comment May Allah Reward you Non Muslim be careful with your Comment 5 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Protein0: 9:52am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION:The summary is that, no matter your way of trying to get children, children should not be denied their biological roots. Assisted Reproductive Technology is an area of science with many ethical cautions. The bottomline is, you're either the biological parent or not. There are no two ways to it, except you want to deceive yourself. You can see from the Quranic verse quoted, you can adopt but don't deny the adopted child his biological root. That's fairness. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by ThatFairGuy: 9:52am On Aug 21, 2020 |
Jazzakumullahu khayran OP. Islam is based on principles, not ordinary views. Who doesn't know should take note 4 Likes
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Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Mtm5313: 9:52am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION:[quote author=XXXXTENTACION post=93043194]Too bad it is allowed it they are legally married 1 Like |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Techreliance(m): 9:53am On Aug 21, 2020 |
smallrincowis16: Alhamdulillah Allah nimoti'l Islam wa sunnah. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Patrioticman007(m): 9:54am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION: You can deceive your relatives not yourself & God. 5 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Youright: 9:55am On Aug 21, 2020 |
God bless the living and rest the dead Isha Allah There is no religion in heaven
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Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by swtdrms(m): 9:55am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION: You better live forever with your confusion. This is islam, it doesn't need to make sense to you, go and deal with the confusions in your religion and leave others to theirs. 5 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Vengazi: 10:01am On Aug 21, 2020 |
Please i need assistance in translating these names to arabic 1. Rafiu (male) 2. Latifat (Female) 3. Nafisat (Female Would really appreciate |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by BoboNogoDie: 10:03am On Aug 21, 2020 |
swtdrms: Don't mind them RUBBISH! There are over 2000 gods in this world... There are over 200 known religious books... Why should I believe in their Jesus? Why should I believe in their story book - Bible? What makes their Jesus special? How sure are they that their Jesus is the true god? A mere human like you and I... Oh! I see, they have a story book (Bible) that says so.  As if other religions don't have their story books too  Let's assume the pale skinned slave masters from Europe didn't invade their land hundreds of years ago to STEAL, RAPE, KILL, DESTROY AND TO PREACH ABOUT JESUS, will they be here defending this RUBBISH? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by disco82: 10:04am On Aug 21, 2020 |
perfect answer. May Almighty Allah bless every marriage looking for child with fruit of womb. 4 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Nobody: 10:05am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION:Must one bear children? 2 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by fraymite: 10:08am On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION:Artifical insemination is allowed if only the husband sperm is transferred to his wife's egg and the wife carried the pregnancy herself (please note all the conditions attached) Surrogacy is totally haram in Islam. Adoption is allowed but you must never claim to be the biological parent of that child. You can only be guardian and also let the child knows the root of her real parent when grown up. 7 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Amspecial: 10:13am On Aug 21, 2020 |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by Princeofasia: 10:13am On Aug 21, 2020 |
rubbish, all in the name of allah. |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by flimzy24: 10:36am On Aug 21, 2020 |
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Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by marod(m): 11:41am On Aug 21, 2020 |
BoboNogoDie: I am guessing you are part of 'them' that you are referring to. This is not of Muslims. We don't troll other religions. 5 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by jagunpapa(m): 11:46am On Aug 21, 2020 |
Jazakumullahu khaeeran 2 Likes |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by AbuAeesha: 12:10pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION:also in some Christianity too, even wen one of the couple is impotent they have to Live together like that,till DEATH DO US APART. some xtians don't even allow blood transfusion for the purpose of saving a life |
Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by bamevoj: 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
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Re: He Wants To Attribute His Child From His Second Wife To His First Wife. by abdullahi45: 1:04pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
XXXXTENTACION: Hi. Read the write-up again, I think you must have missed some critical points. Your response says it all. |
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