Hi nairalanders. I am in a kinda complicated relationship with a girl and she doesn't enjoy pre-intimacy and the act itself. She complains of the pain every time i try to initiate intercourse. I bare my mind to everyone here because my love language is touch chiefly. Tried everything to spice it up but it's all been the same old story of unilateral sexual gratification. So ish is that she travelled and wild thoughts of being with another woman have been creeping up my mind for days now. Need practicable solutions to this. Thanks in anticipation . God bless.

Apktotheworld:
Hi nairalanders. I am in a kinda complicated relationship with a girl and she doesn't enjoy pre-intimacy and the act itself. She complains of the pain every time i try to initiate intercourse. I bare my mind to everyone here because my love language is touch chiefly. Tried everything to spice it up but it's all been the same old story of unilateral sexual gratification. So ish is that she travelled and wild thoughts of being with another woman have been creeping up my mind for days now. Need practicable solutions to this. Thanks in anticipation . God bless.

Only MARRIED PEOPLE should be having sex.... EVERYONE'S LOVE LANGUAGE IS TOUCH... infact TOUCH IS NOT A LOVE LANGUAGE OGA....

You are just Hot, there is no love there... she may even be too young and inexperienced. See, just admit to yourself that you are only there for SEX.... FAITHFULNESS, COMMITMENT and such long term things are not your game... So do not waste your time...

blackpanthar:


Only MARRIED PEOPLE should be having sex.... EVERYONE'S LOVE LANGUAGE IS TOUCH... infact TOUCH IS NOT A LOVE LANGUAGE OGA....

You are just Hot, there is no love there... she may even be too young and inexperienced. See, just admit to yourself that you are only there for SEX.... FAITHFULNESS, COMMITMENT and such long term things are not your game... So do not waste your time...

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I respect your stand on this but then it's each one to his own on coital affairs before or after marriage bruv. I however believe that if she ain't willing to be active averagely pre-marriage, she probably will degenerate if I chose to enter into union with her. P.s: I have been with her for over two years now. Thanks.

Apktotheworld:
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I respect your stand on this but then it's each one to his own on coital affairs before or after marriage bruv. I however believe that if she ain't willing to be active averagely pre-marriage, she probably will degenerate if I chose to enter into union with her. P.s: I have been with her for over two years now. Thanks.

WoW.... I do not know if you know what MARRIAGE IS.... but sexual activity damages a person ESPECIALLY IF THEY EVENTUALLY DO NOT GET MARRIED.

You are not planning marriage with her and its 2 YEARS ALREADY? is it university course? or DIPLOMA she is doing?

THIS IS THE MOMENT TO PREPARE FOR WEDDING AND SEX IS NOT PART OF THE DRESS-REHEARSAL.

See, you can do whatever you like BUT if sex is so important to you that you have to bring it out here, then maybe you are not ready to marry.

THERE ARE FAR MORE PRESSING ISSUES THAN SEX, IF YOU ARE CONSIDERING SPENDING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE.