tatiana009:

Hmmm, so lack of submission equals murder? Na wa o

mmeri:

Sad story though but real.
There is no reason for a man to lift his hand, lest shoot his wife.
My advice if you harbor this thought is to, just drop it. I tell you, it is not worth it and the society will judge you terribly if you commit the act.
I agree that a women should submit but the realities in modern time is that both parties must be committed to make it work.
It is time that men begin to shed some of their ego. If your wife out-ran you economically then adopt diplomacy.  Period!

solidifi:

Inked Nerd my dear, women are not animals. They're vital part of men. But they're commanded by their Maker to be submissive.

No matter what a woman is, her husband is her head, except you don't believe God's word. When a wife loves money more than her husband, what manner of wife is she. Is better not to enter into the marriage institution at all, because you'll be the 1st graduate of this great institution.
Let's be objective & factual here, bias & sentiments apart.  

tatiana009:

@ Solidifi, the poster asked a simple question, who is to blame? And you said the women( the victims) and went on to state their lack of submission as the reason. Now even though you went on to say men should not think this excuses murder, the point is that in its self is wrong. When a crime is committed the person at fault is the perpetrator. By the way you should learn to discuss with people with different opinions without bringing in the devil. I don't know why some people need to bring the devil into everything even a simple discussion! i think you should take your own advice and not let him operate in your life and speech

solidifi:

tatiana009,
I'm entitled to my own opinion. Air your views, and possibly proffer solution(s) to this problem @ hand as others did, and stop attacking someone's piece of mind.

I reiterate, I never supported and 'll never support such barbaric, devilish, cannibalistic, uncultured, unmanly act.
Tanx.