obowunmi:

Mama-gee, why call anyone a not-so-smart person ?

I don't get your English, bro.

mama-gee:

You're a reetard!

The wives sit down and watch their husbands beat them.

Afterall, he's her husband, raasclat!

jennykadry:

Stay and work on your marriage. You cannot afford to leave your home especially if kids are involved. Who will marry a woman with kids anyway? "It is better to be one man's slave than a slave to everybody" . Look at the big picture and stop judging based on sentiments. Try and work on your husband and make him happy. If he doesn't want you to get a job , please quit looking for a job and channel your energy on making your marriage work. As long as he provides for you, he has a right to tell you to stop looking for a job. If he verbally abuses  i.e calls you a witch, ingrate, ashawo e.t.c please don't get mad at him afterall men are big babies and you know what? they are allowed to call their wives names, any man that does not call his wife "names" isn't a good husband.It is expected of a man to do as he so pleases.

jennykadry:

Stay and work on your marriage. You cannot afford to leave your home especially if kids are involved. Who will marry a woman with kids anyway? "It is better to be one man's slave than a slave to everybody" . Look at the big picture and stop judging based on sentiments. Try and work on your husband and make him happy. If he doesn't want you to get a job , please quit looking for a job and channel your energy on making your marriage work. As long as he provides for you, he has a right to tell you to stop looking for a job. If he verbally abuses i.e calls you a witch, ingrate, ashawo e.t.c please don't get mad at him afterall men are big babies and you know what? they are allowed to call their wives names, any man that does not call his wife "names" isn't a good husband.It is expected of a man to do as he so pleases.

Brite02:

Mama gee, easy! easy!! Ah mk we hear word.

C'mon D OP ask a simple QUESTN & u ended up unleashin ya terror on d OP. Wia z ya sense of humor?

mama-gee:

I don't get why a normal human being would ask such a reetarded question.

Afterall, this is a question about domestic violence and shouldn't be tolerated in anyway.

So, asking such questions is an offense to me.

Brite02:

Ok o0. . Evry1 z entitle 2 dia opinion, rite? But u sounded 2 personal, hw angry/cheerful do nt affect hw/wat answers d OP is searching 4. . . . Lyf is a learnin process, we learn fins evryday. .if u go on lk dz i bet no1 z gonna learn sumfin 4rm ya, ok?

aisha2:

Hehehehehehehheheee, You got it right my sister, The advice people give to women here dey tire me. Stay there and die, die in your husbands house, it is better to die than to be a divorce, the shame, the scandal, no landlord will give you house, your family will reject you, let him kill you afterall he has paid your bride price. Na so marriage be. Na do or die. Dont talk oh, even if the word you say is good morning sir, if he doesnt like it, allow him to chain your mouth, he is your master

jennykadry:

Ehen naaa LOL, me I have started campaigning against women leaving their marital home after one hot slap from their hubby. A woman should be able to accept a 100 slaps before actually moving out of the house. She needs to endure her marriage and not enjoy her marriage.

aisha2:

Yes oh, infact am doing the same thing, we should start an NGO on this issue, why willl women be running from small small slap and beating

jennykadry:

LMAO @small small slap

Why do you think I came to you? na because you know alot about NGO's. No woman should just leave her marriage like that aisha. We women have to work hard on our marriages. We cannot afford to leave our husbands once he starts using our pregnant tummies for "football" and our mental/psychological status for " verbal nansense "

jennykadry:

Ehen naaa LOL, me I have started campaigning against women leaving their marital home after one hot slap from their hubby. A woman should be able to accept a 100 slaps before actually moving out of the house. She needs to endure her marriage and not enjoy her marriage.

aisha2:

Yes oh, infact am doing the same thing, we should start an NGO on this issue, why willl women be running from small small slap and beating

ifyalways:

^^^You guys forgot that all women endure same and even worst things in their homes but come online and pose.
LMAO.
Funny thing is that they get abused over and over again,they keep changing Id's to share and re-share their pathetic stories but yet they refuse to do something . . .I wonder really how hard it is to say NO,I've had enough.

chaircover:

I dont beleive that I said anything about anyone having no right to comment about relationships. Its a free world and anyone can talk about anything.

Having said that, Absolutely No one is an expert on relationships because all relationships are different & what works for A may be a taboo for B etc, however the rain check question to check if you are on the home run is can you pray that ones daughter marrys the same kind of man one is in a relationship with? . . . Food for thought I know.

Only when you can hand on heart answer a yes to that question can you really say that you have an almost perfect marriage/relationship and very few people fall into that category, which means that many are working on their relationships in one way or another anyway.

A lot of people come to this section for help/encouragement/support/advice etc and the motive of most of us here is to try and help in our own little way; of course we all cant to agree on everything; that's just life.

Anyways, The poster in question has probably gone off and reconciled with her husband and they are busy making baby number 4 and we are here poking cheap jabs at each other.