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Chill till the next Payment b4 u do anything

Abbeytherabbit:
Chill till the next Payment b4 u do anything

Ok. God bless you for this. Thought as much. just that I don't want it to look like I'm down with it.

Thanks.

Look it's better you ask her now. Even if she eventually didn't honour the agreement now, she will put it at the back of her mind till next month end. All the best.

Portifar:
Look it's better you ask her now. Even if she eventually didn't honour the agreement now, she will put it at the back of her mind till next month end. All the best.

Thanks. But I'm thinking she might see me as an ingrate plus I don't want to get her upset now that we are approaching Xmas period. Also getting a school that pays as at when due these days is by the grace of God because most of my colleagues are still battling their money from before the lockdown and the competition for my kind of job (partime) is also high at this period. partimers are on the lookout for good schools. So I don't want to spoil my chances. Therefore thinking of leaving it for next month.

I'm just at crossroads right now.

Thank you so much.

Just call her and tell her about your agreement in a polite manner.

Sometimes Human beings are like that they will do something just to test u and see if u will talk, if u talk they will correct it subsequently, if u no talk they will take u for granted and continue doing it.

So its better u called and tell her that u want to remind her about your agreement.

It is better you send her a polite text message thanking her for sending you this payment

You should then go ahead to say "I am thankful for receiving so and so pay under this agreement. I look forward to receiving the promised increase with my next pay"

Entrepreneurrr:
Just call her and tell her about your agreement in a polite manner.

Sometimes Human beings are like that they will do something just to test u and see if u will talk, if u talk they will correct it subsequently, if u no talk they will take u for granted and continue doing it.

So its better u called and tell her that u want to remind her about your agreement.

Hmm... I'm in a fix right now.

Ok, thanks.

NUJABEZ:
It is better you send her a polite text message thanking her for sending you this payment

You should then go ahead to say "I am thankful for receiving so and so pay under this agreement. I look forward to receiving the promised increase with my next pay"

Will this not make it sound like I'm being unappreciative? You know with all that's happening plus I didn't go this week and it's only once a week thing. So she won't say she didn't deduct it and I'm still complaining.. I Know this woman even though I've only worked a few months with her.

Op calm down and wait for next payment, if she repeat it again then notify her, tell her u thought it was an error for the first time and u didn't want to bother her.

Oizee:
Op calm down and wait for next payment, if she repeat it again then notify her, tell her u thought it was an error for the first time and u didn't want to bother her.

Oh.. great!

Thanks sis.

Don't bother to ask. She did not forget. Schools made a lot of losses due to the cancelled term. Like you said, you might get Xmas bonus that would compensate for it. She is not taking you for granted but hoping that you understand. Since she pays when she, kindly accept it even if it seems unfair. You won't regret it. I'm 45 yrs old and not the average troll talking from lack of experience. I don't think even when structures organizations would be giving promotions this year. Be glad that you still have a job then raise it next term.

Blissquare:
Don't bother to ask. She did not forget. Schools made a lot of losses due to the cancelled term. Like you said, you might get Xmas bonus that would compensate for it. She is not taking you for granted but hoping that you understand. Since she pays when she, kindly accept it even if it seems unfair. You won't regret it. I'm 45 yrs old and not the average troll talking from lack of experience. I don't think even when structures organizations would be giving promotions this year. Be glad that you still have a job then raise it next term.

Wow! This is awesome Ma. I really appreciate. Amen to the bonus part.

I'm grateful to God, no doubts.

God bless you with more wisdom Ma.

pozehnani:


Thanks. But I'm thinking she might see me as an ingrate plus I don't want to get her upset now that we are approaching Xmas period. Also getting a school that pays as at when due these days is by the grace of God because most of my colleagues are still battling their money from before the lockdown and the competition for my kind of job (partime) is also high at this period. partimers are on the lookout for good schools. So I don't want to spoil my chances. Therefore thinking of leaving it for next month.

I'm just at crossroads right now.

Thank you so much.

Thank God you know all these. Your matter is resolved already.

mylander:


Thank God you know all these. Your matter is resolved already.

Yeah, I do but I also don't want to settle for what we didn't agree.

Thanks

Blissquare:
Don't bother to ask. She did not forget. Schools made a lot of losses due to the cancelled term. Like you said, you might get Xmas bonus that would compensate for it. She is not taking you for granted but hoping that you understand. Since she pays when she, kindly accept it even if it seems unfair. You won't regret it. I'm 45 yrs old and not the average troll talking from lack of experience. I don't think even when structures organizations would be giving promotions this year. Be glad that you still have a job then raise it next term.

Lol, you don't need to add your age you already speak wisdom.

@op, i think you have to consider this opinion, you already stated your disadvantages and i think this advice suit you best.

jieta:
Lol, you don't need to add your age you already speak wisdom.

@op, i think you have to consider this opinion, you already stated your disadvantages and i think this advice suit you best.

Ok. I will

Thanks.

I won't tell you what to do, because deep down you've already made up your mind. so, just follow your heart..

So happy to see that you are doing everything possible to engage yourself meaningfully. God has ways of making everything Alright, i'll advice you chill a little. receive the next pay and see, then you can approach her.

Take it easy. Cos schools owners are not finding it funny this year at all.

Alot of schools in my area have closed up.

I will advise you give her till next year.

Foodqueen:
Take it easy. Cos schools owners are not finding it funny this year at all.

Alot of schools in my area have closed up.

I will advise you give her till next year.

Ok.

Thanks.

Chujor1634:
So happy to see that you are doing everything possible to engage yourself meaningfully. God has ways of making everything Alright, i'll advice you chill a little. receive the next pay and see, then you can approach her.

Ok.

Thanks.

Holumhidey:
just drop her number; she'll send you the balance by tomorrow

pozehnani:
Please help me with this. I just got an alert from one of my schools but I'm troubled because I feel I'm being played and I don't want to be too forward and spoil a golden opportunity.

When I got the appointment to work in this school early this year, during our chat, we agreed on a price of which the owner of the school said she can only start paying from subsequent term that she will pay me a certain amount for starters (that was in second term) so,we agreed. But due to the lockdown, third term couldn't hold, so there was no room to remind her of our agreement and all that.

Now, I just got an alert from the school and they paid me the same thing I received for starters.... I called her and she confirmed the payment was from her. I thanked her but couldn't ask her immediately why she didn't do as agreed cos I don't want to look like an ingrate especially as we are just coming in from the lockdown and still didn't go this week ( because of the crises in town) but I'm worried because she might act like she forgot and want to continue paying that amount. Though the difference is not much but I feel agreement should be kept.

Now, I feel like calling her again to remind her. Would that be inconsiderate of me? Please I'm really worried and feel like a jackass right now.

You have to be considerate in this situation because some parents may not have paid school fees and the effects of lock down with end SARS are still on

Don't talk about it yet till you receive next month's salary then you will be able to ask her questions if the increase was not reflected in it

This is where the gentle man in you is required and neeeded

frozen70:


You have to be considerate in this situation because some parents may not have paid school fees and the effects of lock down with end SARS are still on

Don't talk about it yet till you receive next month's salary then you will be able to ask her questions if the increase was not reflected in it

This is where the gentle man in you is required and neeeded

Hmm.. ok.

Thanks dear.

Dont just rush her for now,
so that you won't end up losing everything and regrets will now come in...

uchman:
Dont just rush her for now,
so that you won't end up losing everything and regrets will now come in...

Ok.
Thanks so much.

pozehnani:
Please help me with this. I just got an alert from one of my schools but I'm troubled because I feel I'm being played and I don't want to be too forward and spoil a golden opportunity.

When I got the appointment to work in this school early this year, during our chat, we agreed on a price of which the owner of the school said she can only start paying from subsequent term that she will pay me a certain amount for starters (that was in second term) so,we agreed. But due to the lockdown, third term couldn't hold, so there was no room to remind her of our agreement and all that.

Now, I just got an alert from the school and they paid me the same thing I received for starters.... I called her and she confirmed the payment was from her. I thanked her but couldn't ask her immediately why she didn't do as agreed cos I don't want to look like an ingrate especially as we are just coming in from the lockdown and still didn't go this week ( because of the crises in town) but I'm worried because she might act like she forgot and want to continue paying that amount. Though the difference is not much but I feel agreement should be kept.

Now, I feel like calling her again to remind her. Would that be inconsiderate of me? Please I'm really worried and feel like a jackass right now.

Demand for your salary.

Bendusx:

Demand for your salary.

I wanna give her till November then I'll ask her.

Thanks bro.