There has been a problem lately, a friend narrated his sex ordeal with me and co-incidentaly I may have suffered from such when I once "cheated" (we were on a break)..

So this guy loves his wife so much, infact I met her once and she was really an awesome character, he is a bit introverted , although he never admits it, would rather call himself an ambivert

So the thing is, he is having sexual problems with his wife, when they make out, he barely lasts beyond 10mins and it bothers him so much. I asked him if his wife was okay with it, he said "well, she seems fine, but i just feels bad for myself, its give me some complex sometimes"..

I adviced him to avoid his favourite sex position, stay away from sugar, alcohol, eat more fruits and do more exercises, that it worked for me..... story.. baba dey shoot per/second..

Told him to stay away from porn and masturbation, he said he does not do that, well I said.. "nobody go gree for public"..

So the amazing thing is... he told me he cheated once with his wife and he lasted over 30min/round, he did 3 rounds.. he said it got to a point he was tired and started having jovial conversations with the "cheatee"..he said maybe he didnt like the girl he tried with a prettier one and he went even further.. bro was firing from all cylinders (turbo-supercharged)..

Long story short, he eventually made up with his wife and life returned to normal, unfortunately, he went back to his previous self (5 mins man).. he is really confused as he feels his wife sees him as an incapable man with small small insults here and there, while he cannot afford to tell her he is "jack the giant killer" with other women (certified)..

Who can advise him, cause I dont know how to... ?

A lot of people are getting it wrong, I thought you ejeculate faster when you love someone and last really long when you are not entirely into it...

In this case, he cums faster with his wife, she is not happy about it, but he cheated and lasted really long..under that assumption, he loves his wife to cum fast always, but how does he tell her it's not his fault but her fault not to satisfy her, as he lasted really long cheating..

Cc: lalasticlala

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Lalasticlala, Seun, Mynd44

Basically, you don’t expect a man to last long with a wife that ties wrapper with ‘Adieu papa’ polo to bed. An average Nigerian girl, once she’s married, she start feeling less concerned towards sexual programs with hubby.

A side chick will wear lingeries with nice colognes added with seductive moves, and you expect a sane man to cum under 2 minutes No way!

Whor.e for your husband and see him perform wonders.

Its simple. He love his wife and I guess she has great body curves.

kkkp:
Its simple. He love his wife and I guess she has great body curves.

The wife is not comfortable with their sex life..

Essenza01:


The wife is not comfortable with their sex life..

I think 80 to 90 percent of premature ejaculation is psychological. Excitement, eagerness and all that. Tell him to calm down and take his mind off while having sex with his wife.

kkkp:
Its simple. He love his wife and I guess she has great body curves.

Right answer...

Davash222:
Basically, you don’t expect a man to last long with a wife that ties wrapper with ‘Adieu papa’ polo to bed. An average Nigerian wife, once she’s married, she start feeling less concerned towards sexual programs with hubby.

A side chick will wear lingeries with nice colognes added with seductive moves, and you expect a sane man to cum under 2 minutes No way!

Whor.e for your husband and see him perform wonders.

I swear loud!!!!

Well that's a new one.... All those I know only complain of quick ejaculation while cheating. Whereas they last longer with wifey...
Some say they can't even sustain erection after first round with a new woman...

What do I know....me and wife dey knack ourselves left right and center....so no basket for rotten mango.

Not all pussies are the same. Every pussy has it's particular feel n taste for every dick. There's pussies that will make a 1 minute man "ride all night till d wheels fall off" n there's also that particular pussy that will make "Lexington Steele" cringe n moan while pulling off that mamba quickly just to bust a fat nut at exactly 3 mins 55 secs.

Essenza01:
There has been a problem lately, a friend narrated his sex ordeal with me and co-incidentaly I may have suffered from such when I once "cheated" (we were on a break)..

So this guy loves his wife so much, infact I met her once and she was really an awesome character, he is a bit introverted , although he never admits it, would rather call himself an ambivert

So the thing is, he is having sexual problems with his wife, when they make out, he barely lasts beyond 10mins and it bothers him so much. I asked him if his wife was okay with it, he said "well, she seems fine, but i just feels bad for myself, its give me some complex sometimes"..

I adviced him to avoid his favourite sex position, stay away from sugar, alcohol, eat more fruits and do more exercises, that it worked for me..... story.. baba dey shoot per/second..

Told him to stay away from porn and masturbation, he said he does not do that, well I said.. "nobody go gree for public"..

So the amazing thing is... he told me he cheated once with his wife and he lasted over 30min/round, he did 3 rounds.. he said it got to a point he was tired and started having jovial conversations with the "cheatee"..he said maybe he didnt like the girl he tried with a prettier one and he went even further.. bro was firing from all cylinders (turbo-supercharged)..

Long story short, he eventually made up with his wife and life returned to normal, unfortunately, he went back to his previous self (5 mins man).. he is really confused as he feels his wife sees him as an incapable man with small small insults here and there, while he cannot afford to tell her he is "jack the giant killer" with other women (certified)..

Who can advise him, cause I dont know how to... ?

Cc: lalasticlala

tell him to eat 2 bitter cola 20 minute before sex he will thank me later

Nigerian girls feel that marriage is an archievment... They look cute, awesome and in shape to attract the ring... But once they do!!! Gbam.. they settle down a get fat,breed kids, tie wrapper all over the place...
I can't count how many women around my vicinity that were literally sugar when they first came...but bogus now.. And it makes me wonder does this woman feel all he needed was a wife? And all they do is wife you around, no variety, no fun, just wife!!!!
As a guy, I can tell ya that if I married a slim girl and she turns out fat, I'll keep falling for Slim's girls and I dont promise I won't cheat!!
Check this out...of all the women who catch their husbands in bed with other women or Complain he cheats check well she has a pot belly or is fat, wears baggies and does not care abt what she looks like...
Worst if you force her to work out after guvigi birth and her mum hears, she'll be like "you want to kill my daughter, why did you marry her if you did not like the way she is" as if that was the way she was...
in Africa being healthy is classified by how fat or plump you are..... Truth is if all you do is lie down while I do all the work, I'll CUM quick. That's why prostitutes get wifed up faster than the good ones...marriage is a one time life time thing no one wants to marry and spend the rest of his life with a good, dull, uneventful girl

sex is supposed to be shared not given by only one party

Your friend has lost interest in his wife. Simple. Let her improve her sexiness

OP don't you know that stolen kiss is sweeter than the legal one

AOB1:
OP don't you know that stolen kiss is sweeter than the legal one

Read and understand. A man cum easily when it is sweeter

History555:
Your friend has lost interest in his wife. Simple. Let her improve her sexiness

Read and understand

Wahala dey for who no get sexy wife with a banging body.
I must be lucky then.
We go as the spirit leads...it could be for 10mins or for 40. We could go rounds or just one each and we r ok.
Best sex ever has only been with my wife.
When I try to reminisce and pick out anyone from my past who it was better with, the search comes out as "error 404"
Only problem I got is we could stay days apart without it. When serious matters arise (pursuing money matter esp) club with ur wife, make her ur bestie, talk crazy stuff with her...that way u will also do same exploits u try doing with those ladies.
U r paying these girls to bang the heck outta them...u ain't paying ur wife nothing so focus on ur wife and make it count.
Trust me that she isn't voicing out her displeasure after ur 5mins sex doesn't mean she is happy. Make her happy o! The day u do, she will open up and tell u she loves the new u.

In addition,
One thing I know pisses men off is a woman who doesn't take good care of her self esp when u do ur best to make her happy. This can psychologically make men find someone else to spend their time with.

Essenza01:
There has been a problem lately, a friend narrated his sex ordeal with me and co-incidentaly I may have suffered from such when I once "cheated" (we were on a break)..

So this guy loves his wife so much, infact I met her once and she was really an awesome character, he is a bit introverted , although he never admits it, would rather call himself an ambivert

So the thing is, he is having sexual problems with his wife, when they make out, he barely lasts beyond 10mins and it bothers him so much. I asked him if his wife was okay with it, he said "well, she seems fine, but i just feels bad for myself, its give me some complex sometimes"..

I adviced him to avoid his favourite sex position, stay away from sugar, alcohol, eat more fruits and do more exercises, that it worked for me..... story.. baba dey shoot per/second..

Told him to stay away from porn and masturbation, he said he does not do that, well I said.. "nobody go gree for public"..

So the amazing thing is... he told me he cheated once with his wife and he lasted over 30min/round, he did 3 rounds.. he said it got to a point he was tired and started having jovial conversations with the "cheatee"..he said maybe he didnt like the girl he tried with a prettier one and he went even further.. bro was firing from all cylinders (turbo-supercharged)..

Long story short, he eventually made up with his wife and life returned to normal, unfortunately, he went back to his previous self (5 mins man).. he is really confused as he feels his wife sees him as an incapable man with small small insults here and there, while he cannot afford to tell her he is "jack the giant killer" with other women (certified)..

Who can advise him, cause I dont know how to... ?

Cc: lalasticlala

I say no b small thing oo.. No b ordinary...

How do you know the bolded? There's literally a song with that title, lol.

fykes:
Well that's a new one.... All those I know only complain of quick ejaculation while cheating. Whereas they last longer with wifey...
Some say they can't even sustain erection after first round with a new woman...

What do I know....me and wife dey knack ourselves left right and center.... so no basket for rotten mango.

Sometimes i find married women less sexually attractive than single women. I thought marriage is suppose to bring out the best in you physically n sensually

It's Natural, There Is an Adage That Says" One Woman Kills Penis.

The issue is natural but you can overcome it by yourself. Am not an advocate of infidelity in marriage but since you have made the mistake pls desist from it in order to avoid the devil taking over your marriage.
I will advise as a married man and from my own experience the sexual urge you get when you see another woman is always higher than your wife even if you have a queen at home. Some men have beautiful and curvy wifes at home but they still cheat on them with ugly women, its not juju but spirit of adventure. That's the reason men with no sexual control cheat on their partners,they see their wife as someone they already know her sexual moves or prowess and that particular thought would dampen their urge immediately.
They knew they are not going to experience any other new adventure other than the one they are used to with their partner. This particular thought of seeing another woman and the thought of having an exciting se.x with them normally increases the libido in men to last longer during the act.
The adage that eating a particular soup regularly would make you loose appetite for that particular soup is true. To continue enjoying that soup what you will do is to add some other spices to it or cook it in a different method.
So, revive your method and try other styles and also change locations once in a while. and also tell your wife to dress seductively at home sometimes.

kkkp:
I think 80 to 90 percent of premature ejaculation is psychological. Excitement, eagerness and all that. Tell him to calm down and take his mind off while having sex with his wife.

That's it actually.

Psychological.

In this case he's grown anxious of his inability to last long with his wife.

Can't he go twice? Who said he must stop after the first ejaculation?

And I suggest he takes some alcohol with his wife before the business.

In fact let them get drunk and then go as many rounds the spirit directs.

History555:
Your friend has lost interest in his wife. Simple. Let her improve her sexiness

Is it not when you love someone you cum faster anymore?

:OP don't you know that stolen kiss is sweeter than the legal one Read and understand. A man cum easily when it is sweeter

kkkp:
Read and understand. A man cum easily when it is sweeter

man don't get tired easily when it comes to side chick but when it's their legal wife everything will look boring after 5 minutes

AOB1:
OP don't you know that stolen kiss is sweeter than the legal one

Tell him o. And let him know that you don't Bleep your wife the way you Bleep a side chick or a LovePeddler. Cos ur wife is urs and sidechick is side chick. And besides you pay for those services and you gat Bleep ur money outta her. Turning her to any direction and position..... Broooo you can't do all that to ur wife na. And most times side chicks to everything to impress u, sucking ur dick and balls and all that but most wife's don't. They just want you to get errection, Bleep them and last 1 hr for them without them playing thier parts.

Davash222:
Basically, you don’t expect a man to last long with a wife that ties wrapper with ‘Adieu papa’ polo to bed. An average Nigerian girl, once she’s married, she start feeling less concerned towards sexual programs with hubby.

A side chick will wear lingeries with nice colognes added with seductive moves, and you expect a sane man to cum under 2 minutes No way!

Whor.e for your husband and see him perform wonders.

Lol. You kill it gan ni

Midas01:
How do you know the bolded? There's literally a song with that title, lol.

Na for ughelli that year.

kkkp:
Read and understand

Am telling you he has lost interest. If he had like 4 wives he won't experience such. The same woman all the time brings boredom.

nabiz:
tell him to eat 2 bitter cola 20 minute before sex he will thank me later

one can add honey abi, cos some of us ehnn our pple should not start saying we taste like bitter leaf soup no b agbo jedi jedi dem want kwa

nabiz:
tell him to eat 2 bitter cola 20 minute before sex he will thank me later

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