dominique:
Five kids in this Bihariconomy, covidconomy?

Lord is your strength

Lol, four biologically, one adopted. Thanks we are doing great

jornwhite:





TBH their is no easy role, nd its gud you're appreciating ur wife, I don't think women will find men's role easy as well.
Appreciate your wife and support her when necessary buh don't go overboard ... be guided so she doesnt get entitled or let tinz get into her head, save us all the stress of reading "i opened a new account".


consider it an opinion.

Women have been doing that already and theirs as well .... welcome to the new age!

mariahAngel:


Women have been doing that already and theirs as well .... welcome to the new age!

It took him a lot of willpower to type that comment, so he had to add a twist to take back the supposed compliment. The woman that has been taking care of 1,2,3,4,5 kids didn’t go overboard, but the minute her husband begins to appreciate her (more), one demon advises him not to go overboard.

If there is anything OP should be guided on- it is friends like him.

DimplesLikeWow:
OP, you should have a gift waiting for your wife upon her return.

Very thoughtful of you but I don't want to make this look a bd to her or kinda astounding so I won't ( I just dey swallow the stress, make she no come dey remind me how thing be). increasing her monthlyy allowee, I won't even tell her why but codedly I know whtsup.

pocohantas:
Some people just ignore this thread sha.

Change the topic now to “my wife is denying me sex”, they will land like eagle to tell you she isn’t overworked.

Oya OP tell us, as body dey you now, to knack be your problem? Toor! Any man that thinks it is easy to handle the home should do it for 1week. Only to come up with healthy meals for the family can make you have headache sef.

knack ke.. any free time na to catch up with my lost sleep. tiredness won't let my tin reason am

Women go through a lot from the very first time she took in. Stress of carring a baby for 9 months and naturing that child to adulthood. God bless every woman out there. Only weak men look down on mothers. I once called police on a man who beat up his wife cus she called the fool out from where he was drinking in a joint after work while the children were hungry when they came back from schl.

mindgamers:



Very thoughtful of you but I don't want to make this look a bd to her or kinda astounding so I won't ( I just dey swallow the stress, make she no come dey remind me how thing be). increasing her monthlyy allowee, I won't even tell her why but codedly I know whtsup.

Op, u are a good and wise man. More blsgs.

pocohantas:
Some people just ignore this thread sha.

Change the topic now to “my wife is denying me sex”, they will land like eagle to tell you she isn’t overworked.

Oya OP tell us, as body dey you now, to knack be your problem? Toor! Any man that thinks it is easy to handle the home should do it for 1week. Only to come up with healthy meals for the family can make you have headache sef.

Those guys that have the mouth to say she is not overworked, check it, most of them are single guys just running their mouths aimlessly. The married ones amongst them are slave drivers and people that believe because they paid brideprice, they can do as they like.

Instead of that op to think of how to take off some stress from his wife and make her life easy, he is only concerned about sex. Just leave him for one day with the kids and chores, he won't even be able to get 'it' up.

mariahAngel:


Women have been doing that already and theirs as well .... welcome to the new age!

We know his real agenda. Forget that he commended the wife. He had to disguise to make his real agenda known. You can imagine saying something about not letting it get to her head.

Men's role...isn't it working and bringing money home? Women are doing that as well as handling the home front. Some men will never be appreciative no matter what.

jornwhite:





TBH their is no easy role, nd its gud you're appreciating ur wife, i don't think women will find men's role easy as well.
Appreciate your wife and support her when necessary buh don't go overboard ... be guided so she doesnt get entitled or let tinz get into her head, save us all the stress of reading "i opened a new account".


consider it an opinion.

@bolded This is not the 1800s when men had to build houses with their hands, plant yams and cassava with their hands and go hunting in the forest.

In case you haven't noticed, we are in the 21st century where women go to work alongside men and still come home to take care of the kids and the home. We are basically performing your role and ours at the same time, so that statement was both ignorant and stupid.

You guys will never admit that you have it good.

mindgamers:



Very thoughtful of you but I don't want to make this look a bd to her or kinda astounding so I won't ( I just dey swallow the stress, make she no come dey remind me how thing be). increasing her monthlyy allowee, I won't even tell her why but codedly I know whtsup.

What is wrong with you genuinely appreciating her and stating the reason if you think she deserves it?

mariahAngel:


Women have been doing that already and theirs as well .... welcome to the new age!

See weytin English cause .... " women are doing it" is not the same meaning as "finding it easy"
women also provide just as men and some women are even breadwinners today buh 90% of them don't it easy hence why they easily nag and transfer aggression on the unfortuante man/husband. comprehension is key

jornwhite:



See weytin English cause .... " women are doing it" is not the same meaning as "finding it easy"
women also provide just as men and some women are even breadwinners today buh 90% of them don't it easy hence why they easily nag and transfer aggression on the unfortuante man/husband. comprehension is key

Is it easier for men?

Unfortunate husband?
Rather, unfortunate is the woman/wife whose wickedly inconsiderate husband demands that she shares in his responsibility, coupled with hers , and still expect her to do it happily.
Women shouldn't be breadwinners, they're helpers.

bukatyne:


What is wrong with you genuinely appreciating her and stating the reason if you think she deserves it?

You asked exactly what I had in mind...
I am just so over how unappreciative most men can be.

God bless you.

Clicked:


@bolded This is not the 1800s when men had to build houses with their hands, plant yams and cassava with their hands and go hunting in the forest.

In case you haven't noticed, we are in the 21st century where women go to work alongside men and still come home to take care of the kids and the home. We are basically performing your role and ours at the same time, so that statement was both ignorant and stupid.

You guys will never admit that you have it good.

Seem social has a way of amplifying and creating a delusional world, well the last time i was on a construction site, men were still building with hands and it might burst your head to know in 2020, local govt stil send men to patch up pot holes with manually. maybe becos i don't live or stay in banana island.
No one is disputing women go to work just as men buh even in the offices most of the post women occupy affiliates with feminine roles, ever wonder why men in offices earn more than women in same offices. women provide buh it basically under no choice circumstance

mindgamers:



Very thoughtful of you but I don't want to make this look a bd to her or kinda astounding so I won't ( I just dey swallow the stress, make she no come dey remind me how thing be). increasing her monthlyy allowee, I won't even tell her why but codedly I know whtsup.

Don't be unappreciative and ungrateful.
Money is not everything.
It takes maturity to acknowledge and appreciate people for their efforts, how much more your wife and the mother of your children.

mariahAngel:


Don't be unappreciative and ungrateful.
Money is not everything.
It takes maturity to acknowledge and appreciate people for their efforts, how much more your wife and the mother of your children.

I've been n still very appreciative but I just don't want to go overboard on this. If I have to sing her praises to her ears with the level of inconveniences and stress I'm feeling now , it will be so loud n that could get into her head. n women never forget.

in between, I've been very supportive with house chores, just bearing it alone this time kinda weigh me down and I realise that just providing money for the family needs is not just enough as a man, we need to be more supportive practically.

mariahAngel:


Is it easier for men?

Unfortunate husband?
Rather, unfortunate is the woman/wife whose wickedly inconsiderate husband demands that she shares in his responsibility, coupled with hers , and still expect her to do it happily.
Women shouldn't be breadwinners, they're helpers.

From the way nigerian women make demands it most be very easy for men, i am @ mall for a quick bite, its quiet surprising all men with women here seems to be the one pulling out atm, the ladies are just looking like females making money is not easy buh men find it easy to drop.
I don't need to be omniscience or omnipresent to figure the expression & aggression on ur face when you typed the last paragraph, aunty calm down, i did not ask you to provide Men are providers, they av no business doing all those chores wish they do.

jornwhite:





From the way nigerian women make demands it most be very easy for men, i am @ mall for a quick bite, its quiet surprising all men with women here seems to be the one pulling out atm, the ladies are just looking like females making money is not easy buh men find it easy to drop. I don't need to be omniscience or omnipresent to figure the expression & aggression on ur face when you typed the last paragraph, aunty calm down, i did not ask you to provide Men are providers, they av no business doing all those chores wish they do.

Don't be delusional. You'd have to mean something to me to be worthy of those expressions from me.

mariahAngel:


Don't be delusional. You'd have to mean something to me to be worthy of those expressions from me.

Wow !! that was ?? if i scan my laptop hard drive it will take aprox. 30min, can't believe you scanned ur heart within 1min n you're telling me i mean nothing to you its either there is nothing in ur heart or you run a fake scan sha calm down he won't ask you to provide

mindgamers:


thanks, I'm patiently waiting. I even mistake tomorrow to be Friday while talking with my wife over the phone, lol.

Hello, I will love to ask you something. Tag me anytime you are online. My reply may delay a bit as I don't frequent here regularly these days, I apologise in advance.

mindgamers:
being a woman /housewife is not a joke oo, my wife has been gone for 3 days now on a compulsory trip and I feel my whole life is on a pause.

with five children , the youngest (2yrs) is the most reason I feel this way. I wouldn't want to put him in a day care so as to go to work because I'm afraid of the dreaded covid, so I chose to stay off work for 8 days to take care of him , it's been very stressful and I realise what women go through in putting house inorder is not a joke, it's a real work and should be well compensated.

hence, I've decided to increase my wife monthly income and to respect *more* the roles she plays in building my home, to all SURE mothers out there, kudos to you all.

Awww . . . Welldone!

The funny thing is that we actually enjoy it.

mindgamers:
being a woman /housewife is not a joke oo, my wife has been gone for 3 days now on a compulsory trip and I feel my whole life is on a pause.

with five children , the youngest (2yrs) is the most reason I feel this way. I wouldn't want to put him in a day care so as to go to work because I'm afraid of the dreaded covid, so I chose to stay off work for 8 days to take care of him , it's been very stressful and I realise what women go through in putting house inorder is not a joke, it's a real work and should be well compensated.

hence, I've decided to increase my wife monthly income and to respect *more* the roles she plays in building my home, to all SURE mothers out there, kudos to you all.

kudos to you. hope you haven't reneged on your promises

RightToReject:
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Why do I keep seeing Right-to-use Asset ... IFRS 16 - Leases is fvcking with me so seriously!!
ur moniker ehhhh !!

mindgamers:


knack ke.. any free time na to catch up with my lost sleep tiredness won't let my tin reason am

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I love the bolded part

OP, you should have a gift waiting for your wife upon her return.

Romantic and motivating to the Mum !